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Posted: 14 years ago
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To all supporters of J loves G, pls define LOVE

Love is sharing your life, dreams, ambitions, fears, life with another person. It is completed by physical relationship...just the physical act does not define love...

If love changes as per the direction of wind how can something be built on its trust...

Marriage is one of the toughest relationship... all the phases in marriage is not as exciting as the newly married phase...with years the relationship strengthens but does go through its pit falls, both partners get frustrated with each other, have conflict in opinions, views.

The physical attraction which makes the newly wedded more exciting also fades with time...when couple get frustrated and upset with each other then it is the past good times, their love, care and support for each other holds them together...its their good times that gives them strength to go through the rough times.. both the partners meet attractive people through out their life...what will happen if they keep jumping to the attractive person they meet every time

Man gets bored with monotony...a married life falls to the category of monotony very soon...their are days u say "i love u " to each other, their are months u don't say that becoz u already know it. Things shine a lot when they are new, with time it loses its shine ( however well maintained) but definitely becomes close to you becoz of the time shared with it...

J is a person who loves things till the shine lasts...he was in love with A...No denying that...But when he went to a glittery world, with more glittery people his love for Anandi faded...He is like a kid who loves new toys everytime...G had stars in her eyes, new dreams...and J fell in love...I am not saying he will leave G immediately...Once things fall in place, they settle down comfortably, the worry for everyday's expenditure is replaced by wealth and when children come in picture, then the stars in G's eyes will not be so bright as today...Women however modern, educated are in general very commited(exceptions are always there)...she will have normal wishes, normal responsibilities and will want her husband to share the same...But her husband who loves new things and bright eyes will not be so happy about it...he will definitely think about the good times with G and go on...But when another girl with stars in her eyes comes in his life again, he will again be confused...

J is a person who lives in present... past always takes a back seat and is re adjusted suiting his present...he is not used of thinking and feeling for anyone other than himself...Yes J does know to love but alas not G but himself...

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Posted: 14 years ago
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As if my final exams were not enough... here again people asking questions...😆😆

Love has no Definition...right now only definitions I can think of is of bond ratings, stock valuations and time value of money...😆 sorry...

Frankly, when I saw this post the first thing that came to my mind...this 90's classic by Haddaway

Love is Music 😉

Have fun 😉

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0YXuq25BMVI[/YOUTUBE]
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Very well said Vasu, J only knows how to love himself and no one else.

If he ever loved Anandi I don't know, but he never loved Gauri as well.

The same amount of concern or love or what ever " emotion" he showed towards Anandi, after they met after 5 years.

He is showing the same thing to Gauri so what ever u know. For him its just as you said,

NOW,

and for him everything that glitters is gold.






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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: divmath

As if my final exams were not enough... here again people asking questions...😆😆


Love has no Definition...right now only definitions I can think of is of bond ratings, stock valuations and time value of money...😆 sorry...

Frankly, when I saw this post the first thing that came to my mind...this 90's classic by Haddaway

Love is Music 😉

Have fun 😉

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0YXuq25BMVI[/YOUTUBE]



Hmmm love your determination to stick to ur point...I will keep trying...I have to agree that u keep the forum interesting...because of your rock hard support for J we have learned

legalities about child marriage
analysed self centered characters
analysed women's state of mind educated/ uneducated

pls continue to stick to ur point... it will be so boring if everyone start writing J is rotten slimy thing...counter arguments make the forum interesting...

things apart, All the best for your exams dear...I am professionally a designer and I am so scared all the things you are studying right now...Wow dear you know it sounds so cool to me...I used to get fever when I had maths exams... ALL THE BEST for your exams...take care
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i think me and divya have given hundreds of explanations, now no need of giving them , why bother writing same thing again and again
as the story progresses , we will see whether he truly loves gauri or not, till then just chill 😆
at present it certainly looks like it does,
and he does not love anandi, no doubt abt that.
if he had he would never have left her😊
i think he loves gauri , and time will prove someone wrong , u or me, so lets be patient
and j is not a evil person, i beleive he will be a very good husband to gauri ,
Edited by intruderfast - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Intruderfast

argument makes the forum alive...other wise whats the fun...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: intruderfast

i think me and divya have given hundreds of explanations, now no need of giving them , why bother writing same thing again and again
as the story progresses , we will see whether he truly loves gauri or not, till then just chill 😆
at present it certainly looks like it does,

and he does not love anandi, no doubt abt that.
if he had he would never have left her😊
i think he loves gauri , and time will prove someone wrong , u or me, so lets be patient
and j is not a evil person, i believe he will be a very good husband to gauri ,



Thank God i've found some thing to agree with you on.
let wait and see what CV has for us.
i dont think jagya understands and knows what love is...so for me, if for any reason...want-so-ever Jagya and Gauri separate in this show...it should be clear that he was just attracted to her but he never loves her...right?
Even if she turns negative! because love never dies right?
just like Anandi, if one day Gauri is not making Jagya happy and he leave her...that just means he never loved her right?
Thank you Intruderfast for your suggestion.👏.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: avyarima



Thank God i've found some thing to agree with you on.
let wait and see what CV has for us.
i dont think jagya understands and knows what love is...so for me, if for any reason...want-so-ever Jagya and Gauri separate in this show...it should be clear that he was just attracted to her but he never loves her...right?
Even if she turns negative! because love never dies right?
just like Anandi, if one day Gauri is not making Jagya happy and he leave her...that just means he never loved her right?

Thank you Intruderfast for your suggestion.👏.

yesh finally both opposition parties come to a settlement yipee😃😆😆 @bold , absolutely , if this happens, i willl kill him and take gauri with me😎
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Posted: 14 years ago
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One old Hindi song says--Zindagi sirf Muhabbat nahin kuchh aur bhi hai,
Zulfo-rukhsaar ki jannat nahin kuchh aur bhi hai.
Bhookh aur pyas se maari hui is duniya mein,
Ishq hi ek hakkikat nahin,
kuchh aur bhi hai.
Gauri and Jagya could be truly in love... their love might be all and more the kind Mills and Boons and Bollywood keep telling us about...Gauri could be the soulmate he was searching for last six janmas...What difference does it make? Even at the cost of personal sorrow one must always do what one should do, rather than what one wants to do. You are lucky if your desires and duties match, but it may not happen always. i am not talking about short term, but long term peace and true happiness comes only when you do the Right Thing.
Humans are blessed with the beautiful emotion called Love but we are also blessed with Will.

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