Love is sharing your life, dreams, ambitions, fears, life with another person. It is completed by physical relationship...just the physical act does not define love...
If love changes as per the direction of wind how can something be built on its trust...
Marriage is one of the toughest relationship... all the phases in marriage is not as exciting as the newly married phase...with years the relationship strengthens but does go through its pit falls, both partners get frustrated with each other, have conflict in opinions, views.
The physical attraction which makes the newly wedded more exciting also fades with time...when couple get frustrated and upset with each other then it is the past good times, their love, care and support for each other holds them together...its their good times that gives them strength to go through the rough times.. both the partners meet attractive people through out their life...what will happen if they keep jumping to the attractive person they meet every time
Man gets bored with monotony...a married life falls to the category of monotony very soon...their are days u say "i love u " to each other, their are months u don't say that becoz u already know it. Things shine a lot when they are new, with time it loses its shine ( however well maintained) but definitely becomes close to you becoz of the time shared with it...
J is a person who loves things till the shine lasts...he was in love with A...No denying that...But when he went to a glittery world, with more glittery people his love for Anandi faded...He is like a kid who loves new toys everytime...G had stars in her eyes, new dreams...and J fell in love...I am not saying he will leave G immediately...Once things fall in place, they settle down comfortably, the worry for everyday's expenditure is replaced by wealth and when children come in picture, then the stars in G's eyes will not be so bright as today...Women however modern, educated are in general very commited(exceptions are always there)...she will have normal wishes, normal responsibilities and will want her husband to share the same...But her husband who loves new things and bright eyes will not be so happy about it...he will definitely think about the good times with G and go on...But when another girl with stars in her eyes comes in his life again, he will again be confused...
J is a person who lives in present... past always takes a back seat and is re adjusted suiting his present...he is not used of thinking and feeling for anyone other than himself...Yes J does know to love but alas not G but himself...