BV WU: 27th May '11 - Page 4

Originally posted by: vidyasu1

JUst one question to you intruder: I am not scolding you but am just curious. On uttaran forum, you hated Tapu because her shaadi was based on deception. She lies through her teeth all the time. Yet you are okay with lying, deceiving Jagya? Wonder why? The fellow has never told anything but lies to gauri so how does their jodi become wonderful? Am not quarreling but genuinely curious to understand this seeming fallacy.

Anandi is def. not running after Jagya any more. If Jagat were to marry gauri and come on the door steps she will just silently step aside. She is a person filled with Dignity.. thats why i love her so much

@suchi @piyo

Originally posted by: vidyasu1

@suchi @piyo

I think we need to be far more appreciative of anandi than we are on the forum.Suchi, piyo am sure you'd agree. As Suchi pointed out, A has conducted herself with so much dignity. She did cry but which wife wouldn't if her husband spoke such cruel words to her: I don't know of any modern, progressive, urban wife, who will simply shrug it all off-- the insults, the deception, the pain -- and happily move on. My friends in similar situation have found it hard to cope, and especially where there are children, there is always an effort to compromise.

Yet GANWAR Anandi has been immensely brave in deciding to move on. Like Gauri, she could have wanted revenge against Jagya. I would think the betrayal of A was far greater for they have been married for 16 years. He had conjugal relations with her and she repeatedly sacrificed for him. Gauri has had it easier by comparison. She got to study and is a qualified doctor. Yet all she wants is sindoor and mangalsutra. Bravo Anandi for rubbing off the sindoor. What terrific symbolism where an EDUCATED gauri is willingly accepting sindoor from a rascal, coward like Jagya. From this point I have little sympathy for Gauri. She could have been dignfified and walked out and finsihed her MS. Instead she chose revenge.which obviously means the end of her studies. The irony here is really great: Uneducated anandi wiping off her sindoor to study further. Educated progressive GAGA returning to haveli abandoning their studies.

Before asking Anandi to stop crying and move on, let us look at how Gauri behaved when confronted with betrayal. She was sweet and giggly and stupid only as long as all was well. She created far worse ruckus than A ever did when the truth hit her. I do hope she doesn't harm Anandi who was ever so nice to her. That would be just terrible to Anandi who has suffered enough.

@vidyasu

I haven't been more disappointed with any other character than I am going to be if G gets married to J. I will totally loose all my respect and sympathy if she is dumb enough to forgive him and get married to him. For that matter even if she marries him with a sole intention to take revenge will the most foolish thing she could do to herself in my POV. She is only going to make her life worse than it is and this time it is entirely her fault. She has the decision in her hands and she can very well dump him and move on. Finish her MS and settle down with a much more deserving person. She is too good a girl to sacrifice her life for that looser of a guy. I totally agree with Jyothi, that G is very weak to shed buckets of tears in one 30 min episode. A is much more mature, sensible and strong willed to be able to hold her head high and give herself another chance to rectify all her mistakes. This, in spite of all that she has gone through.

I had so much of hopes that G would teach J a lesson and have a spine to stand for herself and for all that she believes and says. But sad to see that she will eventually not stand by what she claims to strongly believe in. What happened about that big bhashan she gave when J told her about his imaginary friend? When it comes to herself she is quick in making a convenient exception? She is going to make this exception because she was married to J as a child? really? so where's her dislike to the child marriage issue? Hats off to her.

There is a saying bure sangat ka asar bura hota hein and that's precisely what G is going to prove if she lands up with J. And for that sake yes they are a perfect couple, fit for each other. (soory guys for the harsh words I am just too disappointed with the CV's way of handling the track and how they have turned G character)

pjyo, you have completely misunderstood me. I know what your views are and in fact I was appreciating you and suchi for the stands you have taken. I can't believe the exact opposite meaning has been read into my post.. If a lot of what I said sounded like what you have said before, it is because I agree with your points. And when I said Anandi should be appreciated more, I meant in the forum which seems tilted in favour of Gauri. Anandi is not understood and empathised with enough: most posts talk about how they can't bear her rony surat and fast forward her scenes etc. I had all this in mind when I wrote but made it general because I didnt want to name anybody. I named you because It was in support. PLEASE I AM SORRY I F I HAVE INADVERTENTLY HURT YOU when in fact I was writing in support. Same with Suchi: I appreciate her postive stand.:))) SORRY AGAIN

@vudayssuwow u think the forum is totally in favour of gauri, how can u say that