BV Written Update: 3rd May 2011 - Page 3

Originally posted by: intruderfast

i am missing jagya , yaar he is entertaining .atleast 2 episodes without him , i am bored of this cryingfest🥱

and i knew dadisa would blame anandi 4 this, u wanna bet , she would do anything to get her laadla back , she will happily accept jag and gauri in future

I disagree, she did not blame Anandi...she just pointed out that if Anandi had not insisted she would have had a husband in Jaitser but it was brought on by seeing Anandi in that state and said with sorrow and despair not with the look of 'I told you so and now you have not only lost a husband but taken our Jagya away from us...so why are you crying"...for me that is the difference...maybe others will have a different view...One must remember that Maasa cannot change her character overnight but she has been supportive of Anandi and feels for her.

Even accepting Jagya is not entirely unexpected...he is her grandson...and she has always loved him and given in to him...but I am a bit skeptical about her acceptance of Gauri. Lets see what happens

i liked the anandi ke bapu part..it was really touching..and also the gehna-basanth interaction..gehna is very correct..basanth treats jagya like a son bt there is no guarantee of jagya giving basanth a father's respect..

Originally posted by: pjyo

Dadisa's reaction to anandi bringing tea was really emotional, for once she did cry out of sadness for anandi but she still thinks anandi is somehow responsible..🤔 Massa doesnt realise its not anandi's big dreams for her beend that caused this situation but jagya's self-centeredness .If anandi had pursued her own dreams with the same determination as she supported her husband's she wouldn't be left so far behind in life for jagya to call her 'ganwaar'..

Maybe massa will realize this slowly and support anandi whenever she decides to study further😍.Hopefully i'll wait for a day when maasa says to a successful anandi,"Tuney mhaarey khaandaan kaa naam roshan kiya hai chhori" ..

That would for me be the highlight of this serial if it were to ever happen...and what a great message to all those in similar situations...well said pjyo👏

Originally posted by: groucho

I disagree, she did not blame Anandi...she just pointed out that if Anandi had not insisted she would have had a husband in Jaitser but it was brought on by seeing Anandi in that state and said with sorrow and despair not with the look of 'I told you so and now you have not only lost a husband but taken our Jagya away from us...so why are you crying"...for me that is the difference...maybe others will have a different view...One must remember that Maasa cannot change her character overnight but she has been supportive of Anandi and feels for her.

Even accepting Jagya is not entirely unexpected...he is her grandson...and she has always loved him and given in to him...but I am a bit skeptical about her acceptance of Gauri. Lets see what happens

well i feel it was an indirect blame on anandi ,and bhairon righly corrected maasa ok maybe now she will not accept gauri lekin when she comes to know gauri is gudiya tab toh she will definately support them, i can bet my house on that😆😆

Originally posted by: intruderfast

well i feel it was an indirect blame on anandi ,and bhairon righly corrected maasa ok maybe now she will not accept gauri lekin when she comes to know gauri is gudiya tab toh she will definately support them, i can bet my house on that😆😆

You do have an instinct for these things but I am going to hope that you are wrong...no offense meant to your prediction...I hope if that does happen, Anandi will have told Jagya to take a flying leap and found herself a real hunk...so one way or the other it won't have any effect on her...😊

Originally posted by: groucho

That would for me be the highlight of this serial if it were to ever happen...and what a great message to all those in similar situations...well said pjyo👏

The CVs have to show something on these lines because the reality of this situation is anandi is the one who has lost out on everything because of this child marriage-gauri and jagya too are victims of this evil custom but they are educated and have a career to look forward to,anandi doesnt have that luxury in life.A good hearted,,talented ,intelligent person like her certainly deserves better in life..🤔

Originally posted by: pjyo

The CVs have to show something on these lines because the reality of this situation is anandi is the one who has lost out on everything because of this child marriage-gauri and jagya too are victims of this evil custom but they are educated and have a career to look forward to,anandi doesnt have that luxury in life.A good hearted,,talented ,intelligent person like her certainly deserves better in life..🤔

Whatever may be the outcome of jagat gauri relationship these two will move forward in life as they have been educated but no such option for anandi.This situation should be a lesson to people who marry off their girls at a young age without getting them educated,bad things do happen in life and its best to be prepared and to give the girl child equal oppurtunity and a sound educational foundation in life is the best option..🤔

That would be the ideal situation ...sadly the reality is that it is easier said than done...so within the restrictions of each family's thinking...let this be a message which they can learn from and aspire to do the best they can for their child...You are again spot on...about bad things happening and how sadly these kids are equipped to handle it...hopefully the NGO's who work their hearts out in a this thankless job(at times) and I salute them ...need to get heavy handed and paint a very bleak future for the families who do not learn from these mistakes

Originally posted by: groucho

That would be the ideal situation ...sadly the reality is that it is easier said than done...so within the restrictions of each family's thinking...let this be a message which they can learn from and aspire to do the best they can for their child...You are again spot on...about bad things happening and how sadly these kids are equipped to handle it...hopefully the NGO's who work their hearts out in a this thankless job(at times) and I salute them ...need to get heavy handed and paint a very bleak future for the families who do not learn from these mistakes

The situation may never be ideal grouchoji but inspite of whatever the CVs may churn out i still keep hoping for a better future for anandi with Dadisa supporting someday.. Maybe its hoping for utopia but still ...