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sonia77

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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: andv
Hi Sonia77, I loved your post and agree to everything you said except that Gauri and Jagat should eventually be together. Please don't get me wrong I dont support Jagya and anandi being together coz as you rightly mentioned, it will send out a wrong message. I love Gauri's character infact more than Anandi's and hence I feel she deserves someone much much better. Though the chemistry between G&J is awesome and Jagat loves Gauri but can we really say who Gauri loves? She loves Jagat who is a bundle of lies. Will she be able to live a happy married life with him and his family once she gets to know his truth? the poort girl is finding it difficut to keep her mind out of those bad memories, how is she going to re-live all those memories every single day of her life if she marries Jagat? I feel that a girl like her can get a far far better person and that will be a lesson for a cheat like Jagat. Moreover in my opinion i feel that it would also send a wrong message if J&G marry that no matter how much a person lies and cheats he will eventually get what he wants. Oops! don't i sound like a big Gauri fan😲?

Andv..i agree with you mostly..i like gauri too...i respect her...but you see its the child marriage that has indirectly led jagiya into the lies and arrogant attitude he has today..he was a good kid..he loved or probably still loves his family...he wanted to become a doctor...so good for him...as far as i can remember he hesitated bigtime initially when gauri disclosed her feelings to him..and she came on to him quite a bit if i'm not wrong...but obviously eventually he couldnt hold back....keeping his attitude aside there is no doubt in my mind that the fellow loves gauri sincerely!.and rightly so i feel..fair enough....however lets see how the creatives balance the issue out...please dont get me wrong out here ..i am by no means trying to justify jagiyas character..but i do feel very strongly that this show has an obligation to its viewers..and that would be to send the right message across..and i see no other way then to seperate and break this child marriage!!!..and to show what are the repurcussions of such like ill practices.other shows like uttaran show utter rubbish..illogical happenings..useless drama.. negativity..and god knows what..but lets face it..they have never claimed to send a message through their show..so at the end of the day...they have no obligation..its really upto viewers what they want to make or take out of it..😉..and if you ask me they expect their viewers to take it with a pinch of salt in that case..as its nothing but a laugh..😉but out here...its a different scenario..everyday the show ends with a message..and lets face it..the base of the show is to show the negative effects of child marriage....so there you go....

Anyway..its going to be intresting to see how they handle it...😊

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divmath

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Posted: 14 years ago

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@sonia77

Agree with all your points...and to add to what you said...as I see it...Jagya never loved Anandi in the first place...they were just friends in the beginning...as they grew up they developed a bond...when they entered teenage it turned into an attraction...which most of the teens undergo...a normal process...but after Jagya moved to mumbai, he found love....he discovered himself, a whole new world with choices galore....he realized that he never had an option to chose his life partner....its not that he jumped at the first given opportunity, he did try and avoid Gauri for a while, as he was guilt ridden, however he eventually gave in because he fell in love with Gauri...I dont see that as wrong...every guy or girl for that matter has a right to chose their life partner....what I dont understand is his arrogant behavior towards Anandi and his family..thats something unacceptable....Jagya lying to Gauri is merely because he is scared of losing her, he has told this many times...that he cannot live without her and that very fear is not letting him tell her the truth, however he doesnt realise that this very web of lies will take her far away from him one day.....As for Anandi she just lives in a dreamland...A person who is in constant denial, doesnt know the meaning of self respect, she only knows to cry buckets and please others..I dont have any respect, sympathy or liking for such characters....so the less said the better...I hate Anandi for giving up her studies, for not standing up for herself, she just knows to give lengthy discourses...and then tain tain phisss.....so she deserves whatever is coming her way....guess she has to learn the lesson the hard way...so be it...for Jagya all I have to say is...he needs to get his act together and muster some courage to face Gauri as well as his family and come out with the truth....I know Gauri might not forgive him, she is one strong gal with her principles intact, I love her character....but you know sometimes...love actually takes over your emotions...so who knows Jag-Gauri might just end up together (my wish..hope they do 😍 )

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andv

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Andv..i agree with you mostly..i like gauri too...i respect her...but you see its the child marriage that has indirectly led jagiya into the lies and arrogant attitude he has today..he was a good kid..he loved or probably still loves his family...he wanted to become a doctor...so good for him...as far as i can remember he hesitated bigtime initially when gauri disclosed her feelings to him..and she came on to him quite a bit if i'm not wrong...but obviously eventually he couldnt hold back....keeping his attitude aside there is no doubt in my mind that the fellow loves gauri sincerely!.and rightly so i feel..fair enough....however lets see how the creatives balance the issue out...please dont get me wrong out here ..i am by no means trying to justify jagiyas character..but i do feel very strongly that this show has an obligation to its viewers..and that would be to send the right message across..and i see no other way then to seperate and break this child marriage!!!..and to show what are the repurcussions of such like ill practices.other shows like uttaran show utter rubbish..illogical happenings..useless drama.. negativity..and god knows what..but lets face it..they have never claimed to send a message through their show..so at the end of the day...they have no obligation..its really upto viewers what they want to make or take out of it..😉..and if you ask me they expect their viewers to take it with a pinch of salt in that case..as its nothing but a laugh..😉but out here...its a different scenario..everyday the show ends with a message..and lets face it..the base of the show is to show the negative effects of child marriage....so there you go....

Anyway..its going to be intresting to see how they handle it...😊

Hey sonia, I agree with your reasoning in the change of attitude that Jagya has developed in the past years. It ultimately depends on how each person faces a new situation and eventually develops their personality in the process. Hope the creatives dont mess the show and pass on a good message maintaining a realistic approach.

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xxxangelxx

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

i think dat he will first pick Gauri cause he's blind in her love and dosent notice dat anandi is still his wife and luvs him very much also cause gauri is educated but i think dat there would be a twist to the story like Gauri turns out to be dat gurl he was forced to marry but got saved by his family and so da gurls parents were humillated and da gurl promised to get revenge bt i am not entirely sure bout it bt if dat happens i'll be the one laughin jst to see jagya's expression of how he was betrayed by his so called love😆

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PKYEK100

@PKYEK100

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Posted: 14 years ago

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@divmath-
i agree what u have said about anandi....and one view i want to put from side in jagya character..........u said that Jagya never loved Anandi , in this case i dont agree with u.......i have one proof.............do u know that when jagya anandi was seperated for 8yrs after that jagya told anandi that he missed her so much and he used to see her by hiding and luvs a lots to her............if it was only attracted to anandi then he could not wait for her and see her by hidding from her...........when they went to mombai also they have good bonding...........he used to say her that he couldnot live without her etc...............
Now where is his luv gone...........he is such a the guy who is always in dilemma and cannot take a right decision..........truly saying he was always attracted with gauri but he couldnot say anything to her but when she purposed him , he was very and happy that if girl like him and prupused him Why he cant say yes, so he hide his identity...............he is shame of his identiy that his family is backwards and illiterate and doesn't know anything so he show arrogant behavior to family ...........mainly he cannot luv anyone,he is selfish guy,,,,,,,,he should be beaten by this two girls..........he is playing with the life of this two girls for his one wise..............i agree whatever gauri said in last episoid to jagya in car about the guy which jagya was sayng to her.............
so at the end of the show i want jagya to be alone.....this is just my view..................sry if i offend u......

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PKYEK100

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: TANUM
ANANDI may be brought to mumbai for treatment in the same hospital where gauri is undergoing treatment.

may be gauri will see bhairon and recognize him.

the secert of jagiya will be known by bade papa.

hmm might be.........both in the same hospitel and jagya going here and their ......

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divmath

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: nirma1
@divmath-
i agree what u have said about anandi....and one view i want to put from side in jagya character..........u said that Jagya never loved Anandi , in this case i dont agree with u.......i have one proof.............do u know that when jagya anandi was seperated for 8yrs after that jagya told anandi that he missed her so much and he used to see her by hiding and luvs a lots to her............if it was only attracted to anandi then he could not wait for her and see her by hidding from her...........when they went to mombai also they have good bonding...........he used to say her that he couldnot live without her etc...............
Now where is his luv gone...........he is such a the guy who is always in dilemma and cannot take a right decision..........truly saying he was always attracted with gauri but he couldnot say anything to her but when she purposed him , he was very and happy that if girl like him and prupused him Why he cant say yes, so he hide his identity...............he is shame of his identiy that his family is backwards and illiterate and doesn't know anything so he show arrogant behavior to family ...........mainly he cannot luv anyone,he is selfish guy,,,,,,,,he should be beaten by this two girls..........he is playing with the life of this two girls for his one wise..............i agree whatever gauri said in last episoid to jagya in car about the guy which jagya was sayng to her.............
so at the end of the show i want jagya to be alone.....this is just my view..................sry if i offend u......

Why should I be offended nirma1? 😊 its your pov and I respect that...everyone has a different way of looking at things and thats what makes these discussions fun...you feel Jagya loved Anandi, thats perfectly fine......but I feel otherwise......just a matter of different perspectives...any which ways, the show is damn interesting with lots of twists and turns ahead...should be fun to watch....but I hope the CV's maintain and stick to the original message of showing evils of child marriage through this show and not make it another boring same old ghisi piti love story, where the hero realizes his mistake and the heroine forgives him...that's so cliche and mediocre.....I definitely would not want to see that...

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Sylvia Jayalakshmi Abraham

@bluedollie

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Posted: 14 years ago

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i read the article..what is this..??? 😕 live in relationship??? and gauri even agreed to it?!?! jagya & gauri r supposed to be from a extemely traditional background....so why they have to do this...?? its not like theyr poor afterall they r gg for their postgrad...😆 arent they other men/womens independ hostels any paying guest accom??? jagya will choose gauri only i know after she is his CURRENT object of affection....😡 🤢

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