So why then is she so upset when she was looking at her childhood marriage pictures with J. to say that at childhood her happiness was taken from her and she wont let that happen again.
If she had gotten married she would never had the opportunity to go to college and become a doctor and have the freedom that she has.. Poor A. wasn't even allowed to finish her school forget about college.
She needs to be grateful for A. that she if had gotten married to J. then her and A. both would have been in her shoes. He would have fallen in love with someone else.