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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: purvim

true i am agree with you lekin yahan hum Gauri ko kuchh bhi nahi kahe rahe hai jobhi kuchh hua hai usmein jagyaa ka hi pura ka pura dosh hai. bas jagya hi hai jo beigaani shadi mein deewana ho raha hai.

Yes Dear We are not blaming Gauri at All and We should not...Even Shes being cheated badly..Dunni how this Girl gonna react When she'll know the Big lie of Jagya....But I was just talking abour those Jagya's Friends And Generally in society its Blames The Girl only all time...Thats why...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: pjyo

Agree👍🏼 those guys are have no clue who gauri is but they quickly decide she is bad character 😲 ..that way they can blame her for their friend jagya cheating ,even though he is completely to blame for as he is the one hiding his marital status..

Everybody is so quick to blame the girls with" that loose character woman trapped my
poor husband " mentality ..in cases of eve teasing girls are blamed for dressing provocatively not the roadside romeos 😲...

Exactly..There you are...This is what I meant and BV's writers shown this Typical & obvious Mentality of Society to put all Blame Woman clearly..It gives the Future indication Also...That In this whole Jagya's lie Mess Gauri Gonna blame by everyone For sure ..Even shes not bit culprit in anything as such...Nobody will look at Lie Jagya; did..Afcorse he'll be scold and all...But Normally the Symathy is with Wife..so even Jagya's family will be blaming Gauri to trap Jagya May be...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: divmath

SG & Jyo


I echo you girls !!!!!....how could Jagya's friends be so judgmental about Gauri....how can one just blindly blame a girl without knowing the whole story....its shocking and sad.....and makes me angry...😡

Yeah..Even It made me angry on them..They were right everything they said beside this Comment on Gauri..I liked Jagya's reaction there...(But I wish he be the same & stand for Gauri all the time like this..😳Not leave it when As we say Cat out of Bag...)And Its not so Divya that They dont know the Fact ..They know How Jagya hide his Identity at Mumbai (Laal singh told them na) etc..So they should be aware That Even That girl is being Cheated..I wish theh showed them More responsible To First Inform Both the LADIES about the Biggest Cheating happening with them..C'mon You just cat leave with by Passing sarcastic comments on Jagya and say hes not same..If you guys are really worried for Aanandi tell her...About Jagya ASAP...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: anu rulz

its typical attitude yaar..it ruins ur mood bt its unfortunately true..its ALWAYS the girl..typical college gossip i remember is tht if a girl says yes,she is an easy lay and if she refuses,thn she is a tease..i cud go on and on guys...college years the only thing sttopping me frm taking a supari out on all guys on earth was my beau..knwing him,i accepted tht there ARE real guys..tho few..am not sayin all girls are blameless,there ARE girls who enjoy being teases bt to every one girl like tht there are 10 studs roaming arnd being proud of how many girls they have had "fun" wid..

these guys know NIL abt "girls like gauri",never met her bt so easy to blame sum1,being judgemental as compared to accepting tht their "friend" is to blame..

So nice to Read you Anu....see Now even we all say Its TYPICAL....Its all Typical for So called Man dominating society I Think....to blame Girls Tease /Abuse/Bit /Cheat /treat the way you want is so obvious now...Very Few & Rare - Real MAN are there around us on Whom we can be proud ..
@ Bold - Cant be more agree on this...I second you...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: fiddub

very right gurls. this society is so against girls that even if they have nothing to do with a situation, those girls will somehow be dragged into it and blamed. actually i wish yesterday's message too held such a lesson. and about jagya's friends, i think in a way it shows the image of city girls in the mind of village people. they think that city girls are always fallin for some or the other guy everyday. sigh. This world is not enough.

Yeah Its image of city Girls Plus the Mentality of Society That the OTHER woman in Man;s life is alwaya bad & Spoiled to be with Married man...See the Man Who him self got involve...Nobody can force to be in any relations..But they thinks Other Girl spoiles man And his Married life....Thats why I said Na..see yr Friend ..How hes happy to lie and create such mess..Blame him Not Gauri...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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yeah and may be again anandi will support gauri like she did when she was young.

Its typical attitude about blaming girls


Here the only person who is at fault is Jagya and child marriage I believe has nothing really to do with it.
Once a cheater is always a cheater
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Suchi-NivReniac

yeah and may be again anandi will support gauri like she did when she was young.


Its typical attitude about blaming girls


Here the only person who is at fault is Jagya and child marriage I believe has nothing really to do with it.
Once a cheater is always a cheater


Agree Jagya is cheating both the girls and behaving like a monster....but I disagree with the point that child marriage has got nothing to do with it.....Imagine if Anandi was not his wife and just a girl friend...it would have been easier for him to tell her as well as Gauri that he has fallen for someone else....Its common and happens all the time...specially among teens, one falls in and out of love...but in this case, .Jagya is bound in a marriage and responsibilities that he is not ready for (How many 19 year old boys do we see who have taken up the responsibilities of marriage)...A girl whom he did not choose....even though they have been close to each other...but thats because they grew up together in the same house and hence the bond they share..........Now that Jagya has found love outside...its going to effect all three involved whether he tells the truth or chooses to hide the fact.....what he is doing right now is not correct, he cannot treat Anandi the way he is doing....however he has the right to fall in love and live with whoever he wants to and that right has been taken away from him because of child marriage (hence people accusing him of cheating)............and it is because of the very same child marriage that Anandi's life has become so tragic....if she was not bound in this marriage she would have moved on by now....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree .. But I am unable to digest it...
that how can a person conveniently forget the girl who saved his life.


That shows the extent of his betrayal and ungratefulness

So I am unable to forgive me : (
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Posted: 14 years ago
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divmath and Suchi-NivReniac:
i agree with both of you, Divmath, your very much right in saying that Jagya has the right to choose his life partner, but like suchi said, he shouldnt forget that if not for Anandi and her love for him, he wouldnt even be Alive now, if it werent for Anandi, he wouldnt be studying medicine right now, but would be studying how to cultivate plants and working on his ancestors land doing kheti baadi..
as much as i sympathize with his dilemma, If not for his betrayal to Anandi and Gauri, ungratefulness for the sacrifices that Anandi has done for HIM AND HIS FAMILY's happiness, i wouldnt hate him so much.
UH... did u even see his attitude towards Anandi and Phuli yesterday? he didnt even FLINCH wen dadisa was taunting the poor girls so badly. didnt even look at phooli with kindness, just for the sake of addressing her he spoke to her. He could have asked his dadisa to stop critisising the girls so much. but no, he was almost as if enjoying every bitter word.
That very moment i felt that he very much has the right to fall in love and choose his life partner, but NOT GAURI. He doesnt deserve Gauri in any way. Infact, seeing his attitude with everyone, i think he doesnt REALLY love gauri. its just attraction.

Question is WHOM DO WE BLAME FOR HIS ATTITUDE?
1. His Dadisa? she is just doing what her ancestors have been doing, and is not ready to compromise with her culture for modernity,
2. The society? they too are following ages old customs and traditions passed down from generations and fear that if they stop doing so, the very essence of their culture will vanish.
And yet these very two are to blame for his behaviour, for spoiling him and giving him everythin he asked for, for belittling and disrespecting women infront of him thus teaching him to disregard them. This Jagya is new and different. This is not Jagdish. This new face is Jagat.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@fiddub

I am sorry but I still feel Jagya REALLY loves Gauri....thats just how I look at it....as I said earlier...he NEVER loved Anandi truly...and the bond they shared was only attraction and friendship......I know you think otherwise...but again we have different views on this issue...and I guess to each his own...😊

As far as blaming Jagya's attitude goes, we cant blame just a person........but the whole concept of Child Marriage is to be blamed....if Jag-Anandi were not married when they were kids....this situation wouldnt have occurred at all...but thats the whole premise of this show......to depict the evils of child marriage through a story....and I feel this time the CV's are doing the right thing....albeit they are exaggerating Jagya's behavior and have made him overtly rude (which wasn't necessary at all)...

Whether Jagya should forget Anandi or not is a totally different thing...ideally and morally he shouldn't...but he is just a human after all...every individual makes mistakes....he is not a perfect guy...everyone cannot be like Lal Singh or Bhairon.....and thats what CV's are trying to show....If all child marriages have a happy ending then why fight against the practice? just get all children married...as they will find their ideal partners since childhood like Jagya and Anandi......is that what we want? .....I dont think so !! at least I dont !

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