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Posted: 16 years ago
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I agree with u on some points... Anandi does get a bit rude and immature when she talks with her husband especially in front of his friends and other people. She can be a bit bossy and at times irritating with her 2-min tears. Maasa was right, she listens from one ear and lets it out thru the other. She had to be reprimanded especially in the kind of society they are living. Sumitra is dumb.. its her duty to not just love Anandi but also teach her proper behavior in society. Anandi - Jagdish have to have a friendly relationship but now that they are growing up the 'nakta bandar' and stuff shud be controlled. Don't call husband by name is taking things a bit too far.. but speaking politely def a big YES.
Badi Maasi cuts Maasa's opinions and words badly in front of her family..no wonder Anandi spoke up againt Maasa right in front of her.. the change in her behavior has to be gradual.. if everyone gets up against her.. especially a kid she will retaliate with more anger.
Asking niranjan's father to teach Gehna was a right decision on Maasa'a part but its soo sad for the viewers..i think they both had an excellent chemistry..im sure they ll have a new storyline coming up.
Don't agree with the Phooli part though.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Maasa did the right thing by changing the music teacher for Gehna..the way things were going it would have surely resulted in an extra marital affair..we know that Gehene is married to a guy double her age but that doesn't allow somebody to have an extra marital affair esp when your husband is doing so much to keep you happy and trusting you so much..Basanth has changed so much, and an extra marital affair between Niranjan and Gehena would again bring back the old Basanth.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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people, don't want to offend anyone...

but Anandi is a kid. The whole point is that...just because she is a beendni doesnt change the fact that she is still a child... so what if she asks questions, and so what if they are stupid sometimes...not everyone is intelligent and 'she is a child'!!! and children are like that...they ask questions and they forget and repeat the same mistakes...they have protrayed her character realistically...
and imagine her frustration when she gets blamed for every stupid thing her beend does, doesnt matter whether he comforts or defends her after the fact - the fact being given the third degree in front of the whole family by dadisa...
and yes, she asked a question why her? it is not badi maasi's bad influence. we want Sumitra to stand up for herself, suguna etc but when anandi stands up for herself and asks for a fair hearing why do you feel she is ill mannered...
and have you ever seen a brother and sister in a household fight...this is how it is...they are beend and beendni for us....but anandi and jagya are kids...and it is being shown they fight like kids and make up like kids...
just my POV and sorry if i have hurt anyone...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: priyas707

Hi Anindtag!! Well I personally dont' agree with you. Maasa's thinking is really backward and jiji is trying to change it which is really good 👏 The misfortune that happened during Sugna's wedding was not coz of Phooli - a widow's presence, but was just destined to happen!! Plus even if she changed Gehna's music teacher, it just shows that she doesnt' trust her own beendnis and thats why noone is happy in the house with her thinking.Even if Gehna would have had an extra marital affair it would have been good!! Thats coz she is married to a guy who is almost double her age, which is really sick 🤢 .

i totally agree with u..maasa is narrow minded..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: rgattu

people, don't want to offend anyone...

but Anandi is a kid. The whole point is that...just because she is a beendni doesnt change the fact that she is still a child... so what if she asks questions, and so what if they are stupid sometimes...not everyone is intelligent and 'she is a child'!!! and children are like that...they ask questions and they forget and repeat the same mistakes...they have protrayed her character realistically...
and imagine her frustration when she gets blamed for every stupid thing her beend does, doesnt matter whether he comforts or defends her after the fact - the fact being given the third degree in front of the whole family by dadisa...
and yes, she asked a question why her? it is not badi maasi's bad influence. we want Sumitra to stand up for herself, suguna etc but when anandi stands up for herself and asks for a fair hearing why do you feel she is ill mannered...
and have you ever seen a brother and sister in a household fight...this is how it is...they are beend and beendni for us....but anandi and jagya are kids...and it is being shown they fight like kids and make up like kids...
just my POV and sorry if i have hurt anyone...

Anandi can stand up for herself, she knows her right to demand a fair hearing, she knows exactly that she should speak up when badi maasi is around, she knows she can be rude to jagya and pick up fights with him coz he will not retaliate, she knows everybody will support her even though maasa will yell at her.. so basically she is not really thaattt immature. Its just her behavior. Kids around the age of 9-10 behave like her.. not teenagers. Sugna must be Anandi's age when anandi got married but she was pretty normal. Anandi is like a beendni on a dose of red bull.
Brothers and sisters can fight but they are husband and wife so its Sumitra's duty to atleast teach her some proper behavior in society now that they are growing up. I don't think Maasa was very wrong when she told Anandi to stop calling him jagya in front of everyone.. look at the kind of society they are living in.. the way she said was wrong. Sumitra should have then explained that she can call him Jagya when they are alone. Just my 2 cents.. I cannot even imagine the kind of conservative society they live in.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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sorry i don't agree with any thoughts in maasas favour. She is afraid of the teacher because in her mind she knows that she has done wrong by geeting such a young girl marrying and old guy her son. And if she continue to behave in this manner she herself wud be responsible for breaking Basant's marriage. Her behaviour is such a rude that even if she dies no one will cry. She feel that girls are boj so ill mannnered she is with her daughter in law. And as far as calling with name is cosidered even sughana use to call her hubby with his name Pratap. She is just too much
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Posted: 16 years ago
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maasa is a backward thinking old woman. She is into the really old torturous traditions which were created by men to empower women and show their superiority. And pratap died not bcoz of Phooli. It really sad that even in modern India we have people like you who believe and are trying to propogate the feeling of hatred for widows. Pratap was destined to die and phooli's got nothing to do with it. Change your way of thinking dear. Dont start blaming everyone in the world just becoz something happened which was written on his palms.Whatever maasa does is for her and her sons and grandson's good and in during this process she hurts her innoccent beendnis. Anyways i believe that there are a 100 others who oppose to ur thinking. It wuld be better if u start changing ur thinking. Then the world will be a better place.

I dont have any problems with ur other points but i m completely against that phooli thing.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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i agree with ur other viepoints that Anandi should behave herself and abt gehna and niranjan but i m totally against the phooli thing
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: neha2706

sorry i don't agree with any thoughts in maasas favour. She is afraid of the teacher because in her mind she knows that she has done wrong by geeting such a young girl marrying and old guy her son. And if she continue to behave in this manner she herself wud be responsible for breaking Basant's marriage. Her behaviour is such a rude that even if she dies no one will cry. She feel that girls are boj so ill mannnered she is with her daughter in law. And as far as calling with name is cosidered even sughana use to call her hubby with his name Pratap. She is just too much

Sugna didn't call her husband Prattu or Prattya in front of her in-laws😊.. im sure her mom-in-law wud have objected to that. A good mother-in-law is something like Baa from baa bahu aur baby.. strict with control over her own family members and still friendly. Sumitra doesn't have any strong qualities. Whatever manners Anandi shows is because of Maasa's watch over her.. def too much but Sumitra cannot handle a bobble head like Anandi.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Yeah...i also agree to all the points except the "Phooli" part.....a teenager of tender age like anandi should shd be taught manners, 😡and when her mother is nt around and her "Sasuma" is not guiding her about manners then someone has to take the lead...so daadisa is right is mending anandi's ways.👏

Also, regarding gehna part, she interrupted xactly at rite time, bcoz may be gehna was not attracted to niranjan nw, bt that niranjan was surely attracted towards her ( remember that mesmerising look he gives when curtains caught fire❤️). also it could happen that eventually gehna also getz attracted towards him. So daadisa was right, gehna may learn music frm niranjan's dad later on.😊
Itz nt abt being backward, but she acted in practical manner, might be her ways & behaviour are bad and orthodox but still she acted in a real experienced way (Duniya dekhi Hai unhone)😆....

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