Originally posted by: Biggboss15
Bold: I just bashed shashi once for trying to slap vedika but instead of that I have never bashed him as a husband … why not? He might not be physically abusing, but definitely manipulative, just like his dearest wife
… but as per decorum is concerned… his behaviour with every one is impeccable, sorta like well mannered villain 
Regarding ram yes him lying about his ex is not right and when priya comes to know about it she will be upset and angry which is completely justified as ram shouldn't have lied like this. But inspite of all this I don't see any mcp traits in ram. Regarding neeraj he was more angry at priya for hanging out with a person like neeraj and about birthday credit it was not at all ram's fault he didn't knew priya planned the surprise
Exactly… we know all these things…
priya doesn’t, she came to know them after affect… when he asked for forgiveness for party, appreciated her and all that.
But the next moment, when someone who he barely knows dished out on her family, despite priya’s pleas he did what he thought was right… it is not about trusting new wife over his family , it about trusting an unknown person who said contradicting story before , and fled right infront of his eyes vs trusting his wife who went to the lengths of keeping his health a priority and proved herself, even before the accident…
She saw this behaviour from her father too, he instead of trusting priya, was sure that Akshay did the mistake … this is something ram witnessed too… and he was also sorry about it when he talked to Adi, and Adi reassured him that he wasn’t MS, and he should not punish Priya with mistakes of others in her life, irrespective of whether he was right or wrong.
So…he is not an mcp, he is not a cheat, definitely not ms. Again, we know… not Priya. Until recently in their drunken states.
The defining quality of Ram is his righteousness. This she realised after birthday before this bakery me Anjali kaand … and after that, she was questioning his template of behaviour being equivalent other men in her life… who are good as long as their agendas and needs are being fulfilled, but when something didn’t happen according to their preference and prestige, they turned on her and her loved ones, be it ms or neeraj or even raj, you know even Akki is kinda like that sometimes with Shivi…. The Sood sisters constantly stop him from being so…. Now, she is having a heart to head war reg., ram’s behaviour … and ram’s behaviour is not helping because he is not drawing boundaries properly.
Lamba explanation hai… but worth the read!
How do I explain in real life?🤔 okay, imagine there is some alcoholic, that you helped reform , trusted him to live better… after a while you visit that person’s house… and you find cases of packed Bacardi cardboard cases infront of his house…
the immediate thought you will get that moment “ what a waste of person is this, drinking again, wasting his life and the people involved in his life..blah…blah…blah”
you are ready to confront him… his wife is serving something from white bottle of bacardi… seeing which you will seethe with anger and leave thinking that all alcoholics are the same…
because you have helped them previously and they all relapsed… and this case is not any different.
Cut to while you’re going out , some supermarket guy is delivering groceries packed in those cases. Now , you realise your mistake, go back… and the guy’s wife serves you that same white liquid which is actually Water🤣…
So clearly this guy changed! So changed that the liquor bottles have become water bottles in his house. So, you didn’t know this because of your previous experience and current situation that you witnessed.
This is what is N and V ‘s plan. They are trying to create circumstances which will show him similar to ms in front of priya… just the way they did with Neeraj and Priya in front of Ram.
But Priya one line of questioning ram , if he was in love with neeraj, showed him the reality and perspective of priya… and from then, he was like, neeraj? Who? Why?🤷♀️ …. Now this wouldn’t have been possible if Priya wasn’t drunk… they would both sulk, and sleep with the raging ego and hurtful memories… instead she knew that he wasn’t mcp as people were trying to frame him to be during the party track when he took care of her… and she voiced out that he is going to be there to hold her if at all she falls
Now it is Priya’s turn to go through the similar situation. Will Ram be able to show his reality and perspective to priya, so much that she will go into the mode of oh, vedu, idc 🤷♀️
Edited by TheCoolDocSid - 3 years ago