say what you feel

did anyone else feel bad for ram? I liked most of the wedding except for the fact that he didn't feel comfortable telling anyone there he was sick. how lonely and miserable is that?! as someone who suffers from migraines, I always know who I am most comfortable with and who I love -- because I can tell them that I feel sick. otherwise, I keep it to myself. trust me, it is lonely when you feel like vomitting, your head is spinning but you don't feel comfortable telling those around that you are sick to the bone. so I felt really bad for him.

it is supposed to be funny that priya is like this lioness but I instead keep feeling sorry for ram whenever he says he is scared to talk. I mean what kind of relationship is that where you are afraid to say how you feel or not able to speak your mind. is it any better just because he is a man?

I really wish they would stop writing priya into this weirdo goblin. how am I supposed to cheer for a relationship where someone is afraid to say how they feel because they are not sure how the other person will react? that doesn't sound at all romantic to me. sorry but it instead sounds like a nighmare rishtha. sigh....

Ram is surely very very lonely.. and it just hurts seeing him like that.. I mean when he fell down unconscious, it was unbearable to see 😭 no one literally no one cares for him! 💔💔💔

As for Priya-Ram dynamic, well Priya hardly knows him.. the person he is, what his family actually thinks of him, how he has been unlucky in love... She doesn't know anything. Also the way Ram behaves all cheery and child-like infront on her or everyone, it's impossible to know the amount of pain he actually hides in his heart, unless a person lives with him and observes him closely. So, I think PriRa are shown alright .

Things will change now that they are married. Priya will get to know the person Ram behind the facade of Ram Kapoor. And their relationship will grow into a beautiful one.

Originally posted by: YeojaNextDoor

Ram is surely very very lonely.. and it just hurts seeing him like that.. I mean when he fell down unconscious, it was unbearable to see 😭 no one literally no one cares for him! 💔💔💔

As for Priya-Ram dynamic, well Priya hardly knows him.. the person he is, what his family actually thinks of him, how he has been unlucky in love... She doesn't know anything. Also the way Ram behaves all cheery and child-like infront on her or everyone, it's impossible to know the amount of pain he actually hides in his heart, unless a person lives with him and observes him closely. So, I think PriRa are shown alright .

Things will change now that they are married. Priya will get to know the person Ram behind the facade of Ram Kapoor. And their relationship will grow into a beautiful one.

I really hope so; the more they make priya so agressively reactive, the more it stresses me out watching her. I have met people like that in real life and you have to walk circles around them. if they are your colleagues, God help you! they just stress you out because you don't know why they will get mad and for what they are yelling. they have a way of making other people feel small and stupid.

for me, it is not attractive at all that priya behaves like this wild elephant no matter how bad her circumstances are. that just sounds like an excuse to behaving badly. we all should be kind and civil no?

like I mentioned in another thread, right now, ram and priya don't come across as equals. I love bickering relationships because they can be hilarious to watch and the word zingers just fly by so quickly. however, it feels unequal here for some reason like ram is on the back foot all the time. I don't like this idea that you treat people like ***** but it is okay once we get to know that person and they become mellow. that doesn't sound romantic -- it is not anyone's job to fix you; have a problem, go for counseling

Yes, Ram has full rights to speak about what he feels. Nobody is stopping him. Infact if he learns to speak up and take a stand for himself , all his problems will disappear, as his family will not be able to take him for granted.

Problem with Ram is he romanticizes his tragedies. He lives in a delusionary world where he thinks the only way he can give light to others is by burning himself like a candle, and sadly he finds happiness in this process.

Hiding health issues can be extremely dangerous. He could have told about it to Priya today. Priya is not that inhuman and inconsiderate that she would not acknowledge his genuine health problems. He himself assumed that Priya would not trust him, which is not true , because she was checking on his health every five minutes, and even asked him several times if he is okay. She was infact the first person to open the windows , so he can breathe better.

He was not ready to accept that he can also have BP issues, even when doctor told him. He needs to come out of this denial mode that he is okay.

It is understandable if he does not want to share things with Priya at this point of time. But I have never seen him sharing his problems even with his close friends. Brinda often puts so much efforts in mind reading him.

Even while putting sindoor on Priya's forehead ,it appeared he added her to his long list of people for whom he feels responsible for.

Ram needs to add himself on that list ASAP.

Originally posted by: vaidharbhi95

Even while putting sindoor on Priya's forehead ,it appeared he added her to his long list of people for whom he feels responsible for.

Ram needs to add himself on that list ASAP.

so true!!! ram does seem like a sucker for not caring about himself at all. why does this drama feel more unromantic the more we discuss it?

I want something funny where I can laugh at and just chill out. not feel "umm, this isn't exactly romantic?" guess, I am too old to buy this "fix each other" trope as romantic. instead, my reaction is "please sort out your own problems and stop using other people as punching bag". I hate when ITV makes it sound like romance is the answer to alcoholism or any other personality defect or whatever other family problems. the worst is when they make the guy become all smart when he used to have mental development problems earlier. how, the magic of love. eye roll.