Hi I am ujala, I have been on IF for a long time sometimes active sometimes inactive. I have been following balh2 from the start and wanted to make this post for a long time since the Roma episode but couldn’t get the time. Anyways coming back to the topic
I think Vedika and Neeraj are those people who fall in love, have a relationship, then break up due to societal pressure or parental pressure but still hold some feelings for their exes and cannot even imagine their exes with someone else, even if they themselves are married with kids.
I think that Vedika is the toxic female lead which I have seen in other shows, they break up with their lover, get married fall in love with their husband, but keep their ex as friend only to be a taker from them. They never think about their exes feelings or how they are manipulating them, but always without second thoughts expect them to be there for them. I don’t know if ram and Vedika were in a relationship or not, but Vedika expects him to be there for her. To solve her problems. On the day of Roka too she was giving mixed signals, she said she is happy for him but was actually sad.
Neeraj on the other hand is the toxic male lead of other shows who thinks pushing, pulling, manhandling is justified in the name of love. Neeraj is someone who leaves the girl he loves in pressure then expects her to remain loyal to him, otherwise he gets angry. If someone likes her or shows interest in her the toxic male lead beats that person or shouts on the girl. He cannot be with that girl di to some majboori but the girl should remain in love with him.
This is just my opinion, please feel to agree or disagree. Thanks 😊