Originally posted by: bpatil3
Har insan ko bhgwan wo poori opportunity dete hai jisko hum utilise Kar Sakte hai Aur usse Humari kaamiyabi ki taraf mod sakte hai.ye uss insan pe Nirbhar Karta hai ki wo un opportunities ko blessing me convert karein Aur apni Jeevan ko nayi rang se rangde ,ek naya swaroop de.aur apni saari khushiiyan samet le.
Ya fir uss Samay k dastak ko thukra de aur nikal pade ek aisi safar me Jo zindagi Bhar sirf dukh de.
Aur aisi opportunity ko bachhoan ko samjhane me maa baap bahot bada role play karte hai, kyun ki har baccha chahe jitna bhi bada Ho,zindagi k bade faisloan me koi apne ka Hona expect karega,shaadi Aur pyar jaisi decisions lena itna aasan nhi Aur na hi infatuation ko pyar ka naam dena,ye jaante hue bhi jisko hum apna saathi banana chahte hai uske liye hum kahi bhi nhi hai. And definitely this journey of marriage will not have any life. Sambhalne ki seekh Jo ram Priya ne Pihu ko di hai ,aksar Indian parents me bahot kam paaya jaata hai. Most of the parents in India bachhoan se naraz hote hai ya gusse se uss rishte ko na kaarte hai. Especially ye love marriages,intercaste ya fir social status ya fir maa baap k Khud k sapne apne bachhe ki shaadi ko lekar hote hai.But ram Priya being aaj k parents,they tried not to impose their wishes onto Pihu but explain her the reality ,pros n cons ,akhir insan at the end of the day wants someone to care for ,pay attention and of course love, chahe jitni bhi problems Ho Kisi apne ka saath me hona bahot zaroori hai.jiss Priya ko serial me darshaya gya hai wo Priya Shayad most of the normal parents k jaise threatening and handling pihu angrily ,Aur aksar ye jo tareeke hai reverse Ho jaati hai Aur bacchoan me apni maa baap k prati dusra rai paida hota hai ki ,mere parents Meri Khushi nhi chahte ,Mujhe pyar nhi karte par main abhi minor nhi hoon Khud ka decision le sakti hoon etc. So yha pe parents n child k beech duriyan Aur badh jaati hai. Parents ki to har din Agni pariksha hoti hai , kyun ki Humari choti weird stupid funny questions se leke Humari har chote bade zaroorat Aur Jeevan ka har padav important hoti hai unke liye ,har cheez nhi milti Aur jo cheez humne maangi thi wo na mile to dukh to hoga par uss dukh ko handle Karne ki .
Lifeless n emotion less cheezoan Aur insan me difference bata dene chahiye bacchoan ko .maa baap apni poori koshish k saath, apne jitna Ho sake dene ki koshish karte hai , par pyar maangne se nhi milti , Aur iss dauran agar Raya ne apni Beti ki weakness Aur sadness samjha hai ,to unki koshish bhi to Sahi hai ki Pihu ko Sahi raasta dikhaye. ye jaante hue bhi ki jo raasta wo apni bacchi ko chun ne ko keh rhe hai wo waqai me kathin hai lamba hai Aur Pihu ki vulnerable state me kuch bhi Ho sakta hai,it's her age's demand ,but when u look at the long term happiness ,to iss mushkil se gujrna padega hi n Raya are with pihu,Pihu ye nhi jaanti ki iss kathin paristithi se kaise bahar aayegi par itna zaroor jaanti hai ki usske parents hai ussk saath.
Aksar bacchoan ko maa baap k Prem kahani me bahot interest hota hai , though hume kahani wale Romio Juliet acche laggte hai. Par jeeta jaagta model , unse Zyada acche laggte hai , jaise Raya Hume bade acche laggte hai lol, Aur hum unhe apni life k hissa bana chuke hai.
I loved the whole family scene ,their rantings,smiles,tease I can visualise raya.
Priya n Pihu ka scene superb , I loved it , Pihu over possessive hai jaise ramji ,papa k genes .
He was also very curious na ki Priya sabse Zyada usse pyar Karti hai ye sunne k liye ,ye thodi si insecurity bhi hai. I really loved so much ,Priya ka Pihu ko kehna ki Pihu la number after her Mr Kapoor aata hai and then teasing ram ki Wahi bataya jo such hai,Mujhe dono k expression bhi nazar aaye.lol.
Sammy naam na loon to behtar hoga. He is such a irritating person, best friend ko agar aise utilise kiya jaata hai to , Kaash wo kuch apne maa papa se bhi seekh jaata. Hmm.
Lol.
Happy Naseem.
Kuch Aur bolna tha bhool gyi lol