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Really want to ask some questions that how many still think...
1. That Juhi has really loved Ram before ? or she is just attracted by his powers and money / richness ? Is love is like this?
2. Is sid and juhi really loves their kids? sid himself told now khush is his enemy and not son and Juhi herself ruined life of pihu by pushing her in her wrong doings instead of stopping her from doing wrong things. She claims that she has given 7 years to ram and his kids and loves them as her own then how could a mother can ruin her own daughter's life that too for her own self interest? When priya came back from coma and Ram and kids got attached to priya she got unsecured and thought she will loose her kids i.e raya kids along with Ram's attention and care towards her and also the control over house so she decided to take evil's side and make use of Raya kids to gain back control over everything and to get back attention of kids and Ram and other members.
So the question is , is she really loves kids and family as her own? Is this type of love a mother do to her kids?
There is no denial in that Juhi has given 7 years of her life to ram and his kids and her love too. There are pari myra and khush too who still stands on positive sides , so may be her upbringing was not totally wrong in those 7 years but may be she has given them love keeping in mind Ram and how to make him impress and for her own benefits.( may be or may be she loved them as her own kids , there is confusion) A person carries both a negative and a positive side and it's upto that person which side he / she wants to choose.
Sid will remail Sid and will never ever be changed, now for money his own son becomes his enemy , Is this is love of a father?
Ram too was involved in bringing the kids up in those 7 years so may be still khush , pari and myra are positive but he has also missed something and wronged somewhere in bringing up the kids and that's why kids are living in their own world.
He allowed his kids to call someone as Maa other than her own mother and than decided to marry someone else when his own wife was alive and and he claims that he loves her . Well is ever be his these decisions can be forgiven ? What if the situation was opposite and insisted of Ram priya have allowed her kids to call someone else as Dad in his absence and has given him some excuses after his returning, will he ever have forgiven her in that case?
He tried to give priya's every right as a wife , mother , Daughter in law and daughter to any other person , is his this decision will ever be hold any correctness and will able be forgiven? He wants to bring back priya from coma and does that too with his love but what sought of life he would have given to her if she would have opened her eyes after Ram has transferred all her above rights to any other person? What if she would have died than will he be able to still hold the rights to fulfill her last rituals as a husband? Will he ever able to forgive himself for this?
Lastly who has given him the right to transfer her rights as mother from her to any other person ?who has given him right to allow her kids to call someone else as mother? As a good father and a good husband it was his responsibility and duty to give his and priya's kids a good upbringing in her absence and to stop them calling anyone else as their mother and their are many more words by which one can gesture a mother like lady , like massi or even maasi maa , but not only maa.
One cannot do humanity by making an inhuman move , He has made the mockery of a very scared relationship called marriage and Love. One cannot depend on other person to stand as right or wrong or on destiny , so instead of waiting for destiny's decision ( when priya come back from coma on last moment on marriage night) or waiting for juhi to turn negative cv's should have shown as it should be the Ram's decision to stand by his heart side/ his wife's and love's side in all situation and we all know that his heart wants to be with priya and not to change his this decision to be with priya as a husband and as a love in any circumstances weather how much hard or difficult the situation goes . Is this type of cheap emotional drama by makers are acceptable where they have made the mockery of such scared relationships?
Time has moved on and again Ram and Priya both passes their testify-cation of love many times but still his these decisions will ever be forgiven? May be ram and priya love each other and as husband and wife they can decide themselves that they want to forgive their love or not and this is totally their department but as viewers is this type of drama is acceptable? The creatives have just created the drama in such a wrong manner , its not emotional by which they will create money but a cheap drama in which they have created a mockery of a scared relationship called marriage and love, is this be acceptable as audience?
Ram hasn't done anything in the murder of sammy and he is innocent and should not be get punished for anything wrong which he hasn't done. He should be get freed soon. He is a gentle man who carries a pure heart and believes people very easily.
But the question is , is that is love that allows you to ruin life of a person whom you claim to love for your own benefits? ( this question is for Juhi and Sid only)
P.S: The questions were for Sid and juhi only but than while writing Ram's previous decisions come in mind and that's why wrote that also . Well that was only my POV and was not made for hurting anyone .
Ram was, is and will always be a hero and a gentleman but when discussing with my one friend , he asked me that is this is fair to do one humanity on the basis of inhumanity? he aslo told me that One cannot depend on other person to stand as right or wrong or on destiny , so instead of waiting for destiny's decision ( when priya come back from coma on marriage night) or waiting for juhi to turn negative cv's should have shown it should be the Ram's decision to stand by his heart side/ his wifes and love's side in all situation and we all know that his heart wants to be with priya and not to change his this decision in any circumstances weather how much hard or difficult it goes. Is this type of cheap emotional drama by makers are acceptable where they have made the mockery of such scared relationships?
Now the time has moved on and so the track is changed and now the current situation should be discussed, Ram hasn't done murder and should not be get punished for what he has not done and that too in such cruel manner.
Well This was only my POV and if any one is hurt by reading Ram's part as we all love him a lot then sorry and they can read till above two questions only because the post was first intended to make till there only.