Bade acche lagte hai yeh positivity, yeh bakwaas aur... Aur?? ;)

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(Gaana ka continuation ke doh options... 1) aur sharan 😉 2) aur RaYa... pata hai pata hai sab sharan choose karenge lekin please don't choose me 😉... Choose RaYa because RaYa hum sab positive thinkers ko bade acche lagte hai ❤️)

Uff kuch din ke liye mai gayab hogayi aur negative posts shuru hogaye 🤣 toh aaj mai control nahi kar sakti apne aap ko... Bakwaas karna padega, baat RaYa ki hai... Aur negativity mujhe bilkul accha Nahi lagta... Toh yeh bakwaas aap sabko jhelna padega 🤣

First mujhe character analysis karni hai... Psychology ka yeh negative point hai ki sab ko over analyse karti hoon 🤣... Toh pehle mai baat karungi un characters ke baare mei joh mujhe pasand nahi hai phir the characters I love...

Most hated character mere liye toh Juhi hogi na... So Juhi se shuru... Juhi (INSERT EVERY GAALI IN EVERY LANGUAGE HERE)... Yeh aurat na... Kitni manipulate karti hai Pihu ko... Mujhe lagta hai ki bachpan mei Juhi aur uski maa ka relationship accha nahi tha, isliye she is very distant from her own daughter and she is also making Priya's daughter become distant from her own mother... Jealousy makes you do crazy things... Aur rahi baat Ram ki... At first I thought that she was madly in love with Ram... She still might be but now it seems like she just wants to prove a point to Priya... She wants to prove that she is greater and more powerful than Priya... I feel like she sees this whole situation as a way of competing with Priya... So that she can prove that she is better than Priya in every way... as a woman, as a mother, as a lover etc... Pyaar aisa nahi hota ki har haal mei uss insaan ko paana hai, pyaar door se bhi ho sakta hai, "unki kushi mei meri kushi" type pyaar... So if Juhi truly loved Ram she would be happy seeing him happy with Priya and would leave him to it and love him silently from far... But this whole situation has made me doubt her love for him. And the way she is manipulating Pihu... She thinks she is being smart, but too much manipulation isn't good either... Her plans will backfire... And I will discuss this later when I discuss the future of this track... But abhi ke liye next hated character ke baare mei baat karni hai... Aur voh hai...

Sammy... I'm not going to say much about him because he irritates me so much that I irritate myself when in analysing him 🤣 har baat sab Pam ko blame karte hai... Sab ko pata hai ki Sammy iss tarah hai kyunki Pam ne usse dhoka diya, lekin koi yeh kyun nahi kehta ki Pihu pagal hai because of Varun... No one notices that Pihu is psychologically disturbed because of that, but they carry on talking about Sammy's past with Pam... If the Varun topic was to be discussed... The truth would come out and then there would be a solution for that... But anyway back to Sammy... He is the most spineless character in the show... Pyaar kissi aur se, shaadi kissi aur se aur baccha kissi aur ka hogaya... He even admitted that he slept with Suhani and everyone knows Kush's values etc would not allow him to have a relationship with Suhani like that... I feel like Sammy knows that the baby is his, but he just doesn't want to take responsibility for it... Because he didn't want to get married in the first place but now he has come to terms with the idea of getting married but he doesn't want to have the responsibility of a child... Disgusting... He was first afraid of marriage and now he is afraid of being a father that is why he is in denial... The easy way out would be to blame it all on kush... He is such a liar and I hate his attitude... He is only doing this for revenge... He wants to prove something to Suhani... But once he realises his mistake it will be too late... I feel like it already is too late... Suhani shouldn't accept him now, not after all the thing he said to her... Before he was so quick to say "I trust you blah blah" but now when she is pregnant he all of a sudden doubts her character... And he claims he loved her... Love is trusting the other person no matter what- take Ram for example... He could have doubted Priya when they met after 5 years... He could have said that Pihu is not his child, but he trusted Priya... Even though he didn't see what she did in those 5 years he trusted her... But Sammy saw what Suhani did (it should be easier because he could see it in her eyes that she loved him and everything with kush was a pretence) and still said that he trusts her... But when it actually came to trusting her he didn't.

Suhani... Iss ke baare mei kya kahun? Sacrifice queen... Abhi bhi sacrifice mode mei hai... Lekin mera doubt hai ki shayad yeh pregnant nahi hai... She didn't do any tests, she just fainted and thought oh I slept with Sammy so I must be pregnant... Yeh ladki bhi na, pata nahi doctors ko kya sikhate hai lekin mujhe pata hai ke behosh hone ka bohot reasons hote hai... So I'm doubting whether she is really pregnant... I also don't think Suhani and Sammy will get back together... The reason I'm saying this is because they aren't the lead couple... RaYa is, so it doesn't matter whether they don't get back together, their whole story was just a way of creating drama between RaYa and this whole Juhi thing. Maybe they will reunite, when Sammy realises his mistake but that would mean heartbreak for Pihu.

Pihu: I have come to the conclusion that there are two Pihu's in one body... Juhi's Pihu and Priya's Pihu... First I will discuss Juhi's Pihu... She is so easily manipulated... She is the psychologically disturbed one... And I hate her haha everything she said today was just Juhi speaking... All this "Inhe" "yeh" "aapki wife" and the "tang beech mei" dialogue as much as I hated it she is just voicing what Juhi has fed her vulnerable brain... I'm not justifying what she is doing... But I feel like Juhi's Pihu is weak so she can be manipulated easily... Priya's Pihu is stronger I think... And maybe with all this manipulating Priya's Pihu will realise Juhi's motives... Sort of like how nuts realised how wonderful Priya is once she calmed down and thought about everything... We saw how logical Priya's Pihu is when she said to Juhi that she is just jealous because Priya means more to her... So it could be that currently we are seeing the vulnerable easily swayed Pihu... But like nuts changed Pihu will too.

Neha... She was not wrong because she is just believing what she is being told Sammy loved Suhani now he loves Pihu... So she is not wrong in thinking that they should get married- but Priya was right by saying think as a woman... The same thing that happened to her with the rehaan situation is happening with another woman because of her own son and she is happy to sit back and watch that happen... Watch a woman and child become like another Neha and rehaan and she is willing to put another man in the position Vikram was in... So she should have been slightly more logical before fighting with Priya.

Nuts: after everything she has been through, it's only normal that she would take Priya's side... I thought maybe she will be the one to make Ram understand Priya's POV... Because yes it's two different situations but it is kind of the same thing too 😆 she is a living example of what "ziddh" can do... God knows how old she is and she is single, her marriage broke because it was rushed into due to her ziddh of getting what she wants at any cost... She could make Pihu understand this too...

Vikram: he is clever, instead of being hot headed he is calm... He isn't arguing with anyone about who is right and who is wrong... But I feel like he will be on Priya's side if people are taking sides 😆 simply because I don't think he would want to put another man in the same situation as him... He was so hurt about the rehaan situation so I think he wouldn't want Suhani and her child becoming like Neha and rehaan.

RaYa... For me they come as one... I don't see the point in blaming one person or saying he is right she is wrong or she is right and he is wrong... I feel like they are both right... Ram is being emotional and like any father all he wants is his daughter's happiness which is right, Sammy has told him that it's over between him and Suhani and that child isn't his... So he believes it... It would be so out of character if he wasn't emotional about his daughter and her happiness... Priya is being logical and thinking about the future which is also right she is right in thinking that Sammy won't make her happy in the future or he will leave her and she is also thinking about Sammy and Suhani... Which is what women do... They think about everyone not just one person... But I also think that maybe she should just let things play out how they do... The only way Pihu will learn is the hard way, same with Sammy and Suhani is just being a sacrifice queen so she clearly doesn't love him enough to fight for him... Ram is not wrong and Priya is not wrong... Both of them are thinking about Pihu's happiness but have different ways of achieving it... Which is normal because Ram being The Ram Kapoor, is used to giving his family whatever they want for their happiness but Priya... Because of how she was brought up and this is not an insult in anyway... Because she was from a middle class family, she understands that sometimes you can't get what you want... So again TO ANYONE WHO WANTS TO BASH RAM... LET ME REPEAT = RAM IS NOT WRONG! 😊

My thoughts about the future of this track... There are a few possibilities...

1) Pihu asked Ram to choose, the same way nuts asked him to choose... So learning from past mistakes he may "choose" Pihu just so that she doesn't turn against him too... It's bad enough that she hates her own mother at the moment, but if she hates her father too, it will be difficult for them to handle her... So it could be that he discusses this with Priya and they both agree that this is what they should do. It's better Pihu trusts him because then whatever Juhi tells her and however she manipulates her at least Ram is there to counteract what Juhi is feeding Pihu's brain.

2) Nuts could be the one to convince Ram that what Priya is saying is the way in which they should deal with the matter

3) maybe Juhi's over manipulation will ruin her plans because to me the last scene seemed as though maybe this is the case... Juhi's plan was to get Ram to choose Pihu and by making Pihu give Ram this ultimatum I think she has made Ram realise just how bad Pihu's mental state is... The way Pihu was speaking was not normal and you could see it in her eyes that she was a bit psychologically disturbed or crazy, and maybe Ram saw this pagalpan and realised just how bad things are with Pihu.

About the precap... I think Priya is right in leaving.. Not because Ram will choose Pihu... Because I don't think he will... But out of respect for her husband and a father... She is making it easier for him, at least he doesn't have to choose between his wife and his daughter... How can a man choose between the two people he loves the most in his life... and at least it doesn't give anyone the chance to say he chose Pihu over Priya... She took the decision so Juhi and Pihu can't be so smug about it... This way Pihu may also realise Priya was right... And also it gives everyone time to think over things without anyone arguing or wanting to make the other understand anything... Sometimes people need to understand things themselves without being told it lectured etc

I'm actually very excited about this track... I don't mind separation tracks (not that this will be a separation track because I don't think it will be a major "separation" she is just leaving the house) I love emotional scenes... I love the whole pining for their love scenes- where RaYa will be thinking about each other, wanting to be with each other etc and more than that I love emotional reunions... There's romantic moments to look forward to so I wouldn't really take this precap seriously, there could be a separation, or a mini separation which is agreed by both parties for the sake of Pihu just until this situation is sorted or Ram could stop her... So I don't think anyone should bash Ram because there is so much more to look forward to... And we shouldn't really react on one episode or a precap... Everyone sees that Ram was asked to choose between Priya and Pihu, they saw him argue with Priya etc but why did the negative Ram bashers not see the shock in his face, the pain in his eyes and the anger in the way he walked away from Pihu once she had asked him to choose? Why can't people come to a conclusion based on that... Why does it always have to be that because Ram said this he will do this? Why can't it be that because Ram looked annoyed with what Pihu asked him to do, he will not choose Pihu over Priya... Sirf negative kyun soch rahe hai iss scene ke baare mei?

We should watch a few episodes and then react, rather than watching (or reading about) one scene and a precap and reacting or predicting negative things and insulting Ram and calling him names it's just wrong... If you want to predict things based on a single scene and a precap... and you can't control our negative thoughts... Try to think about positive things too... It would make posts more interesting to read and discuss rather than simply bashing Ram and predicting the worst.

Uff bakwaas khatam ab mai sone jaa rahi hoon, pet bhar gaya mera... I have ranted enough to last me a lifetime so hopefully all of you will not have to put up with my bakwaas for a while 🤣 I'll be back with my bakwaas when I get irritated with negativity. 🤣 which I hope won't be anytime soon... Because I can't stand negativity... There is always a light at the end of the tunnel- although I tried looking through a tunnel once and I never saw a light... Maybe that's because of the London Underground... Tunnel underground hai toh light nahi hogi na... So maybe that line isn't the right one to use... How about this? Look at the glass as if it is half full and not half empty... Optimism does wonders 😉 okay bye goodnight.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Lol ram bashing is the fav topic of everyone especially in IF mostly people do this to satisfy their ego yes ram ko mein ab aise bash karunga blah blah you can see the excitement more than dossappointment lol
But one thing ram is the most happening thing in the forum be it bashing or praising
I feel rams character has such impact where he brings out strong emotions from people either love or hate but you just cant ignore
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: johnbips11

Lol ram bashing is the fav topic of everyone especially in IF mostly people do this to satisfy their ego yes ram ko mein ab aise bash karunga blah blah you can see the excitement more than dossappointment lol
But one thing ram is the most happening thing in the forum be it bashing or praising
I feel rams character has such impact where he brings out strong emotions from people either love or hate but you just cant ignore



You are right... Whenever something major happens in BALH... BALH fans are split into two... Those who love Ram and those who love to hate Ram... He is the only character who can evoke such strong emotions whether it's genuine love or immense hate. There is no sitting on the fence when it comes to opinions about Ram's character 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i don't think ram is wrong
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Posted: 11 years ago
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welcome back sharan 😆
i guess you went to meet dr. Kapoor😆

big thank you for posting this 🤗🤗
since i too was about to start the topic wen i saw everyone blaming Ram without any reason 😆
you have saved me from typing n wasting my energy 🤣 🤣

kabhi toh bechare ko baksh de, agar itna hi kisi ko taunt karna accha lagta hai then they have sammy jise taunt kar sakte hai atleast wo toh 100% galat kar raha hai...ram ne toh abhi muh bhi nhi khola aur uske peeche padh gaye 🤣

what i think k viewers want raya to be together always n dont want them to be separated at any cost, so wenever aisa kuch dikhate hai forum pe shuru ho jata hai k who is right ? Ram or Priya 😆 (fav discussion topic on forum 🤣)

sometimes both parties can be right, we just need to put ourselves in their shoes n think about the situation and trust me us waqt aapko koi galat nahi lagta siwaye situation ke😛

problem ye hai k jab reel Ram ke against kuch bolte hai toh logo ko lagta hai real Ram ke liye bol rahe hai aur jab Priya ke against bolte hai toh ppl thinks k Sakshi ke against bol rahe hai which is very wrong

it is human tendency k they assume things before hand n love to stick it, they dont like analysing situation, understanding every character's pov and then putting forward their opinions
(psychologically sahi kaha na 😉 🤣)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShazK.123

(Gaana ka continuation ke doh options... 1) aur sharan 😉 2) aur RaYa... pata hai pata hai sab sharan choose karenge lekin please don't choose me 😉... Choose RaYa because RaYa hum sab positive thinkers ko bade acche lagte hai ❤️) ab tum itna insists kar rahi ho toh i'll choose Raya😉 🤣

Uff kuch din ke liye mai gayab hogayi aur negative posts shuru hogaye 🤣 toh aaj mai control nahi kar sakti apne aap ko... Bakwaas karna padega, baat RaYa ki hai... Aur negativity mujhe bilkul accha Nahi lagta... Toh yeh bakwaas aap sabko jhelna padega 🤣 ever ready toh jhelo your bakwas, infact i was missing it...mujhe bakwas karna aur padhna dono bahot pasand hai😆

First mujhe character analysis karni hai... Psychology ka yeh negative point hai ki sab ko over analyse karti hoon 🤣... Toh pehle mai baat karungi un characters ke baare mei joh mujhe pasand nahi hai phir the characters I love... hamesha bure se hi shuru karna chahiye😉 like pehli kadwi medicines then sweet syrups 🤣

Most hated character mere liye toh Juhi hogi na... So Juhi se shuru... Juhi (INSERT EVERY GAALI IN EVERY LANGUAGE HERE) mai kya karu mujhe gali nhi aati in any language 😆... Yeh aurat na... Kitni manipulate karti hai Pihu ko... Mujhe lagta hai ki bachpan mei Juhi aur uski maa ka relationship accha nahi tha, isliye she is very distant from her own daughter and she is also making Priya's daughter become distant from her own mother... Jealousy makes you do crazy things... Aur rahi baat Ram ki... At first I thought that she was madly in love with Ram... She still might be but now it seems like she just wants to prove a point to Priya... She wants to prove that she is greater and more powerful than Priya... I feel like she sees this whole situation as a way of competing with Priya... So that she can prove that she is better than Priya in every way... as a woman, as a mother, as a lover etc... Pyaar aisa nahi hota ki har haal mei uss insaan ko paana hai, pyaar door se bhi ho sakta hai, "unki kushi mei meri kushi" type pyaar... So if Juhi truly loved Ram she would be happy seeing him happy with Priya and would leave him to it and love him silently from far... But this whole situation has made me doubt her love for him. And the way she is manipulating Pihu... She thinks she is being smart, but too much manipulation isn't good either... Her plans will backfire... And I will discuss this later when I discuss the future of this track... But abhi ke liye next hated character ke baare mei baat karni hai... Aur voh hai... you know i first suppported her, i was even ok with her love for Ram, because you cant control your feelings, hogaya Ram se pyar aur reason bhi kya tha she saw how much he loves his wife who is in coma, talks to her, shares his thoughts with her...seeing his unconditional love for his comatised wife, she may have fallen for him and i was ok with it...but ab zabardasti peeeche padh gayi hai, she has started thinking k priya has come between her n Ram...jab priya kahin gayi hi nahi thi toh beech mai kaise aasakti hai 😕😆...i think k juhi's track is nearing its end 😛

Sammy... I'm not going to say much about him because he irritates me so much that I irritate myself when in analysing him 🤣 har baat sab Pam ko blame karte hai... Sab ko pata hai ki Sammy iss tarah hai kyunki Pam ne usse dhoka diya, lekin koi yeh kyun nahi kehta ki Pihu pagal hai because of Varun... No one notices that Pihu is psychologically disturbed because of that, but they carry on talking about Sammy's past with Pam... If the Varun topic was to be discussed... The truth would come out and then there would be a solution for that... But anyway back to Sammy... He is the most spineless character in the show... Pyaar kissi aur se, shaadi kissi aur se aur baccha kissi aur ka hogaya... He even admitted that he slept with Suhani and everyone knows Kush's values etc would not allow him to have a relationship with Suhani like that... I feel like Sammy knows that the baby is his, but he just doesn't want to take responsibility for it... Because he didn't want to get married in the first place but now he has come to terms with the idea of getting married but he doesn't want to have the responsibility of a child... Disgusting... He was first afraid of marriage and now he is afraid of being a father that is why he is in denial... The easy way out would be to blame it all on kush... He is such a liar and I hate his attitude... He is only doing this for revenge... He wants to prove something to Suhani... But once he realises his mistake it will be too late... I feel like it already is too late... Suhani shouldn't accept him now, not after all the thing he said to her... Before he was so quick to say "I trust you blah blah" but now when she is pregnant he all of a sudden doubts her character... And he claims he loved her... Love is trusting the other person no matter what- take Ram for example... He could have doubted Priya when they met after 5 years... He could have said that Pihu is not his child, but he trusted Priya... Even though he didn't see what she did in those 5 years he trusted her... But Sammy saw what Suhani did (it should be easier because he could see it in her eyes that she loved him and everything with kush was a pretence) and still said that he trusts her... But when it actually came to trusting her he didn't. sammy ke against kuch kaha na toh his fans will be upset 😆 thinking k hum yuvraj ke baare mai bol rahe hai 😆 ...but mai thodi na yuvraj ke liye kuch bol rahi ho, mai sammy ke liye bol rahi hoon aur sammy pe kisi ka copyright nahi hai 😉 i hate saying negative things about anyone..be it just a mere character but this sammy hei boneless creature which slips anywhere n everywhere like tongue😡 kitna jhoot bolta hai yeh ladka...jab cady ne kaha k stand lo what he said many relations are at stake and now what he is doing? he is simply complicated everything which is already complicated and this credit goes to him only...pehle sab kuch mess create kiya so kam tha aur ab aur zyaada kar raha hai 😡

Suhani... Iss ke baare mei kya kahun? Sacrifice queen... Abhi bhi sacrifice mode mei hai... Lekin mera doubt hai ki shayad yeh pregnant nahi hai... She didn't do any tests, she just fainted and thought oh I slept with Sammy so I must be pregnant... Yeh ladki bhi na, pata nahi doctors ko kya sikhate hai lekin mujhe pata hai ke behosh hone ka bohot reasons hote hai... So I'm doubting whether she is really pregnant... I also don't think Suhani and Sammy will get back together... The reason I'm saying this is because they aren't the lead couple... RaYa is, so it doesn't matter whether they don't get back together, their whole story was just a way of creating drama between RaYa and this whole Juhi thing. Maybe they will reunite, when Sammy realises his mistake but that would mean heartbreak for Pihu. yes sacrifice queen still wants to sacrifice 😳 sammy ne usey characterless kaha and she is still staying in KM, she should have left the place immediately but no she is staying n watching th drama going on...cnat she talk to sammy now?

Pihu: I have come to the conclusion that there are two Pihu's in one body... Juhi's Pihu and Priya's Pihu... First I will discuss Juhi's Pihu... She is so easily manipulated... She is the psychologically disturbed one... And I hate her haha everything she said today was just Juhi speaking... All this "Inhe" "yeh" "aapki wife" and the "tang beech mei" dialogue as much as I hated it she is just voicing what Juhi has fed her vulnerable brain... I'm not justifying what she is doing... But I feel like Juhi's Pihu is weak so she can be manipulated easily... Priya's Pihu is stronger I think... And maybe with all this manipulating Priya's Pihu will realise Juhi's motives... Sort of like how nuts realised how wonderful Priya is once she calmed down and thought about everything... We saw how logical Priya's Pihu is when she said to Juhi that she is just jealous because Priya means more to her... So it could be that currently we are seeing the vulnerable easily swayed Pihu... But like nuts changed Pihu will too. do do pihu 😆 mera logic thoda ulta hai...she have traits of both Ram n Priya..jab gusse mai hoti hai toh Ram ki tarha bilkul theek se nahi soch pati, Ram ki tarha hi she thinks k whatever she is doing is right and then jab Priya ke traits over powered karte hai usey, she listens to everyone, she behaves like a sensible girl and thinks like PRiya...remember, how sweet she was suhani when she was in her senses but jab pata chala k samy loves her toh senseless hogayi 😆

Neha... She was not wrong because she is just believing what she is being told Sammy loved Suhani now he loves Pihu... So she is not wrong in thinking that they should get married- but Priya was right by saying think as a woman... The same thing that happened to her with the rehaan situation is happening with another woman because of her own son and she is happy to sit back and watch that happen... Watch a woman and child become like another Neha and rehaan and she is willing to put another man in the position Vikram was in... So she should have been slightly more logical before fighting with Priya. as a mother she was right in thinking good for her son, she asked him seriously and that sammy has said suhani is closed chapter for him and he wants to start a fresh with pihu. so what she is expected to do...to think about her son happiness n well being which she is doing but i dont like her dialogue : there are ways to deal with pregnancy 😒 being woman she shouldn't have said that

Nuts: after everything she has been through, it's only normal that she would take Priya's side... I thought maybe she will be the one to make Ram understand Priya's POV... Because yes it's two different situations but it is kind of the same thing too 😆 she is a living example of what "ziddh" can do... God knows how old she is and she is single, her marriage broke because it was rushed into due to her ziddh of getting what she wants at any cost... She could make Pihu understand this too... i think k Nuts ko show mai wapas laana ka reason yehi hai k she'll either make understand Ram or Pihu...i guess shayad pihu ko hi apni kahani batayegi, ow she messed up n destroyed her aur shayad nuts ko hi juhi ke intentions pata chale 😛

Vikram: he is clever, instead of being hot headed he is calm... He isn't arguing with anyone about who is right and who is wrong... But I feel like he will be on Priya's side if people are taking sides 😆 simply because I don't think he would want to put another man in the same situation as him... He was so hurt about the rehaan situation so I think he wouldn't want Suhani and her child becoming like Neha and rehaan. hmmm...priya n vikram are alike in many ways and ram n neha are alike in many ways 😆 i too think vikram will support Priya but he'll not opposed if they decide to marry off pihu to sammy...may be he'll try to explain to Ram to think properly before taking any step so as to he dont have regret it in future😛

RaYa... For me they come as one... I don't see the point in blaming one person or saying he is right she is wrong or she is right and he is wrong... I feel like they are both right... Ram is being emotional and like any father all he wants is his daughter's happiness which is right, Sammy has told him that it's over between him and Suhani and that child isn't his... So he believes it... It would be so out of character if he wasn't emotional about his daughter and her happiness... Priya is being logical and thinking about the future which is also right she is right in thinking that Sammy won't make her happy in the future or he will leave her and she is also thinking about Sammy and Suhani... Which is what women do... They think about everyone not just one person... But I also think that maybe she should just let things play out how they do... The only way Pihu will learn is the hard way, same with Sammy and Suhani is just being a sacrifice queen so she clearly doesn't love him enough to fight for him... Ram is not wrong and Priya is not wrong... Both of them are thinking about Pihu's happiness but have different ways of achieving it... Which is normal because Ram being The Ram Kapoor, is used to giving his family whatever they want for their happiness but Priya... Because of how she was brought up and this is not an insult in anyway... Because she was from a middle class family, she understands that sometimes you can't get what you want... So again TO ANYONE WHO WANTS TO BASH RAM... LET ME REPEAT = RAM IS NOT WRONG! 😊 for me both Ram n Priya are perfectly right at their places, i have a feeling k Ram will support Priya...i dont know why but i feel so😆...na abhi Priya ne ghar choda hai aur na hi am ne abhi kisi ki side li hai but still ppl have started assuming thing which i hates😆

My thoughts about the future of this track... There are a few possibilities...

1) Pihu asked Ram to choose, the same way nuts asked him to choose... So learning from past mistakes he may "choose" Pihu just so that she doesn't turn against him too... It's bad enough that she hates her own mother at the moment, but if she hates her father too, it will be difficult for them to handle her... So it could be that he discusses this with Priya and they both agree that this is what they should do. It's better Pihu trusts him because then whatever Juhi tells her and however she manipulates her at least Ram is there to counteract what Juhi is feeding Pihu's brain.
if Ram chooses, then i too want him to choose pihu cos if he'll not do so, she may start hating him also and the juhi will try to take advantage of it
2) Nuts could be the one to convince Ram that what Priya is saying is the way in which they should deal with the matter
may be...but mujhe lagta hai she'll try to make understand Pihu what she is doing
3) maybe Juhi's over manipulation will ruin her plans because to me the last scene seemed as though maybe this is the case... Juhi's plan was to get Ram to choose Pihu and by making Pihu give Ram this ultimatum I think she has made Ram realise just how bad Pihu's mental state is... The way Pihu was speaking was not normal and you could see it in her eyes that she was a bit psychologically disturbed or crazy, and maybe Ram saw this pagalpan and realised just how bad things are with Pihu.

yes..completely...juhi ke plans ruin honge😆...i am sure of it...i want k Priya should show juhi her place but but i will love it if Pihu does that😉

About the precap... I think Priya is right in leaving.. Not because Ram will choose Pihu... Because I don't think he will... But out of respect for her husband and a father... She is making it easier for him, at least he doesn't have to choose between his wife and his daughter... How can a man choose between the two people he loves the most in his life... and at least it doesn't give anyone the chance to say he chose Pihu over Priya... She took the decision so Juhi and Pihu can't be so smug about it... This way Pihu may also realise Priya was right... And also it gives everyone time to think over things without anyone arguing or wanting to make the other understand anything... Sometimes people need to understand things themselves without being told it lectured etc
jab pihu itna chilla rahi thi na and Priya is still trying to be nice to her...had i been in Priya's place after trying hard to convnce Pihu i would rather let her do anything that she wants and learn it hard way(since i am not her mother na🤣) pihu dhamki de rahi thi na she'll commit suicide toh i was thinking k Priya bhi yehi kah k if yo'll marry sammy i'll kill myself 🤣 but Ram ko sabse zyaada problem hoti na isme toh i dropped that plan 😆

I'm actually very excited about this track... I don't mind separation tracks (not that this will be a separation track because I don't think it will be a major "separation" she is just leaving the house) I love emotional scenes... I love the whole pining for their love scenes- where RaYa will be thinking about each other, wanting to be with each other etc and more than that I love emotional reunions... There's romantic moments to look forward to so I wouldn't really take this precap seriously, there could be a separation, or a mini separation which is agreed by both parties for the sake of Pihu just until this situation is sorted or Ram could stop her... So I don't think anyone should bash Ram because there is so much more to look forward to... And we shouldn't really react on one episode or a precap... Everyone sees that Ram was asked to choose between Priya and Pihu, they saw him argue with Priya etc but why did the negative Ram bashers not see the shock in his face, the pain in his eyes and the anger in the way he walked away from Pihu once she had asked him to choose? Why can't people come to a conclusion based on that... Why does it always have to be that because Ram said this he will do this? Why can't it be that because Ram looked annoyed with what Pihu asked him to do, he will not choose Pihu over Priya... Sirf negative kyun soch rahe hai iss scene ke baare mei?

i am also very exicted for this track...i am eager to see how this pihu's matter will be resolve 😛
We should watch a few episodes and then react, rather than watching (or reading about) one scene and a precap and reacting or predicting negative things and insulting Ram and calling him names it's just wrong... If you want to predict things based on a single scene and a precap... and you can't control our negative thoughts... Try to think about positive things too... It would make posts more interesting to read and discuss rather than simply bashing Ram and predicting the worst.

Uff bakwaas khatam ab mai sone jaa rahi hoon, pet bhar gaya mera... I have ranted enough to last me a lifetime so hopefully all of you will not have to put up with my bakwaas for a while 🤣 I'll be back with my bakwaas when I get irritated with negativity. 🤣 which I hope won't be anytime soon... Because I can't stand negativity... There is always a light at the end of the tunnel- although I tried looking through a tunnel once and I never saw a light... Maybe that's because of the London Underground... Tunnel underground hai toh light nahi hogi na... So maybe that line isn't the right one to use... How about this? Look at the glass as if it is half full and not half empty... Optimism does wonders 😉 okay bye goodnight positivity is positivity...glass ka example ho ya candle ka ya tunnel ka 😆 thing is be positive😛.

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Thank you both of you for putting everything down that I wanted to say but don't have the time to write or the words in which you have put it into perspective.
I too am looking forward to the track ahead. 😊
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Originally posted by: ShazK.123

(Gaana ka continuation ke doh options... 1) aur sharan 😉 2) aur RaYa... pata hai pata hai sab sharan choose karenge lekin please don't choose me 😉... Choose RaYa because RaYa hum sab positive thinkers ko bade acche lagte hai ❤️)positive thinkerz gin chun ke 5-6 honge bas😆

Uff kuch din ke liye mai gayab hogayi aur negative posts shuru hogaye 🤣 toh aaj mai control nahi kar sakti apne aap ko... Bakwaas karna padega, baat RaYa ki hai... Aur negativity mujhe bilkul accha Nahi lagta... Toh yeh bakwaas aap sabko jhelna padega 🤣i hope you are fine now

First mujhe character analysis karni hai... Psychology ka yeh negative point hai ki sab ko over analyse karti hoon 🤣... Toh pehle mai baat karungi un characters ke baare mei joh mujhe pasand nahi hai phir the characters I love...

Most hated character mere liye toh Juhi hogi na... So Juhi se shuru... Juhi (INSERT EVERY GAALI IN EVERY LANGUAGE HERE)... Yeh aurat na... Kitni manipulate karti hai Pihu ko... Mujhe lagta hai ki bachpan mei Juhi aur uski maa ka relationship accha nahi tha, isliye she is very distant from her own daughter and she is also making Priya's daughter become distant from her own mother... Jealousy makes you do crazy things... Aur rahi baat Ram ki... At first I thought that she was madly in love with Ram... She still might be but now it seems like she just wants to prove a point to Priya... She wants to prove that she is greater and more powerful than Priya... I feel like she sees this whole situation as a way of competing with Priya... So that she can prove that she is better than Priya in every way... as a woman, as a mother, as a lover etc... Pyaar aisa nahi hota ki har haal mei uss insaan ko paana hai, pyaar door se bhi ho sakta hai, "unki kushi mei meri kushi" type pyaar... So if Juhi truly loved Ram she would be happy seeing him happy with Priya and would leave him to it and love him silently from far... But this whole situation has made me doubt her love for him. And the way she is manipulating Pihu... She thinks she is being smart, but too much manipulation isn't good either... Her plans will backfire... And I will discuss this later when I discuss the future of this track... But abhi ke liye next hated character ke baare mei baat karni hai... Aur voh hai...she thinks ram can leave priya and juhi may get him (in her dreams)she doesnt know about ram woh bacho ki tarah zidd karke priya ko wapas bhi la sakta hain 😉

Sammy... I'm not going to say much about him because he irritates me so much that I irritate myself when in analysing him 🤣 har baat sab Pam ko blame karte hai... Sab ko pata hai ki Sammy iss tarah hai kyunki Pam ne usse dhoka diya, lekin koi yeh kyun nahi kehta ki Pihu pagal hai because of Varun... No one notices that Pihu is psychologically disturbed because of that, but they carry on talking about Sammy's past with Pam... If the Varun topic was to be discussed... The truth would come out and then there would be a solution for that... But anyway back to Sammy... He is the most spineless character in the show... Pyaar kissi aur se, shaadi kissi aur se aur baccha kissi aur ka hogaya... He even admitted that he slept with Suhani and everyone knows Kush's values etc would not allow him to have a relationship with Suhani like that... I feel like Sammy knows that the baby is his, but he just doesn't want to take responsibility for it... Because he didn't want to get married in the first place but now he has come to terms with the idea of getting married but he doesn't want to have the responsibility of a child... Disgusting... He was first afraid of marriage and now he is afraid of being a father that is why he is in denial... The easy way out would be to blame it all on kush... He is such a liar and I hate his attitude... He is only doing this for revenge... He wants to prove something to Suhani... But once he realises his mistake it will be too late... I feel like it already is too late... Suhani shouldn't accept him now, not after all the thing he said to her... Before he was so quick to say "I trust you blah blah" but now when she is pregnant he all of a sudden doubts her character... And he claims he loved her... Love is trusting the other person no matter what- take Ram for example... He could have doubted Priya when they met after 5 years... He could have said that Pihu is not his child, but he trusted Priya... Even though he didn't see what she did in those 5 years he trusted her... But Sammy saw what Suhani did (it should be easier because he could see it in her eyes that she loved him and everything with kush was a pretence) and still said that he trusts her... But when it actually came to trusting her he didn't.
I K R i had the same thought Ram was so angry but he never doubted on priya's character (mera ram lakhon mein ek hain😳) sammy want to become like ram 😆Suhani... Iss ke baare mei kya kahun? Sacrifice queen... Abhi bhi sacrifice mode mei hai... Lekin mera doubt hai ki shayad yeh pregnant nahi hai... She didn't do any tests, she just fainted and thought oh I slept with Sammy so I must be pregnant... Yeh ladki bhi na, pata nahi doctors ko kya sikhate hai lekin mujhe pata hai ke behosh hone ka bohot reasons hote hai... So I'm doubting whether she is really pregnant... I also don't think Suhani and Sammy will get back together... The reason I'm saying this is because they aren't the lead couple... RaYa is, so it doesn't matter whether they don't get back together, their whole story was just a way of creating drama between RaYa and this whole Juhi thing. Maybe they will reunite, when Sammy realises his mistake but that would mean heartbreak for Pihu. i dont know why she is still staying in KM no self respect at all and if sammy calls her character less she shouldnt marry sammy i dont trust this man no one should marry him neither pihu nor suhani he is commitment phobiac

Pihu: I have come to the conclusion that there are two Pihu's in one body... Juhi's Pihu and Priya's Pihu... First I will discuss Juhi's Pihu... She is so easily manipulated... She is the psychologically disturbed one... And I hate her haha everything she said today was just Juhi speaking... All this "Inhe" "yeh" "aapki wife" and the "tang beech mei" dialogue as much as I hated it she is just voicing what Juhi has fed her vulnerable brain... I'm not justifying what she is doing... But I feel like Juhi's Pihu is weak so she can be manipulated easily... Priya's Pihu is stronger I think... And maybe with all this manipulating Priya's Pihu will realise Juhi's motives... Sort of like how nuts realised how wonderful Priya is once she calmed down and thought about everything... We saw how logical Priya's Pihu is when she said to Juhi that she is just jealous because Priya means more to her... So it could be that currently we are seeing the vulnerable easily swayed Pihu... But like nuts changed Pihu will too. even if juhi provokes her pihu should have brains how can she ask her dad to chose between her and priya?choti pihu used to be so good she used to hate whenever raya fights now she wants them to be separated

Neha... She was not wrong because she is just believing what she is being told Sammy loved Suhani now he loves Pihu... So she is not wrong in thinking that they should get married- but Priya was right by saying think as a woman... The same thing that happened to her with the rehaan situation is happening with another woman because of her own son and she is happy to sit back and watch that happen... Watch a woman and child become like another Neha and rehaan and she is willing to put another man in the position Vikram was in... So she should have been slightly more logical before fighting with Priya.neha has gone mad i hope she realises it soon how can she say that she should understand that suhani will have same fate what she has gone through when she was dumped by rehaans father

Nuts: after everything she has been through, it's only normal that she would take Priya's side... I thought maybe she will be the one to make Ram understand Priya's POV... Because yes it's two different situations but it is kind of the same thing too 😆 she is a living example of what "ziddh" can do... God knows how old she is and she is single, her marriage broke because it was rushed into due to her ziddh of getting what she wants at any cost... She could make Pihu understand this too...i hope atleast now nuts says sorry to his bhai she should how she tortured her brother with same situation.sharon during nuts kar marriage more than nuts zid ram was impressed with kartik coz he wants priya to be married first before him this impresssed ram and he agrred to this alliance but that kartik had ONS and child too😲no one predicted it

and yes nuts should talk with ram and pihu too

Vikram: he is clever, instead of being hot headed he is calm... He isn't arguing with anyone about who is right and who is wrong... But I feel like he will be on Priya's side if people are taking sides 😆 simply because I don't think he would want to put another man in the same situation as him... He was so hurt about the rehaan situation so I think he wouldn't want Suhani and her child becoming like Neha and rehaan.i hope there is nothing called taking sides cant see Ra vs Ya it hurts

RaYa... For me they come as one... I don't see the point in blaming one person or saying he is right she is wrong or she is right and he is wrong... I feel like they are both right... Ram is being emotional and like any father all he wants is his daughter's happiness which is right, Sammy has told him that it's over between him and Suhani and that child isn't his... So he believes it... It would be so out of character if he wasn't emotional about his daughter and her happiness... Priya is being logical and thinking about the future which is also right she is right in thinking that Sammy won't make her happy in the future or he will leave her and she is also thinking about Sammy and Suhani... Which is what women do... They think about everyone not just one person... But I also think that maybe she should just let things play out how they do... The only way Pihu will learn is the hard way, same with Sammy and Suhani is just being a sacrifice queen so she clearly doesn't love him enough to fight for him... Ram is not wrong and Priya is not wrong... Both of them are thinking about Pihu's happiness but have different ways of achieving it... Which is normal because Ram being The Ram Kapoor, is used to giving his family whatever they want for their happiness but Priya... Because of how she was brought up and this is not an insult in anyway... Because she was from a middle class family, she understands that sometimes you can't get what you want... So again TO ANYONE WHO WANTS TO BASH RAM... LET ME REPEAT = RAM IS NOT WRONG! 😊Bashing Ram will go on for ever sharon and the ppl who are bashing him today will go gayab all of a sudden and the worst thing they cant diff between Ran the actor and character and make fun of his physique

My thoughts about the future of this track... There are a few possibilities...

1) Pihu asked Ram to choose, the same way nuts asked him to choose... So learning from past mistakes he may "choose" Pihu just so that she doesn't turn against him too... It's bad enough that she hates her own mother at the moment, but if she hates her father too, it will be difficult for them to handle her... So it could be that he discusses this with Priya and they both agree that this is what they should do. It's better Pihu trusts him because then whatever Juhi tells her and however she manipulates her at least Ram is there to counteract what Juhi is feeding Pihu's brain.

2) Nuts could be the one to convince Ram that what Priya is saying is the way in which they should deal with the matter

3) maybe Juhi's over manipulation will ruin her plans because to me the last scene seemed as though maybe this is the case... Juhi's plan was to get Ram to choose Pihu and by making Pihu give Ram this ultimatum I think she has made Ram realise just how bad Pihu's mental state is... The way Pihu was speaking was not normal and you could see it in her eyes that she was a bit psychologically disturbed or crazy, and maybe Ram saw this pagalpan and realised just how bad things are with Pihu.

About the precap... I think Priya is right in leaving.. Not because Ram will choose Pihu... Because I don't think he will... But out of respect for her husband and a father... She is making it easier for him, at least he doesn't have to choose between his wife and his daughter... How can a man choose between the two people he loves the most in his life... and at least it doesn't give anyone the chance to say he chose Pihu over Priya... She took the decision so Juhi and Pihu can't be so smug about it... This way Pihu may also realise Priya was right... And also it gives everyone time to think over things without anyone arguing or wanting to make the other understand anything... Sometimes people need to understand things themselves without being told it lectured etc

I'm actually very excited about this track... I don't mind separation tracks (not that this will be a separation track because I don't think it will be a major "separation" she is just leaving the house) I love emotional scenes... I love the whole pining for their love scenes- where RaYa will be thinking about each other, wanting to be with each other etc and more than that I love emotional reunions... There's romantic moments to look forward to so I wouldn't really take this precap seriously, there could be a separation, or a mini separation which is agreed by both parties for the sake of Pihu just until this situation is sorted or Ram could stop her... So I don't think anyone should bash Ram because there is so much more to look forward to... And we shouldn't really react on one episode or a precap... Everyone sees that Ram was asked to choose between Priya and Pihu, they saw him argue with Priya etc but why did the negative Ram bashers not see the shock in his face, the pain in his eyes and the anger in the way he walked away from Pihu once she had asked him to choose? Why can't people come to a conclusion based on that... Why does it always have to be that because Ram said this he will do this? Why can't it be that because Ram looked annoyed with what Pihu asked him to do, he will not choose Pihu over Priya... Sirf negative kyun soch rahe hai iss scene ke baare mei? @bold well said👏

We should watch a few episodes and then react, rather than watching (or reading about) one scene and a precap and reacting or predicting negative things and insulting Ram and calling him names it's just wrong... If you want to predict things based on a single scene and a precap... and you can't control our negative thoughts... Try to think about positive things too... It would make posts more interesting to read and discuss rather than simply bashing Ram and predicting the worst.

Uff bakwaas khatam ab mai sone jaa rahi hoon, pet bhar gaya mera... I have ranted enough to last me a lifetime so hopefully all of you will not have to put up with my bakwaas for a while 🤣 I'll be back with my bakwaas when I get irritated with negativity. 🤣 which I hope won't be anytime soon... Because I can't stand negativity... There is always a light at the end of the tunnel- although I tried looking through a tunnel once and I never saw a light... Maybe that's because of the London Underground... Tunnel underground hai toh light nahi hogi na... So maybe that line isn't the right one to use... How about this? Look at the glass as if it is half full and not half empty... Optimism does wonders 😉 okay bye goodnight.

nice take was missing your posts 😊
Edited by iLuvRamKapoor - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@ Sharan and @ Naseem
Absolutely agree with ur views. Thank u for penning down everything in such a good manner. I m very lazy to write or type like this bigger posts. I m very excited for the current track like who will know asli Juhi first - Priya or Pihu or Ram!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: peeyara

welcome back sharan 😆

i guess you went to meet dr. Kapoor😆

big thank you for posting this 🤗🤗
since i too was about to start the topic wen i saw everyone blaming Ram without any reason 😆
you have saved me from typing n wasting my energy 🤣 🤣

kabhi toh bechare ko baksh de, agar itna hi kisi ko taunt karna accha lagta hai then they have sammy jise taunt kar sakte hai atleast wo toh 100% galat kar raha hai...ram ne toh abhi muh bhi nhi khola aur uske peeche padh gaye 🤣

what i think k viewers want raya to be together always n dont want them to be separated at any cost, so wenever aisa kuch dikhate hai forum pe shuru ho jata hai k who is right ? Ram or Priya 😆 (fav discussion topic on forum 🤣)

sometimes both parties can be right, we just need to put ourselves in their shoes n think about the situation and trust me us waqt aapko koi galat nahi lagta siwaye situation ke😛

problem ye hai k jab reel Ram ke against kuch bolte hai toh logo ko lagta hai real Ram ke liye bol rahe hai aur jab Priya ke against bolte hai toh ppl thinks k Sakshi ke against bol rahe hai which is very wrong

it is human tendency k they assume things before hand n love to stick it, they dont like analysing situation, understanding every character's pov and then putting forward their opinions
(psychologically sahi kaha na 😉 🤣)


You guessed right 😉...

@Bold 👏👏 well said...

arey wah, aapko toh bina psychology kiye yeh sab kuch pata hai!! ⭐️ smarty!

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