Give the poor man a break...

Hi everyone, been MIA for a while, but I'm back to irritate you all with my views about the current situation in BALH.

I get really emotional when people say negative things about Ram or Priya... And currently Ram is on the receiving end of the negativity 😆

So first things first... I read somewhere, why did Ram hide behind Juhi and her lie... Really and truly this was not Ram's fault... Juhi interfered when the IT officers came... Had Ram said 'no she's lying' or told her to retract her statement, this would have looked even worse and would have weakened the case even more... So he just went along with it... It's not his fault that Juhi went overboard with her statement and said that they were physically and emotionally together blah blah blah... That's all Juhi's fault- but what do you expect from such a besharam aurat 🤣... Please don't blame Ram for this... If you want to blame anyone blame Juhi for everything, and then we can all chuck chappals at her together :-)

This Juhi court confession thing- very very unnecessary, but it happened... People are thinking Priya will be mahaan and sacrifice Ram for Juhi- but please take note of what she said to Ram in court... She feels sorry for Juhi because she knows Ram doesn't love her and he'll never be hers... If we focus on this, and interpret it in a positive way- what I think this suggests is, yes she'll be hurt by the truth, but I don't think she will go as far as making Juhi and Ram get married... Current news- she'll leave KM... Okay, but that doesn't mean she's left so that Ram and Juhi can get married.

Speaking of this whole marriage fiasco... Say Priya does become "mahaan" and sacrifices Ram for Juhi... What's so bad about that? 😆 no seiously, he married Ayesha (her own sister)... But that didn't stop Ram and Priya from getting physical 😉 in fact... They got extra physical while he was still married to Ayesha... So what's stopping them from having an extra marital affair while he's married to Juhi? I wouldn't mind this happening to be honest... Because no matter who Ram marries, he'll only ever love one person and that's Priya. Expanding on this point... Marriage never really meant anything to Ram... He married Priya out of convenience, no love shuv. Like he said, it's just a piece of paper. Now I'm not saying that marriage should not be valued... I value the concept of marriage a lot, maybe more than anything... But in this modern day and age, it's not marriage that matters, what matters is the heart... Like they say "home is where the heart is" so Ram can be married to Tom, Dick and Harry but still that wouldn't mean anything if his heart is with Priya. Nothing else matters apart from love.

Ram married Ayesha and for 5 years he didn't have any *other* relations with her... So if Priya does make Ram marry Juhi, he still wouldn't have any other relations with her... Because all that is reserved for Priya 🤣

Now you may be wondering why I'm making these points... The reason is because... We already hate the fact that marriage has been made into a joke... So why not embrace and accept this and if they do show Priya being 'mahaan' or whatever who cares... Just hope they show an extra marital affair... I mean, if marriage isn't valued that much in the show, an extra marital affair is nothing right?

Jokes apart... Come on everyone, as long as "Ram chahe Priya and Priya chahe Ram" let's just accept anything they throw at us. But to be honest I really don't think Priya will make Ram marry Juhi, because to be honest, the reason they were going to get married was because of Naina and she's agreed to marry Sid, so that marriage may still go ahead because Ram knows Sid likes Juhi... And it's convenient for everyone if Juhi and Sid get married.

One thing that has really been bugging me though... Naina is 15 so being a minor someone needs legal custody... But if they keep delaying this whole who will marry Juhi thing- by the time someone decides who will marry Juhi, naina will be 16 and then there will be no need for legal custody 😆... So why are they even bothering with this whole marriage thing, no one needs to marry Juhi... If there's cases against Rajiv that can be brought up in court then that will weaken his case... So why don't they just go to court, whoever gets custody (the mother tends to be favoured right?) then let it be, naina will only have to stay with Rajiv for a few months until she turns 16 so why are they so worried about her 😆

Enough of my bakwaas... I know that everything I have said makes no sense... I just wrote whatever came into my head, and most of the time it is nonsense 🤣 But I just had to say it 😆 ... I think too much about this programme... But to be honest I'm willing to accept anything and everything as long as Ram and Priya's love is still there.

ur post was good and i found it hilarious i was smiling while reading it yes we all that during the statement she was giving to police fault was of juhi as she lied and ram not told her to lie we all want that ram woo back priya and priya don't leave the km and raya always remain together

Yes, please give Ram a break. The poor guy took good loving care of Priya for the 7 years and it's only in the 7th year that all this drama took place. Juhi is only a friend to him, not his fault that she loves him. Being friends with Juhi, taking her help to look after the family does not mean that Ram disrespects or does not love Priya.

Originally posted by: tulshan1989

ur post was good and i found it hilarious i was smiling while reading it yes we all that during the statement she was giving to police fault was of juhi as she lied and ram not told her to lie we all want that ram woo back priya and priya don't leave the km and raya always remain together

p.s: pls update the next part of ur os on raya waiting for it when will u give the update

I'm excited to see how Ram woos Priya... I'm loving this track to be quite honest, apart from whenever Juhi touches Ram. 😆 if Priya does leave KM though, they will have more privacy to romance 😆

About the OS... Pakka I will update tomorrow! Sorry about that 😊

Originally posted by: SuganthiS

Yes, please give Ram a break. The poor guy took good loving care of Priya for the 7 years and it's only in the 7th year that all this drama took place. Juhi is only a friend to him, not his fault that she loves him. Being friends with Juhi, taking her help to look after the family does not mean that Ram disrespects or does not love Priya.

I don't understand what is expected of Ram...he is accused of taking Priya for granted, not respecting her etc etc etc. But the way I see it, he's always placing Priya on a pedestal, loves only her, has had a relationship only with Priya...both emotional and physical. Ram is also human and prone to mistakes and makes some decisions on the spur of the moment, decisions which come back to haunt him. The man thinks more with his heart than his head...that's why he needs Priya who thinks with her head...which makes RaYa good together.

Plus Ram is also the favourite fall guy for the CVs. They don't make him ACP Pradyuman like how they make Priya.

Totally agree with your points... Ram is only human and mistakes are bound to be made... It's how he rectifies these mistakes that I'm interested in 😉 he's always respected his relationship with Priya... If he cheated on her then I could understand people's anger but he hasn't and never will. He will only ever love Priya physically, emotionally and any other possible way there is to love someone haha .. He's been the perfect caring husband while she was in a coma and also when she came out... So people should focus on everything he did right rather than the one thing he did wrong... Why is it that his one mistake is overpowering all the things he's done right and everything else that he's ever done for Priya?

We all should keep calm and love RaYa... And enjoy the current track instead of picking at the characters faults and mistakes.

Originally posted by: ShazK.123

I'm excited to see how Ram woos Priya... I'm loving this track to be quite honest, apart from whenever Juhi touches Ram. 😆 if Priya does leave KM though, they will have more privacy to romance 😆

About the OS... Pakka I will update tomorrow! Sorry about that 😊

Ram is eternally hacked down by the very pertinent saying "damned if you do, damned if you don't". His world has revolved around this from the beginning and continues to be so.

Yes Priya came and things changed. But when she decided to be mahaan and go on an all-out save the money mission everything went haywire. That was a real meltdown. And frankly, Ram has not got over that. He is infact even more gullible which makes it look quite worse.

What has Ram become today? He seriously needs to be given a break to shake off 7yrs of rust and get back to laying the bricks of trust.

nice post...thanks

let priya leave KM...then ram will go behind her to woo her...btw he never seems to go to office nowadays 😆..only foreign tours...

i am really waiting for her to go to sharma house or even her own apartment...then even more privacy 😉 ...then our hero can barge and do his wooing in whatever way he wants...i am sure she will just melt away as soon as he touches her in that way.. 😉 😳...

let the rest of the gang be in KM and continue on with their own mahabharath...🤣

Originally posted by: SuganthiS

Yes, please give Ram a break. The poor guy took good loving care of Priya for the 7 years and it's only in the 7th year that all this drama took place. Juhi is only a friend to him, not his fault that she loves him. Being friends with Juhi, taking her help to look after the family does not mean that Ram disrespects or does not love Priya.

I don't understand what is expected of Ram...he is accused of taking Priya for granted, not respecting her etc etc etc. But the way I see it, he's always placing Priya on a pedestal, loves only her, has had a relationship only with Priya...both emotional and physical. Ram is also human and prone to mistakes and makes some decisions on the spur of the moment, decisions which come back to haunt him. The man thinks more with his heart than his head...that's why he needs Priya who thinks with her head...which makes RaYa good together.

Plus Ram is also the favourite fall guy for the CVs. They don't make him ACP Pradyuman like how they make Priya.

He love priya a lot an not take her granted then why he divouce her in the state of coma just to adopt friend daughter.