dont blame Ram for everything - Page 3

Originally posted by: bpatil3

@bold yes even i m not liking the posts made such, criticizing is ok but the cheaptest way canot be digested, but i think in that post of the loyal BALH lovers didn't react n written , i have seen only few who or not regular visitors of IF, not sure.

Originally posted by: Ramdeewani

Dear Peeyara(Whats Your Real name?)

Balming Ram for everything is the most common thing in IF

He will be bashed based on promo,On Precap And when actually episode airs the same repeats Bashing Bashing

He is the most bashed character in IF

Infact thode log tho Unhe bash karne ke liye IF pe A/C banaya hain They come here only to Post Negative comments About him and mind you when The same Priya's Characetr gets Butchered Door door tak Nazar nahi aate woh

ANd then they claim i am a die hard RayA Fan

Patha nahi Kitne Baar Ram ko Maar daala Unhone but if u look at the post the same contenet repeats again and again

whtas the most annoying thing is when Priya left Ram and came back only for Kady In this whole track She was Bashed But NEVER i mean NEVER ppl said that bring a New Girl for Ram(as far as i know in IF)

I will tell u one thing If Ram's character is butchered Posts will be Bring Rajjo Back and if Priya is Butchered "We are raYa Fans Galti nahi karenge tho serial kaise chalega"

P.s: sorry if i hurt anyone But Thats what i founf in IF recent times Ppl are actually using some filthy Language to show hate towards a character

Originally posted by: Ramdeewani

arey thats what ppl want ram's death posts nahi dekha apne

infact he is dead atleast 100 times till now

Originally posted by: simlavidhi

Agree Ram love priya a lot... Since a few episode he is being very rude n like forget that his wife too is there...
Kal ki baat hi lelo... Priya ne itne pyar se aloo parantha banaya... At least 1 bite ko try kar hi Sakta tha...
Juhi to bahot besharam hain at least she need to control herself in some matters...
N it's ram responsibility to make priya very special n get her confident back as she said to neha that she is trying to make a place in others life... At least ram can help her in this struggling phase...
The cvs r showing Ram like this for some high voltage drama... Let's see what is the drama...
Earlier ram took the risk n make priya cook food for his foreign business partners...that Ram is no where now...

Originally posted by: SuganthiS

More than Ram, the character or Priya or Juhi or anyone, I have read posts where cheap language, thoughts and words are used. The hilarious part is...we are criticising a fictional character but some posts are using language that will make anyone go red in the face. That's really sad. It's good that many members here don't encourage such posts.

Originally posted by: amudhamanian

Priya has come to life after 7 long years and is totally blank on what happened during those years. so it is the basic human courtesy of every family members to see that she is not out of place especially Ram. it doesnot mean that they have to do all goody goody things but they can help her to be comfortable in her space.

Falling in love with your friends husband and showing more concern for him infront of priya itself is not a appreciable act so do we need a special track to show her negative. You can't expect priya to accept the reality going around her in just one go. It's not so easy to accept your place being filled by some one (eventhough they might have done good things)and it takes time for priya to accept the reality. juhi being a matured adult should have understood priya's feelings and could have restricted her behaviour towards Ram till priya gets settled down and is comfortable with her sorroundings. Whether its Ram and priya in their bedroom or the kids and priya juhi is shown as poking her nose everywhere and gone to the extent of politely warning priya if pihu's truth is revealed she will be losing ram and pihu is way too much. any relationship will bound to be strong only when you keep within your limits.

Ram has lost 7 years of his life with priya so he knows the value of time. Anybody for that matter wil try to spend as much as time with their spouse to compensate the lost years. but as soon as priya regained her memory his concern for her has slowly decreased. He could have been shown somewhat matured in his way of handling his wife. Though he may be pure at his heart , but what is the need of dominating tone and harsh words While answering his equations with juhi. priya trusted him with the divorce matter and naina's adoption so if he explains it in a soothing way priya would have not felt the pain. we can see the pain in her eyes when ram was explaining. during the dinner at vikram's house he could have helped priya to be comfortable around . Ram need not be romantic all the time and dance to priya's tune but by his small small acts he can assure priya that he is always by her side. Sometimes he shows more concern for her and sometimes he ignores her his act being visible to priya. priya is in a fragile state now trying to cope up with the sudden changes in her life so it will be treat to watch if Ram helps her to feel secured.

It's only a drama fiction and I do agree that if the CV's are going to show only RAYA's romance even the diehard fan of RAYA (Like me) will get bored but they can show some tolerable scenes to keep the story interesting.

All the above is my POV about the show and not to hurt anybody.