Why does Ram need to clear RASH?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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On the outset I had no issues with RASH for 5 years when someone wasn't alive.
This topic is only about present and the future. So lets not go back to the good and bad and ugly of jail case and the run away bride.

All of us agree on the need to clear RASH. Obviously there is no second thoughts because the hate for Ayesha is mutual across the board. But more importantly from a perspective of Ram, I want to know why he should take a divorce from Ayesha incase RASH is true. If it isn't , then obviously it doesn't even matter except somebody needs to spell it to PRiya just like how Sudhir told her point blank there is nothing between Ram and Ayesha except namesake marriage.

1)Ram met Priya in the hospital and we had the RB mode set in. IT was clear that PRiya was willing to do anything and sign up the divorce papers for the mistakes she made. No intention to be back.

2) Ram tells her that there is no divorce needed because there is no marriage. And all he cares is about his daughter. Files custody case.

In this scenario, last couple of weeks have been those crazy nok jhoks because I repeat Pihu doesn't like her parents fighting. And they have been there for Pihu which Ram categorically tells Ayesha that as far as Priya is Pihu's mom and they would be there together.

Now why exactly should he clear Ayesha? Priya knows there is nothing more than a name sake relationship. She isn't showing any attempt to woo him or win his trust back which was lost. She wants to sit and give it time. She is willing to accept a bookstore in Dubai and business partner for fighting the custody case. All she does is kitpit for his every action including no happiness on seeing him at the doorstep.

P:S - He loves Kush just as much. So why would he want to throw them on the streets because we don't love to see a bimbo. Except for the sake of us, he needs to accept Ayesha wholeheartedly or sign a divorce paper if RASH is true. And keep Ayesha in the family just as other freeloaders

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Why does Ram need to clear Rash.

Here is my take which slightly differs from yours.

First define what namesake relationship is. If he married Ayesha through a register marriage, then even though they don't share a husband and wife relationship for real life, his legal status is under question. He claims Peehu as his daughter and Priya his wife now(said that to many) and they both sign papers for Peehu. It translates to who actually his wife is. So he needs to definitely clear his name here. Not saying he is at fault but his current situation raises lot of legal questions. On top of it he is a big businessman and this uncertainty can't stay for long.

I am not saying he has to put Ayesha on streets as it was his conscious decision taken with assumption that PK is dead. Its not that ethical and easy. But legally possible. So much more murky that what we think. Ram loves Khush very much but he has the option of adopting him. But with Ayesha and Priya, he has to come out clear.

The other person who is involved in this apart from Ram is obviously Priya, who hid her identity which led to this decision. If she was around, its just not legally possible for Ram to do this. So she needs to try to clear things too. And actually help Ram in this.

If the marriage between Ram and Ayesha never took place on paper(register marriage) and he only claimed Khush as his son, its a different story. No problems there.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pasumarthisa

Why does Ram need to clear Rash.

Here is my take which slightly differs from yours.

First define what namesake relationship is. If he married Ayesha through a register marriage, then even though they don't share a husband and wife relationship for real life, his legal status is under question. He claims Peehu as his daughter and Priya his wife now(said that to many) and they both sign papers for Peehu. It translates to who actually his wife is. So he needs to definitely clear his name here. Not saying he is at fault but his current situation raises lot of legal questions. On top of it he is a big businessman and this uncertainty can't stay for long.

I am not saying he has to put Ayesha on streets as it was his conscious decision taken with assumption that PK is dead. Its not that ethical and easy. But legally possible. So much more murky that what we think. Ram loves Khush very much but he has the option of adopting him. But with Ayesha and Priya, he has to come out clear.

The other person who is involved in this apart from Ram is obviously Priya, who hid her identity which led to this decision. If she was around, its just not legally possible for Ram to do this. So she needs to try to clear things too. And actually help Ram in this.

If the marriage between Ram and Ayesha never took place on paper(register marriage) and he only claimed Khush as his son, its a different story. No problems there.

Shanti
I understand the need for the ethical part. Which is what we would like to see in RAM as a character. I doubt the adoption process would be so easy. Ayesha isnt' going to give it up unless the BT make her dying of some disease.
So you are saying that the issue is because he has two wives now and he needs to clear it. My point is if its only a matter of papers. HE doesn't consider his marriage to Priya as said to her and hence his decision to laugh over that divorce angle. But would he need to clear Ayesha if Priya isnt' interested in coming back to him is the bigger question for me?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Shanti
I understand the need for the ethical part. Which is what we would like to see in RAM as a character. I doubt the adoption process would be so easy. Ayesha isnt' going to give it up unless the BT make her dying of some disease.
So you are saying that the issue is because he has two wives now and he needs to clear it. My point is if its only a matter of papers. HE doesn't consider his marriage to Priya as said to her and hence his decision to laugh over that divorce angle. But would he need to clear Ayesha if Priya isnt' interested in coming back to him is the bigger question for me?

He said that(highlighted in bold) in anger that there was no marriage all these 5 years. He very much considers PK his wife for all purposes. They signed papers for Peehu, he told principal he's meeting his wife after separation etc. So no confusion there.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I feel Ram needs to come clear because at present his feelings seem to be very ambivalent on the issue of who is actually ''Mrs. Ram kapoor''. He's acknowledged in many places that Priya is Mrs.Kapoor (the catering incident and during the admission process) but so also is he addressing Ayesha as his wife( rahul's birthday party and peehu's new room scene).

Moreover, there is the question of bigamy which is not allowed legally in India and also shunned ethically. So being the model husband and renowned buisnessman he is shown to be, it's more or less Ram's responsibilty to end the confusion regarding who ACTUALLY is his wife. And therefore, he's either got to divorce Priya or Ayesha or atleast make his stand clear regarding either of them to put an end to the uncertainty and doubts which hover in the minds of the viewers.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Shanti - i agree wid u. Whatever u wrote is what i think.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Angie I do not agree..I feel Ram should clear his marriage issue, This is real world and he can not be married to two people at the same time,first it is illegal and so characterless, even though we all know he has no relation with Ayehsa and it is only namesake, still for a man, who is so famous, how is he living so easily with two wives??????The outside people do not know his relation with A, for them she is his legal wife, but with Priya's return, his marriage to Ayesha is VOID, how come he is not in legal trouble..

I really feel Cvs need to clear this issue, if he is really married to A on paper, then it is so unethical and characterless, and above all illegal.. he is calling Priya his wife in front of the principle and also principle calls Ayesha Mrs Raam kapoor.. This is really ridiculous, and insane. They are totally butchering his character. I hate that. About Priya not talking with him and not showing interest , is another issue, I have no idea what Cvs are thinking. but seriously, I can not take this nonsense of him being married to both sisters, totally not acceptable for me. if he hates Priya so much ,why not just go and divorce her..then I will accept his marriage with Ayehsa.. but I have a BIG problem with him being married to two women at the same time and on top of that everyone is kind of happy and not having any concern or problem with that.. Really?How come Priya's family do not object, and what about Krishanji? Dadi.. I mean what nonsense is this.. It is completely ridiculous and disgusting...😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mystique_exotic

I feel Ram needs to need to come clear because at present his feelings seem to be very ambivalent on the issue of who is actually ''Mrs. Ram kapoor''. He's acknowledged in many places that Priya is Mrs.Kapoor (the catering incident and during the admission process) but so also is he addressing Ayesha as his wife( rahul's birthday party and peehu's new room scene).

Moreover, there is the question of bigamy which is not allowed legally in India and also shunned ethically. So being the model husband and renowned buisnessman he is shown to be, it's more or less Ram's responsibilty to end the confusion regarding who ACTUALLY is his wife. And therefore, he's either got to divorce Priya or Ayesha or atleast make his stand clear regarding either of them to put an end to the uncertainty and doubts which hover in the minds of the viewers.

Mystique_exotic
I think its more towards the model husband and renowned businessman issue or the reason we want RaYa together that's causing the outburst in clearing Rash.
But where I actually feel the need is him being ambivalent on the issue that needs to be addressed. I think that's a perfect reasoning. He needs to either call Ayesha as Mrs RK and not Priya or vice versa.
That's a very valid point and I think Cv s need to start being really careful about that usage of Mrs RK for both.
In terms of how and why I want RASH to be cleared is if the Custody case comes into play and the judge asks them about divorce, their feelings take over and realization that they are indeed meant to be together for good or worse. And then RASH needs to be cleared.
For now, I want that Mrs RK on both ends to be stopped.
THanks for your wonderful POV
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Posted: 12 years ago
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to see in RAM as a character. I doubt the adoption process would be so easy. Ayesha isnt' going to give it up unless the BT make her dying of some disease.

So you are saying that the issue is because he has two wives now and he needs to clear it. My point is if its only a matter of papers. HE doesn't consider his marriage to Priya as said to her and hence his decision to laugh over that divorce angle. But would he need to clear Ayesha if Priya isnt' interested in coming back to him is the bigger question for me?
He said that(highlighted in bold) in anger that there was no marriage all these 5 years. He very much considers PK his wife for all purposes. They signed papers for Peehu, he told principal he's meeting his wife after separation etc. So no confusion there.
Shanti
The custody case is happening. Them pretending to be civil for Pihu is justified. And ofcourse they have shown some overly normalcy that isn't comprehendable for me.
Like mystic exotic said. I think the issue is more towards not being mindful of calling and considering both of them Mrs Ram Kapoor. They should have left RK to stick to the one during the RB mode. Saying Ayesha is his wife and Priya doesn't matter because she chose to stay away from him.
And the legalities here surely seem murky. I wonder if the CVs are capable of handling if RASH is true.
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Originally posted by: fanraya

Angie I do not agree..I feel Ram should clear his marriage issue, This is real world and he can not be married to two people at the same time,first it is illegal and so characterless, even though we all know he has no relation with Ayehsa and it is only namesake, still man who is so famous, how is he living so easily with two wives??????outside people do not know his relation with A, for them she is his legal wife, but with Priya's written his marriage to Ayesha is VOID, how come he is not in legal trouble..

I really feel Cvs need to clear this issue, if he is really married to A on paper, then it is so unethical and characterless, and above all illegal.. he is calling Priya his wife in front of the principle and also principle calls Ayesha Mrs Raam kapoor.. This is really ridiculous, and insane. They are totally butchering his character. I hate that. About Priya not talking with him and not showing interest , is another issue, I have no idea what Cvs are thinking. but seriously, I can not take this nonsense of him being married to both sisters, totally not acceptable for me. if he hates Priya so much ,why not just go and divorce her..then I will accept his marriage with Ayehsa.. but I have a BIG problem with him being married to two women at the same time and on top of that everyone is kind of happy and not having any concern or problem with that.. Really?How come Priya's family do not object, and what about Krishanji? Dadi.. I mean what nonsense is this.. It is completely ridiculous and disgusting...😕

Priya
I agree with the both sisters married and accepting it as Mrs Ram Kapoor. I guess that seems to be the bigger issue for now with the complacency in dealing with it. I agree they should have stuck to his words on Priya not meaning anything and his wife was currently Ayesha. But they moved to nok jhok and made us believe He is comfortable with Priya , calling her his biwi and also referring to Ayesha as his wife.
Iam actually surprised that Krishnaji or Dadi don't have a problem. Which means it could be an indication towards False RASH. Fingers crossed.

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