Hi, have been a regular viewer of this forum but this my first post here :)..and BALH is the only serial i actually watch now..okie back to the topic..i see a lot of topics supportin priya n blaming Ram for his actions..such as" bas karo raam" "raam turned villain" n so on..but can anyone suggest any alternative action Ram cld have tken in this situation.Many would suggest that he shld have sat wth Priya and had a talk wth her first..but is there really somethng priya cld explain to Ram for the reason she stayed away..can she in any way justify wat she did..okie she wanted him to move on coz if shez in jail,he wld never have moved on in life..but once she escapes to dubai n realises she is safe there, shldnt she have informed the same to Ram..he cld have come over to dxb..its not difficult for a business tycoon like him to shift his wrk base..or while staying in dxb he cld have wrked towards clearing priya from the case as he did now n then both cld have moved to india tog..secondly...wen she knew that even during the time she moved out of KM,he locked himself in a room n din attend wrk for many days..how cld she expect him o b normal after knowing of her death..she knew he was bad at health..n even may move back to being tablet kappor n jeopardise his health further..but she din bother to keep a check on him even once to see if he is still even alive..so now how can she ever express her love to ram n tell him that she canot survive wthout him..coz she has..for 5 long years..wthout checkin on him even once..whereas ram ,even after knowing she is dead..kept himself alive wth her thoughts..most of his convos wth rajat had priya in it..that was his love for priya...So isnt it absolutely human for raam to feel like a total fool who kept brooding over his dead wife all these yrs..doing everythn possible to keep her soul happy..n finally come to know his wife was alive bt stayed away from him wth his kid..so isnt it natural for him to want ot spend time wth his daughter n catch up on the lost years..at the same time how can he accept his wife coz of whom he spoiled all thse yrs ..married another lady jus for the sake of priyas happiness..any one in Rams place wld do the same as long as hez not an angel like some of ektas "lead actresses"..but being a mother myself..i totally understand priyas situation..so i feel she shld let raam tke pihus custody..as a repentance for wat she did to him..n then slowly try to get back into his life using her brains..n doing wat she thnks is rite n not listen to her silly mom ..or even rajat for that matter..she kows ram best..n she shld win him back wth her love..which he did not recieve all these years..thats all my honour! :D