Ram/Priya - Who is right? - VB Note p.28 - Page 8

Originally posted by: -SakshisFan-

Absolutely bang on Anu.

Ram character is so selfish and egoist..egocentric...typical male.

Separating a child from a mother without hearing mothers reasoning is absolutely rubbish.

He can forgive his Choti for killing/aborting a unborn child but he cannot forgive his wife for keeping away , struggling alone and still nicely upbringing a child all alone.

Marrying Ayesha to save her repo and her illegal child...but cannot stand his legal wife for a minute now...what justice Mr Kapoor.

Originally posted by: rehana11

I'm sorry but such cold tit for tat reasoning doesnt account for the fact that pihu doesnt deserve to be hurt for whatever priya's fault was ...any mature man in his senses not thinking on childishly tit for tat lines would be able to see how deeply the pshyche and life of a five year old would be affected by such ping pong games ...

besides just because the consequences of 2 acts are the same doesnt mean that the end justifies or equalizes the means ...i beg pardon but this a deeply male immature chauvinistic way of thinking - human relationships do not work on such principles of rigid equality where qualitative differences in actions and contexts dont matter...the context and the action that priya took was for very different reasons from ram , it was not blind rage demanding to get even for wrong done, it was love which motivated her however misguided subjectively...so just because ram was seperated from his daughter for 5 years doesnt mean that it implies the only way of getting even is to take away five ears from priya's life with pihu...and hurt pihu most ...an eye for an eye doesnt work in human relations and love or else priya could also demand that ram go to jail for her or all the times in the past when he misunderstood her and took others side - including niharika's he should be paid back in teh same coin before priya can forgive him ...or that karthik shd demand that he go to jail and be beaten up b y police before also he forgave ram for sending him to jail on believing niharika, sid etc...nor can he tell nuts i will accept u once u suffer what i went thru when u did wrong to me...relationships are not courts of law where exact reciprocal punishments are given

Originally posted by: rkstlove

Who said ram didnt try to rel her wen she was in jail didnt he trace sid he used his powers asked his employees too to help every thing was it place wen actually aye cheated her own sis and ur pk mata took aye side n said i vil not scold my sis wat eva she does den ram thought dats wat priya's wish was.n so many ppl died der is it easy to find body.n wer was priya's trust man only coz u hear ur husband praises a woman u decide dat ur hubby has moved on.wer was her trust n her love den

Originally posted by: Peacefull

Very good post. In my opinion Ram is not a SAINT nor is Priya culprit.Whatever happened was because of circumstances. Ram gifted the company to Priya which was bec of why to save Ram she went to jail.

Ram was unable to get Priya out of JAIL at the right time. At the very first opportunity Priya went back to KM only for Ram. And she saw she was already DEAD for them. Nuts conversation only hurt Priya more. Ram married AYESHA was it bec of she being PRIYA' sister or was it bec his BROTHER had fooled around and got her PREGNANT?

Priya was not aware of her PREGNANCY when she left INDIA. Her decision was correct given the circumstances LIVING in DUBAI vs rotting in JAIL. Her husband had failed to get her out on bail why blame Priya. Any normal woman would probably do the same.
In my opinion, Ram 's anger is JUSTIFIED. Knowing Priya was alive but also that he has a child. But he never spared a thought as to why Priya did what she did.

But humiliating PRIYA by flaunting AYESHA is unnecessary and not required. Its a question of time before the whole thing back fires on RAM and we see him pinning for PRIYA.

And Ram is no saint. He is an MCP.

Originally posted by: jaysree18

Very well said anu... totally agree with ur each n every word... hah ram kitna mahan hai humlogoko to dhikai mila hai... sirf 5 saal lagaye woh apne patni ko nirdosh sabit karnekeliye... wah kya baat hai mr kapoor... usko yeh manjoor tha priya uske bacche ko jail meh janam dete... abhi aapki patni wapas ayi to apne usko puchna v jaruri na samjha k priya aisa kyu kya hah hah kyu puchenge aap to the ram kapoor haina... aur aap kitna mahan hai apne apne bhai k paap ko naam diya unlogoki galti ko sar ankhope rakkha.. lekin aap ki patniko ekbar puchna v jaruri na samjha... really mr kapoor aap bohot mahan hain... yeh sabke bich agar priya aapko chodke jake agar galat v kya tha to bilkul sahi kya tha... ya anu u r so so r8 we all r wth her decision if it ws wrong also...