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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramdevsan

i think as ram came to know about truth of priya's behaviour at party...he is sad for doubting her charecter...


when priya came to know truth of ram...she will also feel guilt for saying all rubish thing for ram.

all thing will sort out.


Ramdevsan

It would just prove that throwing words would be justified.,But the audience wouldn't take a reaction from Ram like that. They would rather have him crying and on his knees trying to pacify.. Tht';s all iam not fine with!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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mem1 - totally agree with you. here's my long version of i agree with you.. 😆
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for Saskhi and her outburst on Ram... i think it was justified because she is still unaware of the fact that Ram is also in the same boat as her... LOVE. As far as her realizing love for Ram 3 weeks ago but not confessing, well there could be many reasons. (1) could be because she was waiting to see what Ram is feeling for her (2) Krishuji's chat with Priya before they parted their ways was to first take care of her son and then one day "Priya will be Pyar and Pyar will be Priya for Ram". She was probably not wanting to rush because she was trying to "take care" of him first and trying to get a feeling around what he thinks of her. (3) could be because of the Breast Cancer track. She did not want to jump into the "I Love You' because Ram might have been thought it otherwise... that fear is bringing out this emotions in Priya.

But today she said that her love was her strength~!! She was not scared of rejection or denial. Those instances state otherwise!! Which is why I reiterate that there should have been a ranting with flawed characteristics. It didn't matter since it was not gonna make a difference. She was gonna drown in those eyes and die with seeing his face. Again tht instances don't reflect!! So was her outburst justified.. i doubt!

Again, i thought her anger was justified because she has done nothing but noticed (as she put it) Ram ever since she got married. I don't think she was upset at him for his reaction to her ignoring him BUT it was the fact that he offered to set up a date for her with another man. any women, specially in so much LOVE as Priya is would have reacted in the same manner.

But what was Ram doing? If he ogled at Vidya Balan, she was not gonna tell her to become like her or take classes. U know how women can get all worked up when pointed to their looks and appeal.. Nope.. She infact agreed to take his number after pushing him to the core by letting him know of her peaceful sleep in his absence, thanking for his karate's absence and hoping that one irritation would be less in her life!! Now u add it up to the previous night's flirting behavior, he was off the target but not too much!


Now as far as Ram feeling the guilt? well, he should .. for the poor choice of words and NOT for him expressing his anger for Priya ignoring him and leaving him from the party. Once the "i am really sorry for being an A****e and saying this" is over... he should not feel guilty but tell Priya that she is so wrong. That HE TOO has noticed her and missed her all this time.

Poor choice of words.. Except tht suite word.. whic h Iam seriously reconsidering after this outburst, tell me where he was wrong. He tells off Niharika that Priya should be coming to the party since the host invited Family and she is.. Tht happ before Priya.. so no misunderstanding chances.. She enters and gives him cold shoulder, refuses to look at tht confused face to decode his expressions, in the name of Jealousy gives him a dose of Dhoni's perfect man package and gets it notches higher and terribly wrong by flirting with Ronit.. Not to mention talking abt fitness a million times inspite of not discussin it in public!! If somebody has to be called an a*****e.. Its not Ram alone here!! Just because someone gave a crying and possesed monologue.. doesn't make them right.. And to top it all.. If she noticed every movement and actions of his, this monologue should have never happened. She would have just kissed and done the BIg C! However hardcore feminist.. Iam.. this doesn;t' allow me to say YEs.. Bravo!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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one_ashi:

Your analysis was beautiful. It was like reading the views of a professional Psychiatrist. Are you one?

You covered everything very nicely.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ one_ashi

I couldn't agree with you more...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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i felt proud at her feminist act and cvs for displaying such a powerful act i diasagree that ram is selfish or has an ego problem he has lived all his lifealone has a bitter past and still has distrust of the opposite sex he is under a fear also of people close to him and leaving him and priya knows that she is i think now going overboard she aslso klnows that our ram is a naive and childlike this is not a snap of a finger for him to expres being smitten .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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AND PLUS FOSLA THanks for your indepth analysis hats off👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Last two days really dialogues by priya were OTT...actually they didn't blend with the past circumstances...secondly, I always felt that love can be felt without words..and we females have such stronger instincts...priya only gave her perception...if she thinks Ram didn't understand him...she equally failed...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: jainneha

i felt proud at her feminist act and cvs for displaying such a powerful act i diasagree that ram is selfish or has an ego problem he has lived all his lifealone has a bitter past and still has distrust of the opposite sex he is under a fear also of people close to him and leaving him and priya knows that she is i think now going overboard she aslso klnows that our ram is a naive and childlike this is not a snap of a finger for him to expres being smitten .


Neha

Thanks!! You just hit the nail on the right place!! Yup!! Priya Kapoor actually left him just like his mom!! The man who was alone once after placing his belief in his mom now has to earn his wife after the showdown! That's Priya's understanding of her husband!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: piyualka

Last two days really dialogues by priya were OTT...actually they didn't blend with the past circumstances...secondly, I always felt that love can be felt without words..and we females have such stronger instincts...priya only gave her perception...if she thinks Ram didn't understand him...she equally failed...


Piyualka

We were dumb to think that!! Love cannot be felt by words. And our female lead character who claims to have love has her strength just killed that innocent child(in her words!) out there by her false accusations!! She gave her perception and did never make an attempt to ask him except when she gave tht last ultimatum to confess.

My point is it was a two way failure. They didn't listen to their hearts. But today it looked like it was all Ram's fault!! Kick the CV's for it!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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cv are not sawing us .thast ram is fault.they are sawing...misunderstanding...its all bcoz of misunderstanding...all is happening...
when ram came to know truth he realise his mistake...when priya came to know truth she will also realise her mistake...

here both are not at fault...situation make them feel as fault done by other,

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