You know what else I loved? That Vikram knows Ram well enough to know that Ram doesn't understand Vikram's words but will one day. It just shows how well Vikram knows his friend and how much he cares.
Even though Vikram is basically telling Ram that the family doesn't care about him and not to sacrifice so much, it's not like he's telling him to abandon his family altogether. The point he's trying to get across is that Ram should live a little and not waste away for people who don't care.
And I'm just gonna end off saying I love Vikram and his whole little speech in that scene =) Escpecially when he talks about his daughter and compares with Ram's family and the part about all their memories are because of Ram.