UHH atm it's Ani's fault.. not the girls.. SO:Note Pg3 - Page 3

Meera is not at fault because she is not aware of Ani's married life. but she is at fault losing herself to Ani out of wedlock.

Nandini is not blaming Meera alone. she is angry on Ani for cheating her. at the same time she can't do anything more than crying because Ani is not alive now.

Now Nandini has only one option to question Meera. Nandini clearly asking Meera why she hide the truth. others were creating worse situation for Meera. but Nandini is sticking to only one question about her hiding truth.

Meera is also not a girl to destroy others happiness. she kept quiet seeing Nandini's love and trust on Ani. Meera doesn't want Nandini to think badly about Ani,

Original fault is on Ani who played with two girls life.

I think it was only and only Ani's fault. Neither of the women are responsible for this mess. He was not faithful to his wife. He hid about his marriage to Meera. Meera and Ani were both adults, so they can do whatever the hell they want as long as they didnt have anyone else in their life. The only fault here was Ani was committed to another women, he should have known what is the right thing to do.

Originally posted by: tamanna_20

I agree about our society being sexist! It's pretty unfortunate!

The crazy Aunt obviously represents the extreme sexist and sick-minded people in our society. She clearly did not even have any sympathy for Nandini, she just wanted drama and needed an excuse to insult Meera. Her comments on Meera's clothing were ridiculous and dumb, but sadly they showed what some people in our society do think even today.

On the other hand, I felt Nandini's reaction was totally justified. I'm surprised people think Meera should have been treated politely like a guest! Meera has been staying there claiming to be Ani's friend. She has been interacting with Ani's widow for the past 2 days, so no one is on their own going to think that Meera didn't know Ani had a wife, since his wife has been right in front of her all this time! The first thing they'll assume is she knew all along, until they are told the reality that it was all Ani's game and even Meera was clueless like Nandini. So Nandini can't be expected to be nice to Meera and politely ask for her side of the story. At this moment, in her eyes, first her husband cheated her, then he died, and now his lover is at their home disguised as a friend and cheating the trust she had placed in her.

And Nandini clearly blamed Ani equally, if not more, from the way she angrily tore/broke her mangalsutra apart. She did not make any statement about Ani being trapped by another woman, like that crazy Aunt did. She acknowledged that Ani was at fault and he had betrayed her. Even during her outburst on Meera, she did not ask why she had an affair with her husband, broke her home or that Meera "snatched" her husband. It was more along the lines of why did you lie to me, why did you come here disguised as a friend, why a betrayal of this sort when I trusted you.

good explanations guys :) agreed with your thoughts!

fariiee, you created a wonderful topic and I too agree with you to some extent.

Originally posted by: AASUS

fariiee12 it's a great post. The scene was too serious and you wrote things to lighten up the mood a bit. I liked it. I would look forward to read in future also.

I'm sorry someone got carried away. Not sure if you are aware but I'm visiting forum regularly if nt everyday since show started. All the real fans only discuss the show and treat everyone with respect.

One ID was basing, tried to create differences between fans and got banned. It doesn't take too long to create new one and start over again.

I just want to let you know we like your post.

All the others who wrote their pov were interesting for me to read.

Tamanna explained really well. I was thinking similar to what she said.

aw that was so sweet of you :) thank you :)