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Goodness gracious me! Has Gaushala been listening at Murari's door?? She was spot on with her suspected reasons regarding Murari's sudden desire to restore relations.

Originally posted by: hashbrown

three/ four things are fundamental... woman's misery, distance between her and her husband, continuous success of the evil and extreme humiliation of the female lead. these plays are structured around these fundamental guiding principles.

i would like to see bharti/murli story to be different from now on to change the miserable trend. they should share ideas and work as a team as genuine partners, as rakhie has mentioned...
otherwise, like fuzzy, i will be asking myself, why am i still watching the show...

(I am NOT trying to prove that @hashbrown is wrong, i agree about the first paragraph, and this is just my feeling about this, and why I watch indian shows)

I know that this picture of indian wedding is repetitive and a shame from a certain point of view. But this is how i see it :
First of all, THIS KIND of indian shows, I think, are destined to woman gender.
As I see it , an indian woman has to fight for her rights but without surpassing her husband/sasurral, even if he is wrong. So as a external spectator of this scene, we can see that the woman is right (just like Bharti in front of Prakash) . Since we know that in the end, the lead female will be happy anyway, we (or more likely just me 😆) expect to see how far the main girl will go/endure to prove that she is right and that, still respecting everyone around her. Which makes her even more respectable/strong in my eyes.
The lack of love is referring to arrange marriage I think, that is still really present in our community.
The misery of the main girl and humiliation make us sympathize/empathize with her and sometimes we can also recognize ourselves in her story (or in a fraction of her story). That also point out the statue of a girl in an new family which isn't always magnanimous.
The continuous evil success makes the show go on for some more episodes.

We don't want to see someone live happily with everything needed, or maybe in a comedy show.
A drama is a whole different world. But there is one point I can't forgive to this type of show : it's the work of some writers that made the serial go unrealistic, it's like they were in a hurry to drown the main character.
I really love realistic shows/books/stories so I start to feel bored when I find myself saying during a show "That could NEVER happen in real life. This is TOO MUCH"

(sorry for the lack of vocabulary, i've tried to express my ideas the best i could :) , also i'm apologizing if this post (that is more about my opinion that the actual show) is wrong in any way)

Originally posted by: Rakhie_08

Goodness gracious me! Has Gaushala been listening at Murari's door?? She was spot on with her suspected reasons regarding Murari's sudden desire to restore relations.

Gau was on the case, before murari had made his first move!

I am loving Murli at the moment. So defiant and adamant and that he will have nothing to do with Murari and co.

Have more to say on the epi but will wait till the update is posted.

My thoughts precisely - surprised Mridang didn't follow suit...

Originally posted by: _Vrish_

I suspect that Bharti may be the one to discover their intentions and warn them about it, and the interesting thing this time will be whether Murli believes Murari over Bharti, the way he previously believed Prakash over Bharti? In other words, show the story as Murli doing it right the 2nd time.

See this time I think Murli will believe Bharti as he'll want any excuse to throw them out and I do want Bharli working together so they can build a better relationship

Originally posted by: Rakhie_08

Goodness gracious me! Has Gaushala been listening at Murari's door?? She was spot on with her suspected reasons regarding Murari's sudden desire to restore relations.

Gau was on the case, before murari had made his first move!

I am loving Murli at the moment. So defiant and adamant and that he will have nothing to do with Murari and co.

Have more to say on the epi but will wait till the update is posted.

Gau doesn't need to listen @ Murari's door - in fact, he verified that there was nobody there, and only then started. They didn't show her outside overhearing anything after that. But I'm not a bit surprised - the reason Gau got it bang on is that she herself would have done exactly the same had the chappals been on the other foot.

But as I pointed out in the update, it would be fun to see her predictions come true, and I'd like it to start w/ her being made the servant in this house. Start w/ cleaning the floors, and even the toilet, if she moans too much 😈

Originally posted by: _Vrish_

Gau doesn't need to listen @ Murari's door - in fact, he verified that there was nobody there, and only then started. They didn't show her outside overhearing anything after that. But I'm not a bit surprised - the reason Gau got it bang on is that she herself would have done exactly the same had the chappals been on the other foot.

But as I pointed out in the update, it would be fun to see her predictions come true, and I'd like it to start w/ her being made the servant in this house. Start w/ cleaning the floors, and even the toilet, if she moans too much 😈

Vik

Publicly, Murari won't allow her to do that for Gau. Despite his insulting attitude towards Murli, he doesn't have it towards Bharti, since he knows that she's the reason for all these riches.) For Ashtami, maybe, but not Gau, on the pretext that Bharti is his bahu, and Gau ain't.. But I agree - if they do make such a scene of Gau cleaning the toilet, I will make a gif out of that, and have a BAVD avatar like you. My last RS avatar will be gone.

Yup, I hope the trio knows what exactly she's up to, and like Vrinda made DK suspect b4 everyone else, that they make Gau a suspect b4 the entire family, and start making her clean the rooms, the toilets, etc. And I hope Jhumka flees from there, or else, Gau will make her do it.

I think what might happen is that Bansi & Kamala might try to get them to ease up on Gau, and they'll accuse them of favoritism towards their bahu and threaten to leave. That's of course inconceivable, and so Kamansi will agree to their demand that Gau be made a servant, and then implement it. I think Mridang will run from there and get back his job - even his old bus conductor job will be a good escape then. 😆

well i don't want jhumka to leave alone as i don't want to separate the love birds jhumroo😉 they can elope & damroo can stay at gau/jhumka's house😆 obviously gau won't go back to her mayaka & won't interrupt the jhumroo romance😆

I do like the idea of Dumroo being a ghar jamai.

Since neither Bharti nor Murli seem to care about Bharti sweets, can Mridang or Veena go there and do the job of owners? Or are owners simply expected not to do any work? 😆 Maybe hand over some of the ownership to Amit? But if Bharti even thinks of that, Gau will send Mridang to work @ Bharti sweets, so that he can be an owner. Hey, how about Kartik? Since Bharti is so determined to oblige her birth sasural (is there such a thing? 😆), maybe she can give her share to Kartik-'bhaiya', and happily settle in home, ghunghat and all, and be there @ the beck & call of her sasurji?

Incidentally, while Bharti called Murari 'babuji', did you notice that Ashtami calls him 'Sasur-ji'. Hey, had Bharti called him that, it would have been perfect - she'd be following Ashtami's example wrt Murari, she'd still be respecting Bansi as Bhauji, and no such complications.