Sakshi walks out of defunct marriage - Page 2

Originally posted by: xyzzee

While I agree that Simran was unknowingly a hindrance in the Neha-Abhi marriage i do not think she was a hindrance in either the Urmila-Manas or Kiran-Abhi marriage..

hiya xyzzee.....

cool stuff...actually, I think i didn't explain myself very well....I agree totally with all u said....simran was only at fault in the abhi-neha marriage....correct! agree wholeheartedly....

In the other marriages, simran did not do anything to harm those marriages - they fell apart cos it was their own doing.....

However, what i feel and (i think) u do as well, is that simran had this tendencty to create insecurities in the women around her...it was NOT simran's fault, but it was a knack that simran had, what with being the superwoman that she is......as it happens, ria was a successful career woman who would not be insecure of simran, probably, but there was a chance that the manas-simran friendship would bite, hence manas went away...it is onyl hypothetical, but i know these types of things happen in real life...

great post from u also xyzzee - and great running of the MOW thread also 👏...enjoying it v.much....😊

Originally posted by: innocentindian

hiya xyzzee.....

cool stuff...actually, I think i didn't explain myself very well....I agree totally with all u said....simran was only at fault in the abhi-neha marriage....correct! agree wholeheartedly....

In the other marriages, simran did not do anything to harm those marriages - they fell apart cos it was their own doing.....

However, what i feel and (i think) u do as well, is that simran had this tendencty to create insecurities in the women around her...it was NOT simran's fault, but it was a knack that simran had, what with being the superwoman that she is......as it happens, ria was a successful career woman who would not be insecure of simran, probably, but there was a chance that the manas-simran friendship would bite, hence manas went away...it is onyl hypothetical, but i know these types of things happen in real life...

great post from u also xyzzee - and great running of the MOW thread also 👏...enjoying it v.much....😊

Ah, I see what you mean.. Yes, something about Simran causes other people to feel jeolous/insecure about her.. I guess that's what you mean to say and I agree wholeheartedly:-) I think part of it maybe her success careerwise and the other thing is as you said her "supewoman" persona. Well said!

I am enjoying the MOW thread as well, interesting questions by all of you!:-)

SuperWoman is a kina word should not be given to simran because she is so weak, cries for everything, cannot solve a single problem alone. Either she needs manas or abhi or pranay or someone to solve her problems. But everyone else in the serial always say you are courageous you are this & that and all non-sense. Its director's fault, a pathetic drama.

Gosh.. I missed out on a lot of stuff these past few days...
My friend's husband called up her office and started to talk to her boss about my friend's marriage and their working hours. Their marriage was already on the rocks.. my friend was already considering divorce at that point.. it really pissed her off... why was he bringing his personal problem to her employer? If she discusses her personal problem with her employer, it is a different issue, but if the spouse calls up, the line is crossed...
I am sure when you hear Sakshi say, "you yelled at Dr Simran, I will not get back with you"... it sure sounds stupid... but look at the bigger picture, it may have been the last straw.

Originally posted by: vazz

Gosh.. I missed out on a lot of stuff these past few days...
My friend's husband called up her office and started to talk to her boss about my friend's marriage and their working hours. Their marriage was already on the rocks.. my friend was already considering divorce at that point.. it really pissed her off... why was he bringing his personal problem to her employer? If she discusses her personal problem with her employer, it is a different issue, but if the spouse calls up, the line is crossed...
I am sure when you hear Sakshi say, "you yelled at Dr Simran, I will not get back with you"... it sure sounds stupid... but look at the bigger picture, it may have been the last straw.

Very good point! I guess it all depends on circumstances and this indeed could be the "last straw".

I totally agree with your points chikoo, they are very true👏 Sakshi's reason for not coming back to the US sounds very unconvincing to me. I mean, all of a sudden, why did Simran become more important to her than saving her marriage? Very weird lady😕 I guess this was just the director's way of showing that Simran rules over all😉😆

Although I don't blame Simran at all for Sakshi's absurd decision. The fact that she will lose her husband merely because he was rude to Simran is this lady's stupidity! I'm sure this is not the only reason, their marriage was already damaged from before so this is not at all Simran's fault. But Sakshi should think before speaking and give sensible reasons for not coming back to US.

Originally posted by: innocentindian

Ok, doesn't matter how much saakshi says she adores and respects simran, she should not have walked out of the marriage just cos nakul did not respect simran....it's nakuls choice not to, and simran is not a goddess....personally, I don't think one should even then! Simran should not be an equation between the husband and wife...the fact that she is is mainly saakshi's fault and after that, possibly from simran's reaction, simran is a fault...but that is minor....nakul is not at fault on this altho the b*****d bad-mouthed 😡 my India..

Now, about the marriage being on the rocks....i'm still against them going their own way, but at least there are no kids involved .... this is a moot point and we can go on discussing it at least, whereas regarding simran, i must repeat, simran should not be an equation in any marriage....

Whilst writing, I remembered something I have often thought.....simran has always been a hindrance - UNKNOWINGLY - to all the couples there..whether it is manas and urmi, or even abbhi and kiran or even abhi and neha - they have all always reacted negatively to simrans presence....I often wonder whether that is not the reason Manas bailed out and moved country cos otherwise simran would make ria insecure and unknowingly create tension between ria and manas....just a thought....

no offence to the simrani-ites (me being one ofcourse 😉)...equally, I haven't become an anti-simraniite....so please, lets not even bring all that into the equation..😉😆

That's an excellent post II👏👏 Very well said, those were exactly my thoughts.

Originally posted by: Jen02

Although I don't blame Simran at all for Sakshi's absurd decision. The fact that she will lose her husband merely because he was rude to Simran is this lady's stupidity! I'm sure this is not the only reason, their marriage was already damaged from before so this is not at all Simran's fault. But Sakshi should think before speaking and give sensible reasons for not coming back to US.

Very true, this was not the only reason:-) This was just the "last straw" as we call it:-)) But somehow in an irritated state of mind, she just said what came to her mind at that time..