Everyone ignores me on IF!!! - Page 2

Chikoo, I don't mean to interfere but I think you misunderstood II's post. It doesn't sound like he is personally attacking you. I think he only wants to know how you would feel if you were called callous. But he is not calling you callous. I'm not sure, that is just my view of his post. But please don't think I'm attacking you😊

lol chikoo....
cool down will you... 😊
it was just a hypothetical question....
i don't think i was trying to be callous...but if u feel i was, then i publicly apologise... 😃

We are talking about serial character Simran and I called her callous and none of the members like Jen, II, Rachel.

Originally posted by: zeegreat

Quoting rachel490-"her over acting, her selfishness, everybody else in the serial roaming around her solving her problems."..Don't you think every human being needs someone to cry with?So what if she uses her close ones to solve problems, its only natural.Even you would do that. Either that, or you are super woman!! :P..
"I feel some times from the serial, simran calls the police as if they are working only for her. She is making use of her name and its nothing but bribing."..Well if someone IS infact as well known a personality as 'Dr. Simran', they would definitely use their influence to get things done. Its understood. But she never used her influence for the wrong things. Which is commendable. Anyone, with the kind of success this character has, would actually lose their head and go berserk...

Well anyway, like you said, its just a viewpoint. That's mine. :D..No big deal...

Quoting Nikki_Aneja: "I do not like weak and over emotional women. I think Simran is both weak and over emtional woman"...Now this i think i will have to disagree with. She raised a daughter on her own. And that too not hers as such. Its not easy being a single parent. Trust me, its one of the most difficult tasks...so no, she cant be termed as weak. And over emotional..well yeah, kinda emotional, as all humans are, but not over emotional. Her sensitivity is that of a woman. Woman are emotional. Thats what makes them better human beings and better at careers involving personnel...Researched and proven fact...

You know guys, am really enjoying this. Its great to have this debate. Thx!

I agree with you, zeegreat. Just my viewpoint too. She has never used her infleunce for getting wrong things done and in my opinion not selfish at all.. It is not easy to forgive Urmila and her MIL for the way they behaved with her, but she did it. In fact if you ask me, she does too much of social service. LOL. Also, as for the troubles she has had to face in her life, any real person would have gone crazy by now. She has actually been able to face all these tragedies courageously.. Another thing is she is courageous enough to accept her mistakes and apologize..The one big mistake she made and a stupid one was to get Neha married to Abhi. Anyway, we have had many discussions on Simran before and I do not expect people to really agree with me, so I think I will just agree to disagree with some others. Else, I will only be getting into repeat mode. Also, discussions like this can get quite heated:-) The only thing I can say is I prefer her to some other serial Sati Savitri, always tolerating any insult, suffering Bahu kinds. Again, just my opinion:-)

Originally posted by: chikoo

We are talking about serial character Simran and I called her callous and none of the members like Jen, II, Rachel.

Why did you mention my name here chikoo, I'm still trying to understand the word you said about simran.But I dont know why did you mention my name above?

Originally posted by: rachel490

Why did you mention my name here chikoo, I'm still trying to understand the word you said about simran.But I dont know why did you mention my name above?

Because I knew you are a friend 😃. Let me clarify here:

I consider Simran a callous character and none of the members of the forum like you, II, Jen or any other member. So, II has no right to even ask such a hypothetical question and call me callous!! I hope II reads this!

Zeegreat, welcome to the forum. We never want to ignore a member here. Probably all might have missed out on your thread unintentionally...Zeegreat, you need not be a Simran lover to be on this forum here. This is just a mis-judgement from other fellow members. If thiss was purely a Simran fan club, then there would be no place for many members here. But this is not right....We love all our members and DO NOT group them as Simran Lovers or Simran Haters....So please keep active, post your thoughts....

AS regards this thread, Chikoo, I think II did not intend to call you Callous. If at all he did, he has personally apologised in this same thread. So i do not think you need to pull this thread along and make a big issue of it...

Also, i would say, if you put up an argument against Simran, you will definitely hear the other side of the argument too. So when you write something, you should be ready to digest the other extreme too. We do not stop you all to argue on how Simran is, how bad she is or how good she is. But what we want our members to follow is a constructive way of criticism. I hope the section members follow this...

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Originally posted by: chikoo

Because I knew you are a friend 😃. Let me clarify here:

I consider Simran a callous character and none of the members of the forum like you, II, Jen or any other member. So, II has no right to even ask such a hypothetical question and call me callous!! I hope II reads this!

Okay, my confusion is cleared😊 I knew that you were only calling the character Simran callous, not any of us and I think that's fair, I have absolutely no problem with your opinion😊 Wow, talk about staying on topic😆😆

Originally posted by: sree_20

AS regards this thread, Chikoo, I think II did not intend to call you Callous. If at all he did, he has personally apologised in this same thread. So i do not think you need to pull this thread along and make a big issue of it...

I do not intend to make an issue out of it.

Originally posted by: sree_20

Also, i would say, if you put up an argument against Simran, you will definitely hear the other side of the argument too. So when you write something, you should be ready to digest the other extreme too.

IF Development Group

Ah! pardon my ignorance, but I thought that counter argument should be about the show and it should not be the personal attack. But I think I should be able to deal it by myself.

Originally posted by: chikoo

I do not intend to make an issue out of it.

Ah! pardon my ignorance, but I thought that counter argument should be about the show and it should not be the personal attack. But I think I should be able to deal it by myself.

hmmmmm, i would expect a similar warning to II from sree but they dont give to simran admirers even though they make mistakes

Why should always simran bashers get a heart attack on this forum 😉