The Wait (Ariya FF) Part-43 Updated (Page-84) - Page 82

Originally posted by: Nainasehgal89

Awesome update 👏 rathore rawte can never change 🙄🙄😮‍💨😮‍💨 anvi is so cute and she made the dou chiefs speechless withvher cuteness 😍 And the last lines were si herat touching sahi h kabhi kabhi humein andhere ki itni aadat ho jati h ki subah ki roshni se darr lagta h par har raat ka ant hota h or ek nayi subah apne sath ek nayi ummeed lekar aati h

Thank you

Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

Oho sakshi writes shayari. The lines are very sweet

Anvi and Rathore mvp of the update lol. Rathore ne pel diya 🤣🤣🤣 arjun was like mere liye mat karo, Rathore turned it on him that you aren't anyone special 🤣🤣🤣🤣 maza aya lol

Chotu is also very observant i liked the way he said someone has to say something khamoshi mein sab khatam hogya lol. Ayesha is enjoying all fun and laughing lol.

I know Arjun is very reserved and it's like 1 step forward 10000 steps backward with him, but I did feel bad today. Riya kept asking him repeatedly if he's fine, he didn't even acknowledge it. And here I feel somehow if it was another girl , same as Riya kind and compassionate, the girl would move on and treat arjun like a senior. Nothing special. Because till how long you keep opening your heart only to shut it and get hurt. Not getting acknowledged is such a sad thing.

And it's not to say another girl is weak or whatever, but it's a normal human thing. You don't do the same thing again and again hoping different outcome. That's insanity and riya is doing the same. It's sad.

Arjun probably thinks talking to her in a month and standing next to her is somehow opening his own heart but it looks breadcrumbs. It's like she crossed ocean and he took a baby step. This don't feel equal. Riya is always good vulnerable and more to lose - she makes one mistake and is berated that's she's irresponsible etc. her heart is gone and her turmoil impacts her work. Nothing with Arjun. He shuts himself and focus on work and never gets the complain from his senior. Not like Riya

I am enjoying this small change but had a thought how imbalance this relationship/one sided infatuation is and feel sad for Riya. At a point you have to think if this is enough, you know? And I also know Arjun don't owe her anything. It was her love and care for him. Yet I feel bad that she's stuck. She keeps thinking about this guy and her thoughts action revolve around him. He? Nothing outwardly

Arjun feels he cannot acknowledge his feelings without giving that part of his life, a closure. Arjun is stuck in a whirlpool. He cannot move on until he comes out of the whirlpool in his head.

He cannot see beyond this turmoil and hence does not realise what his behaviour does to others.

Iska ek hi solution hain ek bada sa outburst. Apne dil mein jo bhi hain sab nikal do.

As for Riya. Abhi uska pyaar, pyaar hi banke rahe toh achcha. Because pyaar jab, without acknowledgement aata hain na, toh irrational banne ki kagaar par chal jata hain.

Maan lo Arjun upset hain kisi cheez se, kisise behas ho jaati hn, whatever, toh Riya ka pyaar, Arjun se sympathise toh karega hi par na sirf Arjun ki galatiyaan use dikhaai dena band ho jayengi, woh uss doosre insaan par saara blame daalne lag jayenge. Aise pyaar me unhe lagte lagta hain ki Arjun use acknowledge uss doosre insaan ke karan nahin kar raha.

Yeh saara maamla, lack of clear communication aur lack of acceptance ka hain. Baaton se hi toh baat banti/bigadti hn.

Originally posted by: Somkhu

Amazing update.

Thank you

Originally posted by: muskan760

i think it depends on the reader's mindset.. we are ready to accept everything Riya does for Arjun , be it staying by his side or trying to mend Rathore-Arjun relationship .. but at the same time we aren't ready to accept a little involvement of Sakshi in Arjun's matters ( even though i have tried to keep her flirting minimal in this fiction lol) ..so yeah i think no one considers sakshi as a harm not her friends , not even Riya but the way she doesn't keep anything inside her and say it aloud that might be irking the readers...

(but trust me she is absolutely no harm.. i will never make her that.. the reason i keep continuing with Sakshi because i don't think she doesn't deserve to be eliminated solely because of Arjun - Riya.. i mean she has great bonding with others so i don't want to break the chain just because Arjun didn't like her back)

I have mentioned before on the forum as well, the only recognised couples were Arjun-Roshni and to an extent Sameer-Ayesha and i guess Shree-Liza.

Others were possibilities of imagination and the reason every female lead was introduced on the show was a potentially opposite of Arjun which is rather........... I dont know.

Regardless, like you rightly mentioned, its about how we want to view each of the characters. May be it was how they were introduced, may be it was the actors, may be personal liking, that drives perceptions and reflects in commentary.

Nonetheless, kudos to you for maintaining the balance well.

Originally posted by: muskan760

see in my thought Riya keeps going with her efforts just because she doesn't expect the same from him from the beginning .. i think if at one point Arjun will lean towards Sakshi obviously Riya will feel bad and all but she won't interfere or make him feel like she did so much for him yet got nothing out of it.

and as for Arjun him taking baby step is also out of the syllabus for the whole team because they know how he is.. in future you will see him trying to run away because of the newly found attachments that will keep him in the team against his wish.. the changes in him aren't for the externals ...the external changes would be only romance for one girl and compassion for others..

tab tak i am trying to build him internally

And imo Riya is nice not because she wants Arjun. She's kind and nice to everyone and just extra soft to arjun. I was just wondering about that affection. It's their story so they will be together but I was just wondering till how long only one person can hold onto hope that this love will float.

It's kinda like sarafsima wrote a story where Arjun for some reason pushed Riya away and she's like I can't wait for you now you hurt me too much. I was wondering if Riya feels stuck that what kinda situation is this. It can't be healthy

Arjun already runs so much lmaooo aur kitna daurega bhai

It's not a criticism towards you just to be clear.just the dynamic of these two makes me curious

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Arjun feels he cannot acknowledge his feelings without giving that part of his life, a closure. Arjun is stuck in a whirlpool. He cannot move on until he comes out of the whirlpool in his head.

He cannot see beyond this turmoil and hence does not realise what his behaviour does to others.

Iska ek hi solution hain ek bada sa outburst. Apne dil mein jo bhi hain sab nikal do.

As for Riya. Abhi uska pyaar, pyaar hi banke rahe toh achcha. Because pyaar jab, without acknowledgement aata hain na, toh irrational banne ki kagaar par chal jata hain.

Maan lo Arjun upset hain kisi cheez se, kisise behas ho jaati hn, whatever, toh Riya ka pyaar, Arjun se sympathise toh karega hi par na sirf Arjun ki galatiyaan use dikhaai dena band ho jayengi, woh uss doosre insaan par saara blame daalne lag jayenge. Aise pyaar me unhe lagte lagta hain ki Arjun use acknowledge uss doosre insaan ke karan nahin kar raha.

Yeh saara maamla, lack of clear communication aur lack of acceptance ka hain. Baaton se hi toh baat banti/bigadti hn.

Iska outburst will just hurt others also why will anyone tolerate it lol. Bhai tumhara issue khud dekhlo. He does need a heart to heart with himself and maybe Rathore? Sameer has changed as much as he can. Again it's like arjun Riya relationship. Riya is doing everything. She's nice, she talks without expectations and loves the same way. Rathore has professionally given arjun leeway and backs him up. Arjun needs to catch up keeping aside his own issue. Till he's not doing i feel sad for Riya and Sam cause of their one sided efforts

That's an interesting point ki Riya ko Arjun ka galti dikhna band ho jayega due to her own feelings. That will be an interesting track to see where she realise Arjun can make mistake too and maybe tell him...you know like kabhi Khushi kabhi gham, aap pati hai devta nahi type 🤣🤣🤣🤣 that will be great. I feel she's so blinded by righteous great can never be wrong Arjun sir.

Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

na na to me sakshi isn't even a factor. Riya might feel bad that sakshi got some attention she never could but then she probably knows she can't behave that way to get the attention and arjun won't tolerate that from her.

And imo Riya is nice not because she wants Arjun. She's kind and nice to everyone and just extra soft to arjun. I was just wondering about that affection. It's their story so they will be together but I was just wondering till how long only one person can hold onto hope that this love will float.

It's kinda like sarafsima wrote a story where Arjun for some reason pushed Riya away and she's like I can't wait for you now you hurt me too much. I was wondering if Riya feels stuck that what kinda situation is this. It can't be healthy

Arjun already runs so much lmaooo aur kitna daurega bhai

It's not a criticism towards you just to be clear.just the dynamic of these two makes me curious

Imagine if Riya will start behaving like Sakshi Arjun will be like what the f*** happened to you?? 😭

And I read Bodhianveshika's previous comment and she was right.. the day Riya will start expecting something Arjun she would be easily angered by the lack of efforts from him..

But that situation will come when the bro will start showing her that she matters to him..then she can even get angry on him like Ayesha 😂😭

And girl you are free to criticize because manzil abhi due hai thoda 😂😭

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Arjun feels he cannot acknowledge his feelings without giving that part of his life, a closure. Arjun is stuck in a whirlpool. He cannot move on until he comes out of the whirlpool in his head.

He cannot see beyond this turmoil and hence does not realise what his behaviour does to others.

Iska ek hi solution hain ek bada sa outburst. Apne dil mein jo bhi hain sab nikal do.

As for Riya. Abhi uska pyaar, pyaar hi banke rahe toh achcha. Because pyaar jab, without acknowledgement aata hain na, toh irrational banne ki kagaar par chal jata hain.

Maan lo Arjun upset hain kisi cheez se, kisise behas ho jaati hn, whatever, toh Riya ka pyaar, Arjun se sympathise toh karega hi par na sirf Arjun ki galatiyaan use dikhaai dena band ho jayengi, woh uss doosre insaan par saara blame daalne lag jayenge. Aise pyaar me unhe lagte lagta hain ki Arjun use acknowledge uss doosre insaan ke karan nahin kar raha.

Yeh saara maamla, lack of clear communication aur lack of acceptance ka hain. Baaton se hi toh baat banti/bigadti hn.

He has too much to handle right after he would acknowledge the changes in himself..like moving on from Roshni ,starting a new attachment, walking out of his shell and on the top the fear of past repeating again...

With all these in mind I think only Rathore can handle the outburst...

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

I have mentioned before on the forum as well, the only recognised couples were Arjun-Roshni and to an extent Sameer-Ayesha and i guess Shree-Liza.

Others were possibilities of imagination and the reason every female lead was introduced on the show was a potentially opposite of Arjun which is rather........... I dont know.

Regardless, like you rightly mentioned, its about how we want to view each of the characters. May be it was how they were introduced, may be it was the actors, may be personal liking, that drives perceptions and reflects in commentary.

Nonetheless, kudos to you for maintaining the balance well.

As for me i could never like any female character for Arjun after Riya ....😭 You know i even waited for some Ekta Kapoor magic to happen that would bring back Riya in the show

Originally posted by: muskan760

As for me i could never like any female character for Arjun after Riya ....😭 You know i even waited for some Ekta Kapoor magic to happen that would bring back Riya in the show

May be its age catching up 😊.

But have seen too many freshers being in awe of seniors, people being star-struck and most fading away and some ending in marriage.

About cases like Riya. Its like jab aap apne profession me naye ho, you are awed by the command of your seniors, you are susceptible to agreeing to everything they say or do, one is malleable and eventually this attraction, agreement grows into love. Rejection, at this stage, takes lesser time to accept and heal.

About cases like Sakshi. She seems older, having worked professionally for sometime, so there is no attraction at first. They challenge each other's intellect. When she sees him in action and matches it with his reputation, she is star-struck and willing to put in efforts to be with him just enough to manage her mind. Having seen things more, she may be more aware of an impending rejection but will take longer to accept and heal.

Toh 🤷🏻‍♀️.

But apni Riya toh bahut gehre Prem me pad chuki hn. Aur Sakshi, woh ek ajeeb situation me phans chuki hn.

Rahegi toh uske doston use sympathise karenge aur Riya-Arjun guilt me rahenge. Chahe jo ho, sabse zyada usiko dard hoga.