Hasmukh Leela shenanigans

OK i have full symathy with aged who are abused at home by kids but its not the case with hasmukh and leela at all. Its reverse in hasmukh leela case they have manipulated others and made others their ghulam all life till 90 years or so and are yesterday doing drama that we are furniture blah blah

Not all aged seniors are innocent in real life too and not all kids abusive and bad. Hasmkh and leela are definitely not innocent and good elders that anupama is doing so much drama at their emotional blackmails. Leela has always been a lalita pawar kind of saas to her bahu and grandsons wives. She has ruled vanraj house like a mother Queen all life even when badi baa her saas was alive

Hasmukh is Leela side kick all life who has done drama of supporting bahus and anuj and CA etc while enabling their abuse. Both these people have devised this manipulation of you scream and kick others i will show sympathy and wipe their tears drama. Thus ruling together over entire shah empire

I know pakhi exceeded her sobbing and complainig yesterday but she was also right. You cannot blindly feed kids any meds when so many youngsters around just ask one to do the job if you cannot see. What if hasmukh had fed rat poison to Ishani?

To gain sympathy this hasmukh eela started drama we are furniture we will not talk shhh someone may get up etc? When this leela screams and bangs plates and creates scenes every week in shah house and moholla before at night does she ever remember it disturb full moholla? When she discgraced GK akka in ravan dhavan festival where was her sympathy? I guess all shahs know this is hasmukh and leela drama so left quietly.

But the great anupama devi is acting as if this hasmukh and leela were beaten with belt and stick and thrown in their room by pakhi and vanraj? And doing so much nautanki at vanraj home? Now we realize where anupam ahs learnt this emotional blackmail tactic on anuj/yashdeep/yashma etc from hasmukh/leela her bapuji and baaaaaaa. This hasmukh leela are dedh shanas of home. They know well when to shed crocodile tears and grab prey in mouth for their benefits.

I do agree that aged get abused by kids and in laws at home. But some elders are very over bearing even at 80 or 90 they want son, grand kids to follow their orders, dress as per them, go out only as per ther wish, dress as per their wish. I mean if you listen to parents and grandparents till you are 60 years old and follow their orders when will you live life as per your wish and happiness? At old age?

No wonder india is very low in happiness index among countries of world and so are many other asian country. Because human never get freedom to live a per their wish always listen to parents, teachers, boss etc

Hasmukh and leela are definitely not abused aged ppl of world. They are abusers and manipulators and emotional drama artists. They know very well which button to press and trigger to gain false sympathy and make mountain out of mole hill. Using this tactic till 90 they have ruled over shah house badi baa, vanraj, anupama, kavya, dimpy, grand kids and their wives.

And this foolish lady anupam agoing hyper over their drama. Even vanraj knows his parents are doing drama and did not go to pacify. Hes seen all this 60 years and knows them well. Even pakhi, toshu know them well. But anupama has gone mad in their love and cannot see their manipulation. Pakhi may be wrong but hasmukh leela are no saints. Pakhi learnt from them and anupama, vanraj only whatever screaming shouting she did.

Hasmukh and leela are narcissist ppl of highest order in world - Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health condition in which people have an unreasonably high sense of their own importance. They need and seek too much attention and want people to admire them. People with this disorder may lack the ability to understand or care about the feelings of others.

Originally posted by: myviewprem

But the great anupama devi is acting as if this hasmukh and leela were beaten with belt and stick and thrown in their room by pakhi and vanraj? And doing so much nautanki at vanraj home? Now we realize where anupam ahs learnt this emotional blackmail tactic on anuj/yashdeep/yashma etc from hasmukh/leela her bapuji and baaaaaaa. This hasmukh leela are dedh shanas of home. They know well when to shed crocodile tears and grab prey in mouth for their benefits.

Hasmukh and anupam are narcissit of highest level - there are diff types of narcissist actually (all bold traits in anupama )

Vulnerable Narcissism

This behavior is usually the result of childhood neglect or abuse. People with this behavior are much more sensitive. Narcissistic behavior helps to protect them against feeling inadequate. Even though they go between feeling inferior and superior to others, they feel offended or anxious when others don’t treat them as if they’re special.

Certain things may trigger problems with a narcissist. It's best to not to:

Argue or confront. Try to not confront a narcissist directly. As difficult as it may be to constantly tiptoe around them, it can be better to manage their need to feel in charge.

Direct them. Narcissists like to have control and often fear losing it. Efforts to lead or instruct them will often fail.

Expect them to see your point of view. Narcissists don’t like to admit when they’re wrong or that they’re unlovable, so trying to make them see things your way could backfire.

Expect deep, meaningful communication. Narcissists have very little empathy, so honest, heartfelt communication often doesn’t get through and can even create an angry outburst or shutdown response,.

Go over past issues. Don’t try to make them see a long line of behavior dating back years – or how they’re just like their father, for example, Perlin says. Instead, stay in the present when you express requests or hurt feelings.

People with narcissistic personality disorder usually don’t change, so keep that in mind. Even if you learn to manage your relationship better, it probably won’t ever be a healthy relationship.

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

I really wish that they would have been beaten black and blue but it was barely a verbal lashing. And his unpaid maid kept interrupting. Considering the way, Dhongi buddha and jungly mawaali buddhi were playing victims, would have expected that some great injustice or grevious harm was done to them but it was nothing.