Anupamaa 21st Apr 2024 Written Update & Daily Discussions Thread - Page 11

Originally posted by: Paru...

This is not called abandoning the child. This is called handing over custody of the child to the father with mutual agreement post divorce. Otherwise Anuj wouldn't have been able to leave the country if she also had custody rights. Here she gave custody rights of the child to Anuj.

Originally posted by: Ashita5500

If Anupama can stay with her ex to babysit her adult, married kids then how do you expect Anuj to leave a 7-8 year old kid with a mentally unstable woman alone? Regarding puja at SH,even Anupama and Vanraj were performing rituals together which was a direct encroachment on Kavya's rights. Even religiously it's wrong and forbidden.

But he didn't have to stay alone with this woman for the sake of CA.He could have informed it to Anu if he wanted.

V and Anu were parents of Samar. Anuj sat at puja as Dimpy's father figure. What relation Maya had with Dimpy whom she hardly knew? When Baa asked about it ,Maya answered that Anuj and she are living together and will be together forever.

Originally posted by: Paru...

After Anuj decides not to return to Anu, Maya ,him and Ca were living together for month before they came to attend SamPle's wedding where Maya and Anuj attended Puja like a couple. Do watch episodes carefully.

After divorce she stayed at SH as her kids were there and Bapuji gave her property rights and karghana to start dance Acadamy. Even if she stayed at SH to take care Toshu or Bapuji.she did it with Anuj 's permission .So ur accusations r just baseless.

So Anupama can stay with Vanraj in same house but no they are not a couple.

Anuj Maya even if they stayed separately they are a couple LOL

Anupama sits with Pooja in Vanraj and keeps hugging him, is okay, Anuj sat with Maya is a crime.

The statements are enough proof of hypocrisy and what is baseless apparently

And lets not ruin the DDT with old discussions that have been done 100 times, its meant to be discussed today’s episode.

Originally posted by: Ashita5500

Don't get into the legalities. We know how much accurate the writing is. BTW when it comes to her bio kids,she always says "Maa hona kaise chhod dun" but when it came to Aadya,how she easily relinquished her motherly rights? This sums up how hypocrite and selfish she actually is.

When a couple is legally divorced ,then we have to talk the matter legally .right??

After reaching U.S Adhya has been misbehaving and insulting Anu frequently. Still Anu is forgiving her. Also two times Anu has saved her life. post her divorce with Anuj. It 's all because she still considers Adhya like her daughter.

Originally posted by: Paru...

5 years back did he give her any moral support after facing death and saving everyone's life ?His accusations forced her to leave the house which lead to their legal divorce. How can anyone give moral support to the legally divorced husband and daughter who left the country after the divorce??

Yes,5 years back he didn’t have moral support to her because he was also shaken that time. He was afraid that he could have loose CA. He didn’t said that she don’t love them but he said that shahs comes first for her no matter what. It’s just happened for 15 minutes or 30 minutes. For that she left the house for never looking back.

We all know whenever Anuj said anything to Anupama in 24 hours he goes to her and apologise. He would had done the same but she was not there.

I am not asking Anupama to give moral support but she should stop saying again n again that she loves CA more or she is mother of CA. She is not. There are visible difference between how she treated her bio kids and CA. Her dialogue that maa hona kaise chhod du doesn’t apply on CA. If she was a mother for CA then it is her duty to support them.

Originally posted by: Paru...

But he didn't have to stay alone with this woman for the sake of CA.He could have informed it to Anu if he wanted.

V and Anu were parents of Samar. Anuj sat at puja as Dimpy's father figure. What relation Maya had with Dimpy whom she hardly knew? When Baa asked about it ,Maya answered that Anuj and she are living together and will be together forever.

Originally posted by: Paru...

When a couple is legally divorced ,then we have to talk the matter legally .right??

After reaching U.S Adhya has been misbehaving and insulting Anu frequently. Still Anu is forgiving her. Also two times Anu has saved her life. post her divorce with Anuj. It 's all because she still considers Adhya like her daughter.

If she considered Aadya as her daughter why she abandoned her over an argument with her husband while she never did that with her bio kids even when she had worst of altercations with Vanraj? Hai koi justification?

Originally posted by: Ashita5500

Oh so in this relationship the onus should be only on Anuj. Anupama will make no effort to know the reason behind Anuj's sudden decision to stay with Maya. I see and even as Samar's parents Anupama had no right to sit with Vanraj. In Hinduism,a man can perform rituals only with his legally wedded wife not some random women. If Maya was wrong so was Anupama. Maya was encroaching upon her rights and she was upon Kavya's. Aise to badi sanskari banti hai itni badi baat nahi pata? Maya's words are irrelevant. She was mentally unstable. Aise to Vanraj ne bhi Anupama ko pursue kiya tha but you didn't blamed Anupama for his words so why are u blaming Anuj for Maya's words? Double standards?

I am a South Indian who don't do such pujas during wedding. So can't discuss much about it. Maya's words may be irrelevant. But what about Anuj?He has paraded Maya like a wife in front of Anu and wrote his name on her hand during Mehendi ceremony. PLz don't make him like a saint which he isn't.

Excuse me? Anupamaa and Vanraj are eternal couples and lovers. They have the right to sit together for Pooja.

Originally posted by: Dee-Dee

Anupama who recently stayed with her First Ex in same house for so many days and many times after marriage in Shah House with Paraya Mard, boliye ney Mishter Shah boliye ne