Anupamaa 22nd Mar 2024 Written Update & DDT DT Note Pg 11 - Page 7

Originally posted by: Wontshowmyname

What is this whateaboutery? Anupama kids are worst, so that gives this brat rights to be so sick?

Anupama didn't run away. She broke the relationship and left. She clearly told her so called 26 years love wala husband that she is leaving cos they don't want her in their life and he let her go, unlike what he did in shruti's case.

I have seen how bad step children and adopted kids are treated when their own is born. The sick behaviour of the brat will be called out regardless of your personal preferences.

You are ok with the brat treating the woman who saved her twice as a slave and a garbage and wanting her wish(shruti) to marry her father.

You wouldn't say the same, if a real daughter would have asked her real mother to marry another man the daughter likes cos her real father can't provide for her needs and the other man is everything she wants and needs in a father figure.

If she is adopted, she can ask her father to marry another woman who fulfills her wishes? Wow!! Great logic.

Life is full of compromises and if a brat thinks her happiness, her wishes are above all and above everything, then she needs to be called out for that.

And stop personal targetting like last time. I don't have a problem with adopted kids but with kids who are so egoistic. I had read about a case where an adopted son had k!lled his adoptive parents cos he wanted their wealth. So no, not all adopted kids need to be treated like they are some present given by god.

It always depends on the behaviour of the child. And if this sick brat is so ungrateful even if she was saved twice by her adoptive mother when she was a child then I can imagine how bad such a brat will be when she grows up.

Anupama literally run away that time. Anuj was trying to know about whereabouts and she was no where to found. What they have shown they didn’t meet after that day. I don’t know how the divorce happens maybe like Anupama’s Visa and job where she didn’t have to meet anyone. I think it was Anupama who sends the sign divorce papers to anuj by someone else.

Now Anuj are divorced to Anupama from 5 years and living with Shruti from 4+ years. He was the one who gave the hope to Shruti. He never told Shruti before meeting Anupama again that he will never marry her so she should move on. So now how is adhya wrong that she wants her father to get married to the same girl who was living with them from years as a family. Who are fulfilling all the responsibilities of lady of the house. It was only anuj who is wrong for not clarifying anything from beginning and running behind Anupama. It is anuj who are wrong to force adhya to meet Anupama or taking her to such place.

Now it is not the case about adopted or bio kids because for adhya Anupama is no one after she gave up the custody. It’s not like blood relations who can’t changed.

Anupama saving adhya doesn’t give her right to neglect the said child. Adhya was very compromising in starting she left with maaya only because of this so anuj and Anupama don’t fight. She was listening taunt from Baa and pakhi from beginning but Anupama never ask them to respect adhya. She was very understanding in Samar death track too. What made her change is Anupama’s different behaviour between her and Pakhi. It was Pakhi and Baa who made her insecure.

Now they are living apart from 5 years and adhya simply don’t wants to change things now.Anupama also don’t want to do anything with Anuj. It is all anuj fault that he is not ready to think straight. Him giving the job to Tosha was an example of that. What he was thinking god knows. Now he will interfere in shah clan life and adhya will be one who will get troll by Anupama Stan. Only adhya will suffer by Anuj’s Anupama(in turn shah) pleasing attitude.Anuj have to made his mind and decide what he wants. Either he have to let go of Shruti or stay away from Anupama. He just can’t run away from truth.

You noticed it too right. Anupamaa showered more love on Ansh than other kids. Maybe because he is a boy and Anupamaa discriminates between genders.

Who knows if chhoti anu was a guy, she would have given the child more attention

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kfo0NarWpYU

Yeh Dekho because of aadhya anupama going fall at fire and this aadhya is saying pops ne anupama ke liye Mera Haan chod diya

Thst is why told aaadhya is so selfish just usko poori attention milne chahiye this aadhya is not all bother ise saamne wale person ki jaan bhi jaa sakti Hai

Anupama jal le rakh ho jaaye anupama ki haddi pasli toot jaaye kimjal mar jaaye Pari mar jaaye but aadhy chahti hai ki unhe poori attention milne chahiye ??.t

To phir agar ko counseling ki jaroorat hai to isme galat kya kaha because uski physical harqaton ki wajah se logon ki jaan jaa sakti Hai And she is not all bother and she is fine with it ?

Originally posted by: Wontshowmyname

Sorry whataboutery doesn't help you understand anything. It's just a counter accusation to prove ones superiority. So for e.g. in a school if your child physically hurts someone and the parent says, your child has hurt my son and you counter it by saying but ur child is also talkative in school, then that's whataboutery.

If a person you are related to is bad, you don't defend them by saying but what is the problem. Your child has also shown bad behaviour. You try to correct your own. But since it's just fiction you can't correct the brat's behaviour.

Again, how is this even relevant. Neither is Anupama nor Shahs nor Kapadias Nor Shruti's are related to me or for that matter anyone here.

so, I or anyone else is bound to have a neutral opinion. A neutral opinion is purely fact and evidence driven logic, based.

I never said her 2 children aren't bad. Her two kids are the worst. It is your friend and you who deduced it from my statement cos for you that brat is god given angel who can do no wrong. Infact she is the one "who cannot be named" for her wrong deeds.

And the fact that you have branded the child a brat saying something?

The ML/actor who you seem to be a fan of character assassinated anupama and told her how low she is and also told her that her own children are baggages. Your angel also lied and insulted her when she had just come back from death. What else did the ML say that it was a mistake to marry her, that too in front of the family. So, if a person does so much then no one will want to stay with him.

Are you branding or concluding me to be a fan of any character? I did not do any name calling, you did. If so, doesn’t that contradict your own stance of being an agnostic? And since you may not have been aware of other posts on the forum.

That also clearly shows your absolute ignoring of the facts of the incidents (marriage, accident and beyond) in your defense of the female lead.

He and his brat didn't want her and she gave them what they wanted. If he would be really interested in searching for her, he would have. Rich people do employ investigators. But chalo, it's a fiction serial so sar paer toh hoga nahi story main. So, they said he searched for her and couldn't find her and so what did he do?

Packed and went to USA and found a better, younger mother for his daughter who he has been in a live-in relationship for 4 years. He got all physical needs and child needs fulfilled for 4 years. So, where were they at a loss? Now don't say that pavitra live-in tha 😂😂😂 chalo we can believe somewhere pavitra live-in can happen in India but in usa live-in means only one thing.

What is this supposed to even mean? I understand the need to defend the female lead but resorting to this? How is this defense different from Leela questioning Anupama's character? How is this even right?

So, chalo since fiction main sar paer nahi hota and ml ko whitewash karna hai for trps so yeh bhi Maan lete hain ki pavitra live-in hai usa main 😂😂😂 but that doesn't change the fact that he found a replacement and would be happily married with his new nanny if he wouldn't have seen anupamaa.

Anupamaa beat aadhya?

Who mentioned that she beat Aadhya?

Which episode was that. I have a distant relative whose mother was a carnatic singer. The mother died in childbirth and the father in a year's time (like anuj) married another woman. The woman was alright till she got pregnant and after she delivered a baby she used to treat her step daughter like filth i.e. she used to beat her with broom, she never used to keep a maid, she used to make her do all the house chores, she used to not let her go to school.

The girl ran away to her uncle's home and then when her uncle insisted her to go back to her father's home cos she isn't her daughter, she ran away with a boy and married him. I don't think anupama has done any such thing with the brat.

Again, how is this even elevant to Anupama's context?

Abuse is not only Physical. Verbal Abuse is also abuse. Anupama allowed Shahs to abuse Aadhya. She ferried her along to Shah House knowing what treatment is meted out to herHow is that conveniently ignored?

As far as Shah house is concerned, yes they have been bad to her. But is this the reason why the brat is angry or is it because she wasn't prioritised that she is angry. If anupama would have k!lled pari that day then maybe she would be able to prove her love for them.

And she ignored her for one or the other of the irrelevant Shah needs. Isnt that reason enough? Hell, even Pakhi called out her excessive time spent at Shah House ignoring her house. Isnt that reason enough for resentment. The girl was being constantly reminded that her mother would forsake her and that she was adopted and would be sent back to the orphanage and what did the mother do? She proved the naysayers right? Isn't that reason enough for resentment?

Yes her own children should be grateful to her. Even Leela and hasmukh. Where did I say they shouldn't be? they are shown bad in the serial and no one doubts that but when the brat is called bad then such big justifications 😂😂😂 again whataboutery.

Again They are the worst but they are Shahs afterALL our target will still be the child because we have different barometers of judgement👏🏻.

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Aadhya definitely needs counselling. Infact jo logo ne Anupamaa se sachcha pyaar kiya, all need counselling.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kfo0NarWpYU

Yeh Dekho because of aadhya anupama going fall at fire and this aadhya is saying pops ne anupama ke liye Mera Haan chod diya

Thst is why told aaadhya is so selfish just usko poori attention milne chahiye this aadhya is not all bother ise saamne wale person ki jaan bhi jaa sakti Hai

Anupama jal le rakh ho jaaye anupama ki haddi pasli toot jaaye kimjal mar jaaye Pari mar jaaye but aadhy chahti hai ki unhe poori attention milne chahiye ??.t

To phir agar ko counseling ki jaroorat hai to isme galat kya kaha because uski physical harqaton ki wajah se logon ki jaan jaa sakti Hai And she is not all bother and she is fine with it ?

This girl has became very selfish She has grown into an arrogant spoiled brat. Eventhough Pakhi is also quite selfish, I loved the way she gave answers to Adhya today saying she needs medical treatment for her brain.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Aadhya definitely needs counselling. Infact jo logo ne Anupamaa se sachcha pyaar kiya, all need counselling.

Achcha that's why she run after the shahs, wohi normal hai

PS: Us aag mein majboor ko girna chahiye tha. Kaisa awara majnu hai.. He knows his daughter does not like her but then also he brought her to celebrate holika dehen with that filthy family. Aadhya should run for her life from such a father.

Baaki Anupama ki life Toshu ke liye khatre mein pade, kidnappers pure shahs ko kidnap kar lein

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Choti ke anupama ke Dhaka Dene ke bawjood bhi jisme anupama ko chot bhi lag sakti thi anupama ne choti ko gunde se Bachaya

Choti anu us very selfish girl doosre ko chahe chot lage ya haddi toote but mujhe sabse pehle priority do khaali bus muhe poocha jaaye mujhe bus importance di jaaye

This small girl is living with so much hatred in her mind. Did u see the way she has reacted when she saw Shah pariwar at the Holi function??Actually Shah family took good care of her when Anuj was hospitalized after falling from the cliff and when Anupama went for Udaan and Anuj couldn't handle he trauma. But this gild does not remembers those good deeds.

Originally posted by: Wontshowmyname

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Yes her own children should be grateful to her. Even Leela and hasmukh. Where did I say they shouldn't be? they are shown bad in the serial and no one doubts that but when the brat is called bad then such big justifications 😂😂😂 again whataboutery.

In Shah house she was mistreated. Ok. Justified. So, if your child is slapped by your in-laws(for any reason), you will tell your husband/wife to cut all ties with their parents and live baggage free with them?

Just reminds me of saathiya movie where the hero asks the heroine to cut all ties with her parents because they insulted him and the father of the heroine dies waiting for his daughter to come meet him. So, don't tell me Leela hasmukh aren't her parents. I know. agreed. But she considers them to be. Chalo. Usko bhi fiction hai, binn sar paer ka Maan lete hain but the children and their family is related to her.

Did Vanraj, Leela-Hansmukh abuse her or not? So, the reason for divorce was purely infidelity and she faced nothing in the 26 years at Shah House, correct? So the dard etc. has nothing to do with Shah House, correct?

Now coming to "children" and their relatives. Who are we talking about?

Paritosh, Kinjal and Pari who eventually left for UK and then now in USA. Even while they were there had categorically asked her not to interfere in Shah House matters multiple times.

Dimple who juggled around between Kapadia Mansion and Shah House after Samar. But hey she and Kavya were ALL by themselves at Shah House when they were both pregnant whole Leela-Hansmukh were taken care of by Anuj-Anupama?

Pakhi-Adhik were very much living off and at Kapadia Mansion.

How can you expect her to forget them so easily just to fulfill her husband's lust like he did during samar's death

If anyone's relative dies then you don't ask for feels from that person 😂😂😂 I think this much humanity anyone will have except the one who is completely lusty.

Again, the sequence are just replayed and replaced by the characters. So when Choti Anu was taken away from Anuj-Anupama and Anuj was depressed, it is absolutely ok to say "Aap Pagal ho gaye hain kya? Mujhse pyaar nahin karte? Baat keejiye mujhse, Holi manate hain"

But saying "Maine Samar ki jaan nahin li, tumhe mujhpar bharosa hain na" is wrong when he was wrongly accused of murder and being a victim of manhandling is Criminal. Somebody gave a name, is it called victim blaming?

But how can you expect a mother to just leave her children(no matter their age) her own for brand new relationships.

Finally, you agree that a mother does Not just leave her children. Oh but she Left Choti Anu. Was she not her child?

Yes shruti provided them everything na just like Maya provided them everything. Anuj abandoned anupama and went to stay with Maya and did kanyadaan of dimple with her and the brat wanted her mother to get married to her foster father even then.

Again, How can we possibly have different barometers to suit our narrative?

Firstly, Choti Anu did NOT ask for Maaya and Anuj's marriage, is this was mentioned Anywhere, please share the episode.

About the marriage rituals, the whole thing was wrong, ALL four of them are WRONG. Neither should Anupama and Vanraj sit through rituals as Mata-Pita or whatever nor should Anuj and Maaya, but hey, they did and everyone of the family members were ok with it. How does that work?

Toh if anupama is so replaceable then now forget about anupama and live with Shruti na. What is the need to hurt her again and again and be ungrateful to her. They both have used anupama for their own needs and now the use value is over toh just throw her. Why to keep insulting her in every step?

Please state what is anyone supposed to be grateful to Anupama.

Again pakhi comes into the picture 😂😂😂 pakhi has been called out for being wrong. If it makes you feel better then I will say it out loud that she is a bitch. But you got triggered when the brat was called brat. Difference lies there.

If you do Not realise, you are stating it just for the sake of argument and truth of convenience just Not facts. And don't you worry about my triggers. I can see enough triggered statements of judgement on this very post.

Anupama has given up on her. Agreed but that doesn't give adhya a licence to be such a lowly human being. Anupama is called out day and night for being wrong in this forum but Anuj and adhya are completely whitewashed here in this forum, eventhough they have been wrong. This is where the problem lies

"Lowly human being" and explain what accounts for that? That she asked her to stay away from a stable family?

Isn't that what she did everything, "unki khusi ke liye chod diya" so, by your own logic, she is giving her what she wanted, isn't it?

ALL characters are called out if only you actually read through the forum. Selectivity trumps isn't it?

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Originally posted by: Wontshowmyname

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A relationship doesn't fail cos of one person. More often than not, It's a collective effort. So blaming one person like a scapegoat for something is what is wrong and you can't make a right a wrong by grouping and speaking in unison.

Chalo maan liya. A relationship is also built by the collective efforts and contributions of the people involved. Please share what are the contributions of Anupama to Anuj-Anupama marriage.

Your two favourites will be whitewashed cos dkp is a whitewashing factory. He has whitewashed kavya, pakhi and even vanraj and Leela whenever he felt like. So don't worry they will be whitewashed like surf Excel ki dhulaai 😂😂😂

You mean like Aapki khusi ke liye chod diya justification? Sure.

When we call people as having certain favourites etc. We should know that the same applies to us as well and we should be able to take it the same way we expect others to take it.

I have made no such claims or name calling about you or anyone here.

People speak according to their own experiences. And I speak according to my own. This is a fiction show and your friends and you are so triggered as if it's real life and go personal and insult real people whenever given a chance.

You mean just the way you are doing here? If anything, you are proving me right about human behaviour🙂.

Again, this is an unprovoked personal attack which has become a trademark of activites oflate in an attempt to defend their opinions/characters.

That's where the problem lies. Period.

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