Anupama, that started off with something else as an expectation from audience, that it will show the growth of a human being and give message despite all the odds in life one can still overcome and progress in life, this is what the audience expected the serial would be
But what happened?
It showed a very unrealistic unbelievable thing just to show victimization by ruining the titular character and still continuing to do so, so that the audience give sympathy. But really can we sympathize with anupama for all the stupidity she has done ? she is responsible for where she is today
First of all, in reality, no woman will stay under the same roof with her ex husband and his current wife, after the divorce. Worse than that, so called baa and ravanraj are still exercising their control, domination over anupama exactly the same way as it was before when she was mrs shah and the daughter in law of that house, where it can happen, today's world, the legal saas and husband cannot control, ill treat their bahu or can dare to do that, how it is possible to do when there is no relation left in that ?
And anupama who talks pages and pages of bhashan, never took care of her biological mother and brother, stood quite when baa insulted left and right in public kanta and bhavesh, koi so called idealogical MAA can do that, for that cheapda double standard spineless anupama, baa can insult or spit or throw shit on any body but everyone who receives that from that chudail should keep quite just like her, otherwise she will fight for that "Baa hai, unki izzat karo"
Anupama was, is and will be always addicted to shahs, vanraj baa and for that she will go to any extent to hurt the people who did good for her / wish good for her pehle anuj and chhoti ki baari thi, aur aaj beeji and yashdeep ki baari hai ignore hone ki
Anupama serial has glorified promoted , adultery, kameenapan, insulted marriage, relationship , insulting parents and parenting, domestic emotional abuse, the makers are saying that ya toh anupama ki tarah sab kuch sahan kar ke tumhare ex sasural wale gobar bhi mooh pe phenke sab bardaasht karo, yehi tum auraton ki aukaat hai, vanraj jaise kameene aur unki acts hi correct hai
Anupama jaisi aurat ko koi self respect nahin hai, she is the PREACHER who knows how to use beautiful phrases to give bhashan but tragedy she never followed what she preached. For her Shah house is the only peoples group who need her and she has to be available to them at their beck and call no matter what she has to insult so many other good people in that process. Jo aurat khud ki respect nahin karti uske liye koi kya respect karega aur kyun karega, jiske khud ka koi character nahin hai, sabse badi baat, she will say galat ko galat as long as it is not from shah house but if so all the galat becomes sahi forher if it is done in for by shah house criminals clan
i wish this serial too much of negativity and it is promoting heavily emotional abuse, insulting womanhood and every relationship, humanity to the core
. While as a viewer you know there is no escape. Anupamaa too has no escape, no escape at all. She is stuck in the haunted Shah House forever. Those who wrote her destiny, her writers, neither gave her right nor the strength nor a thinking mind to choose or carve out a better life for herself. What’s worst is that her second chance also got destroyed. The people who tried to give her a better life, who believed as good human being she deserved a life full of love and protection, in whose presence she could have had the agency she never had, also got negatively impacted. What more negative message can there be ? That there is nothing that can be done for her nor there is anything that she will do herself to come out from the situation. She was thrown into abuse, lived in abuse, loved that abuse and will possibly die with that abuse too. What a trajectory ! What a life full of an absolutely never ending darkness ! 
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