A complete failure - Page 8

Originally posted by: Paru...

He didn't force her into marriage.But he has definitely persuaded her into marriage by always proclaiming about his 26 year love which according to him now was a hasty decision and her baggage reason for his suffocation.

Please explain persuasion in this case.

Yes, he loved her for 26 years and was vocal about it. How is that persuasion?

Anuj even accepted Anupama's rejection amd was happy leave to make peace with it.

If him proclaiming his love was persuasion, then, what would we call Anupama's absolutely apparent obsession and her utmost loyalty to ALL Shahs? She ACTUALLY persuaded everyone who loved her to put up with abuses hurled at them by Shahs.

He accepted that he should have waited for her to move on before getting married. May be courted for sometime before marriage.

But the funny part is, Anupama never wanted to move on from toxicity.

Shahs are a baggage that she took on herself despite them shooing her out. Anyone in his situation would have been suffocated in such a relation, however long the person would have loved.

Originally posted by: Paru...

Plz do watch episodes carefully before questioning me about points.

Prior to their wedding Ak and Anu were staying in seperate rented houses.Only one day they stayed under the same roof when Samar who used to stay with Anu at night could not come and Baa created a scene.

yeah,they had to take shelter in a house where a group of teenagers were partying.But they were not alone.Anuj was sick and the children used to come inside the room enquiring about his health.

Here Ak stayed with M and choti for one month like a family leaving his wedded wife.

Don't try to manipulate incidents for the sake of arguement.I expect a healthy discussion.

Sure, you wish to see links I suppose.

1. So, the difference is 1 day v/s 1 month.

2. Where has it been shown that they stayed as a "legally wedded wife"?

@bold: There is only person who is making "accusations" and "assuming/speculating" things outside of what was shown and I don't need to mention who.

Talking of healthy discussions......... kindly point out at which point the discussion became unhealthy.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Please explain persuasion in this case.

Yes, he loved her for 26 years and was vocal about it. How is that persuasion?

Anuj even accepted Anupama's rejection amd was happy leave to make peace with it.

If him proclaiming his love was persuasion, then, what would we call Anupama's absolutely apparent obsession and her utmost loyalty to ALL Shahs? She ACTUALLY persuaded everyone who loved her to put up with abuses hurled at them by Shahs.

He accepted that he should have waited for her to move on before getting married. May be courted for sometime before marriage.

But the funny part is, Anupama never wanted to move on from toxicity.

Shahs are a baggage that she took on herself despite them shooing her out. Anyone in his situation would have been suffocated in such a relation, however long the person would have loved.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Anuj himself send choti anu to farm house where choti met with maaya

Anupama even said to not to send choti to picnic as u can't live without he4 and she even told anuj not to send choti alone in picnic

U forgot about bapuji it is bapuji who say to anupama ki anuj ko apni zindagi mein aane de then only she started loving him otherwise she consider anuj consider as her friend only and no mood to marry so soon

It is after bapuji and when anuj said under bhang effect that he want to marry then only anupama decided to marry

Marriage ki baat tub hui jub Anuj ne bhaang ke effect mein kaha tha ki woh shaadi kana chahta hai

https://youtu.be/8ENuc2GUJgE

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Sure, you wish to see links I suppose.

1. So, the difference is 1 day v/s 1 month.

2. Where has it been shown that they stayed as a "legally wedded wife"?

@bold: There is only person who is making "accusations" and "assuming/speculating" things outside of what was shown and I don't need to mention who.

Talking of healthy discussions......... kindly point out at which point the discussion became unhealthy.

and like Harish bhai said, logic has left this discussion just like it left the show after its inception...I've left it for the same reason

Originally posted by: Paru...

She has never disrespected him publicly.I am accepting that he got disrespect from Sh members several times. But she has always respected him and never used harsh words against him. So this is just a mere accusation.

If he wanted to accuse her he could have done it privately. But he was quite rude with her. Suddenly he appeared to be detached from her as instead of calling her Anu, he started calling her Anupamaa(saying he rephrase the words).Anu always gave him the clear picture about her baggage.But he was always a mysterious person for her where the quantity of his baggage got increased with time.

She has cancelled her 'udaan' for these people after facing public humiliation from him and Ca.But still she was blamed and humiliated after saving life of CA. accusing her for not prioritizing Ca in saving over Pari.

Anuj ORDERING his family members to apologize her is what respect means

Harsh words: aap pagal hogaye hai kya is not harsh but mere cruel thing to say to the father who just lost his precious daughter.

Wasn't she the one who asked him "kya aapko bhi aisa lagta hai" I don't remember that's why asking.

Talking about privacy, why didn't anupama inform him about MD being his mother privately??

After cancelling her so called udaan, how many times was she available for CA, as a mother??

Originally posted by: hinz

She meant he left Anupama - the wedded wife to live with choti and Maaya just like Anupama spent days if not months at the Shahs leaving her wedded husband, both did it for their kids so I dont see the difference

and like Harish bhai said, logic has left this discussion just like it left the show after its inception...I've left it for the same reason

ONly in two instances Anu had left Ak and stayed at Sh,1.when Toshu had stroke2.After Samar's death to complete rituals.In the first case she took Anuj's permission before going and in the second case she came back after 13 days of mourning .

The above case and Maya case are totally different.In Maya case he had left her indefinitely saying he wishes to live with them.He had retuned only to attend SamPle's wedding.Otherwise he would have stayed at Mumbai with M and Ca.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Sure, you wish to see links I suppose.

1. So, the difference is 1 day v/s 1 month.

2. Where has it been shown that they stayed as a "legally wedded wife"?

@bold: There is only person who is making "accusations" and "assuming/speculating" things outside of what was shown and I don't need to mention who.

Talking of healthy discussions......... kindly point out at which point the discussion became unhealthy.

The difference is not 1 day v/s i month.the difference is Anu and Ak had to live under the same roof for one day as Samar failed to reach for night stay.which has happened due to circustance..Then both Anu and anuj were single and were not committed to anyone.

But in the second case Ak had willingly stayed with Maya deserting his legally wedded wife.

U r saying only half truths.half truths are equivalent to lies,THen the discussion is becoming unhealthy.

@bold,i have no idea.if u r talking about me then what I can say is I don't post frequently as i don't get enough time and I always make sure to keep discussions related to the instances shown in episodes.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

https://youtu.be/m7op4vxk6Gk?si=fGAj73dqCko4DNx-

How maturely he's making her understand that her self respect matters to him the most and shah's especially ache pita is toxic and are taking her for granted.

But look at her expressions when he told her not to visit them. Itna dukhi??? why???

Did she said ke mujhe unke saath koi rishta nahi rakhna, na dosti ka, na aur kuch....

Toh jhoole par kaun baitha tha, saath me pooja kiske saath ki thi, pari ke paida hone par couple ki tarah kaun behave kar raha tha, mishter shah is beck ka pakau dialogue kisne bolne ko bola tha

Originally posted by: Dee-Dee

For her it’s either my way or highway, she has been trained under Shahs afterall, just because she couldn’t gaslight him anymore or have her way this time, she left and broke the marriage.

She gaslights people to the next level and still manages to act like a victim in the end - Kaise kar leti ho ye sab 🙄

She also called Mishter Shah her parivar ka hissa btw 😂

27+ years of training under devious Dhongi Dukh-muck and counting. What do you expect....Of course, she's a pro at manipulation.

@bold, unka risssta (raja-daasi ka) hamesha tha, hai aur rahega. It's just that convenient excuse of Bacchon ke Acche Pita can always be given.