Moral of the story: learn to prioritise yourself and your loved ones

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Prioritise yourself: Focusing on yourself means prioritizing your own needs and desires rather than those of other people. That doesn’t mean you’re actively working against others. It simply means you aren’t depleting yourself to make them happy.Setting healthy boundaries is difficult, especially if you don’t do it often. You might feel selfish or worried about how others will respond. Here are some tips to get you through it.

Prioritise your family: Some people don't value or respect their family members and end up choosing outsiders over their family and no matter how many ups and downs one has with your family you're still family no matter what.Then you have the kind of family that love each other to death. They'll have brunch together and plan event together and they're together all the time. That type of family never really deal with outsiders that's not family whatsoever. Their opinion on that is basically because they feel that outsiders are usually trouble and feel that outsiders are usually trouble and feel that trouble can usually follow them home which makes it uncomfortable for them to live happy and prosperous lives