Not able to decide which one is more annoying - MD or anupama

First of all Apara mam is so good actress she is annoying with one fake smile at a time. However, character while I don't understand her desperation towards being head of the house. She should be concentrating on improving relation with her son rather than this downgrade tamasha.. this is giving such a wrong vibe. Irrespective of how late u enter into son's life , DIL should listen to you etc. anupama is not a 20 something Bahu to listen to her.. In this matter I support anupama, MD should be put in place if she tries to overthrow her place in home. She is playing such cheap politics with kids to get to anupama. I don't know what's her animosity towards her..!!.. stupid storyline

I liked anupama this matter apart from celebrating obnoxious festivals, bringing PPL to home, getting attached to random people. Which I thought I wld never say

But at 46 shes still door mat to Baa ex saas and bapuji ex sassur and worships ex hubby vanraj and licks their asses and washes their feets everyday

May be MD saw that and is jealous and wants anupama to do same to her

How you behave with others, ppl observe and expect same behaviour towards them too

You cannot behave door mat to one and act like lion with another than other person will get angry and attack only as when you are behaving door mat to ex in laws how can you misbehave with current saas sasur. MD has heard may be how Mlavika/GK kaka were kicked of kapadiya family and home after anupama entry and may be scared she will be kicked off

In society current saas is real saas not ex saas of divorced hubby actually

Its like you join college but will say i will respect and report to school principal school which you left few years back

Only anuj and CA do not demand anupama treats them like vanraj God and toshu/pakhi demi Gods than thats their problem

By the way my mom gen 50 plus year olds(bahu) still report to their saas 70 plus year olds at home and take instruction of how work happens daily at home etc and than informs maids or does it herself. And husbands will not object their moms bossing over bahus or even daughters of 45 plus age because those ladies have done same all life.

Baa could boss over anupama, kavya, kinjal, pakhi, dolly, jignesh bhai, mamamji anyone even at 75-80 year old but MD should not even cook or play with grand kid than such fights will come up

Honestly my mom goes to her brothers house she will start cooking in her sis in law house and her elder or younger bhabhis never objects(not grandmom house there anyway she will cook in kitchen sweep mop etc). Bhabhi is very happy hubby sister came she will cook so rest for bhabhi from cooking 10 days 20 days. It depends what one loves to do

If someone comes to my house they are welcome to cook/take care of household how much ever and feed me as i hate house work and have no time. So relatives completely take over my home if they come 10-20 days they will only buy grocery cook etc i only give money and enjoy food, indeed they can even take money/my credit card(i give them one for emergency) from locker my relatives i leave entire house to them and go to work for 10 to 12 hours. Indeed they can even instruct my maid to do house work as per their wish i never object even if relative if my moms cousin brothers wife or dads second cousin mother in law etc come they can do whatever i do not care. Some come for trip 3 months 6 months visiting they completely handle all house work grocery shopping throwing garbage etc for 3 months 6 months they stay. I will not mind thinking shes taking over my house.

Unlike anupama i am not insecure human i know i am very capable and can work outside earn my own money live on own anywhere in world without dad brother or even hubby help etc can travel on own anywhere alone etc so if some relative comes and even tries to even boss around like old auntys old uncles old grand mas grandpas be it my side in laws side mom side dad side i do not care and leave entire house to them and just enjoy no responsibility till they are there they can do whatever change bed color screen color mat color or take my pets out etc i give a damn and just enjoy their company and rest i get from all responsibility's

When relatives visit your home its like olden times daughters going to mom house to rest and enjoy same happens they take care of home you just work outside and take them on tours in weekend or walks in night etc. I would not mind relatives from any side even nosy auntys in laws grandmas visiting my house 365 days and taking care of my house completely and giving me rest

Idk but I feel like malti devi is jealous that anupama is giving more attention to baa then her.

MD is temporary, Anupamaa is permanent and long term, hooe that helps you decide😂

Ghar hai ya kahi ki riyasat ki koi bhi rule karega? Yaha to sabki hi mentality shit hai. Makers ki bhi aur audience ki bhi.

Ham ek democratic nation me rahte hain, aur ab tak democracy ka "D" bhi seekh nahi paye hain. Al least fictional world me kuch achha milta to sukun hota.

Anupamaa me jo regressive hai, use to koi call out nahi karta. Par jo thik hai, use call out kar rhe!

Starplus ke sabhi shows me women ko ghar ki chabhi leker aise itarate hue dikhate hain, jaise ki wo kahi ki President/Governor ho. Jabki President/Governor/PM/CM sab public servants hote hain, (wo alag baat hai ki Bharat me ye sab khud ko Sultan samjhte hain aur janta bhi inhe baadshah ka darja deti hai) aur sabki kuch na kuch jimmedari hai.

Yaha par.. TV par ek woman dusri women ki life ko control karne ki aise koshish karti hai, jaise wo sari women ek Aazad Desh ki nagrik, aur ek parivar ki sadasy na hokar koi refugee ho!

Aur agar ghar ko bhi Riyasat jaisa chalana hai to election karwa lo!

Real life me to waise hi women women ko attitude dikhati hain, Kam se kam Reel life me kuch achha dikha dete!

Chahe MD ho ya Anupamaa ho... Ghar me jitne bhi log rahte hain, ghar sabka hota hai. Sabki respect honi chahiye. Chahe wo family members ho ya servants!

Bruh makers literally made audience hate the main character of the show Anupama. Makers don't even know what they are doing

Originally posted by: Historia

Idk but I feel like malti devi is jealous that anupama is giving more attention to baa then her.

Isn't that normal? Who would tolerate your bahu giving attention to her ex mom in law instead of you? Any normal human being will feel bad.

Originally posted by: Harish111

Isn't that normal? Who would tolerate your bahu giving attention to her ex mom in law instead of you? Any normal human being will feel bad.

Exactly, that too the ex in-laws were abusive, how can you listen to them but not listen to the one who gave you the chance, without even knowing you gave you the right over the gurukul just by seeing your pashion, it is another thing that you did not respect any of that, but it is true that she gave you everything that no one can give to any stranger.

Everyone reminds MD of everything that she did in the past, but what if she starts taunting Anupama on what she did with MD, how she almost ruined her reputation, Nakul nei toh baad mei takeover kiya, but Anupma nei already bohot damage kar diya tha tab tak, seriously Anupama should go to America, get lost there and never come back to India.

I have few questions, these are not about the show

Actually pehle jab humari mom hume batati hain ki hume kya karna chahiye toh vo hume control nahi lagta, even after the marriage when our mom tels that you should do this, do that toh we think that if she is saying toh kar lete hain, lekin vahi jab humari husband ki mom kehti hain toh hume itna bura kyun lagta hai? Why we feel so bad when same thing is done/said by our husband's mom?

Does independence means the absolute freedom, but then if the freedom will be absolute toh where will be the proper direction? Everyone will start going in their own ways, then what's the point of society?

Shouldn't there be someone who is more experienced than us to guide us, to tell us how things should be done? Yes, I completely agree that that certain someone should not be abusive, but koi toh hona chahiye naa?

This is not a sarcasm, actually I had these things in my mind, but couldn't find a proper place ab jab yahan control aur independence ki baat ho hi rahi hai toh I want to know diff POVs, no offence to anyone

Originally posted by: IWasHareeshFan

I have few questions, these are not about the show

Actually pehle jab humari mom hume batati hain ki hume kya karna chahiye toh vo hume control nahi lagta, even after the marriage when our mom tels that you should do this, do that toh we think that if she is saying toh kar lete hain, lekin vahi jab humari husband ki mom kehti hain toh hume itna bura kyun lagta hai? Why we feel so bad when same thing is done/said by our husband's mom?

Does independence means the absolute freedom, but then if the freedom will be absolute toh where will be the proper direction? Everyone will start going in their own ways, then what's the point of society?

Shouldn't there be someone who is more experienced than us to guide us, to tell us how things should be done? Yes, I completely agree that that certain someone should not be abusive, but koi toh hona chahiye naa?

This is not a sarcasm, actually I had these things in my mind, but couldn't find a proper place ab jab yahan control aur independence ki baat ho hi rahi hai toh I want to know diff POVs, no offence to anyone

See thats ingrained in any bahu or daughter in law to hate mother in law or husband mom from childhood by parents, family, movies, serials, society etc

mom in law i seen as competitor than mother by all daughter in laws as both are vying to get son attentions. thats how anupama is seeing malati devi too as competitor to be eliminated than any mother

if your own mom scolds or slaps you its for your good or out of love. If your mom scolds or slaps you will you go and compliant to your dad or grandparents she slapped me no

if mom in law scolds you or slaps you than shes evil devil to be complained to husband and create scenes till shes kicked off hubby home.

thats how from childhood girls are brought up and thats what they follow all life see mom in law as competitor than a own mother

even if your bua or chahchi scolds or punish you, you never get offended or create scenes like mom in law actually

but a saas can never be cacepted as a mom, bua, chahi, grand mom place etc ever

same for nannad or sister in law. if your own sister fits you or hits you its small sibling fights no one makes big issue. But if nanad scolds full world will be taken on roof like a terrorist put gun on head to you and stole all your money or wealth. Because from heart no one consider mom in law or nanad like family or relatives but competitors. Thats how its shown in movies, serial's, or taught by parents from childhood thats what gets followed all over world. Its all ego issues that who are they to tell me anything i am superior or better than them, they are not my family my mom or sister they are husband side.

Its same for mom in law too bahu is always competitor to sons love and attention than a daughter

I am not sure about independence because more than parent house a woman gets more freedom in hubby home only atleast in patriarchal places like india. It could be husband house everything should happen as per me as i am bahu it should not happen as per mom in law. Like anupama keeps saying malati devi that this is my house i am letting you stay here etc. In reality that house is sr kapadiyas not even anuj or anupamas. So she cannot keep saying so actually because her husband has not built it by his hard work. So how can she claim or boss oer others saying its my house i am letting you stay?

As per law ancestral house if for all grand kids no son or daughter can own it. Sr kapadiya built it so anuj house is ancestral so all grand kids can stake claim on it. So why anupama keeps saying my house my house is a mystery? ancestral house goes to kids or grand kids each gen unless owner who built writes one name as owner.