New toxic message - coach and gurus are allowed to abuse you

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Almost everyday we get news about coaches abusing their wards. It might be sexual abuse or physical abuse. The students are broken and traumatized.


Yet this show is showing the message that guru can abuse you any way they want and you should listen and never question or fight back


Oh you made a mistake, then the teacher can physically abuse you and you have to just take the abuse and still respect your guru.


What a journey of a woman! Its not a journey about a woman escaping her abusers and growing strong in her career. It's a journey about a doormat who keeps finding new abusers so that she can keep being a victim and keep getting abused.


Its a show which fetishes abuse and believes being a victim is the ultimate goal of all women. Anupama, a 45 year old, perpetual abuse vicitm.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Harish111

Almost everyday we get news about coaches abusing their wards. It might be sexual abuse or physical abuse. The students are broken and traumatized.


Yet this show is showing the message that guru can abuse you any way they want and you should listen and never question or fight back


Oh you made a mistake, then the teacher can physically abuse you and you have to just take the abuse and still respect your guru.


What a journey of a woman! Its not a journey about a woman escaping her abusers and growing strong in her career. It's a journey about a doormat who keeps finding new abusers so that she can keep being a victim and keep getting abused.


Its a show which fetishes abuse and believes being a victim is the ultimate goal of all women. Anupama, a 45 year old, perpetual abuse vicitm.

Anupama ki issi soch ke wajah se wo jeeven mein kuch naa kar paayi aur naa kar payegi she is just to gaaliyan bhi Kam padti iss character ko Dene mein . Jab usse koi sahi advice deta hai to madamji ka lecture shuru ho jaata hai hassil kya kar liya iss aurat ne .

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I feel ab iss show se khoon jalane ka koi matlab nahi jaise Rajan shahi yrkkh hai kbee hte rahe ye bhi chalta rahega atleast Yrkkh main new generation aati hai isme to inhi character ko dikhate rahege.

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Originally posted by: Harish111

Almost everyday we get news about coaches abusing their wards. It might be sexual abuse or physical abuse. The students are broken and traumatized.


Yet this show is showing the message that guru can abuse you any way they want and you should listen and never question or fight back


Oh you made a mistake, then the teacher can physically abuse you and you have to just take the abuse and still respect your guru.


What a journey of a woman! Its not a journey about a woman escaping her abusers and growing strong in her career. It's a journey about a doormat who keeps finding new abusers so that she can keep being a victim and keep getting abused.


Its a show which fetishes abuse and believes being a victim is the ultimate goal of all women. Anupama, a 45 year old, perpetual abuse vicitm.

Anupama wo sab hai jo ek aurat ko nahi hona chahiye 😂

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Its a pathetic show with a pathetic message.

The whole trope of ITV shows is about showing women as victims of abuse. Mental/ Physical/ Emotional. Unless the woman is a victim capable of tolerating whatever vitriol is thrown at her, she can’t be a female lead. Women who speak up for themselves and have modern liberal principles are shown as villains incapable of love.

The good thing about Anupama in the first couple of years was that she was shown breaking free from that and giving it back to the perpetrators. The ‘Aapko kya’ era.

Alas, she has since gone back to being a doormat, just a different set of abusers.

Posted: 2 years ago
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My question is why is she constantly going back there? So you ruined a major event, now own it up and wait for the consequences. Why such degrading measures to ask for forgiveness when you know how she is going to react?

Did she seriously think that she will melt after some tears. Did those tears melt her husband in the past 26 years of her marriage?

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Anupama hai hi aisi. Achi khaasi Maalti Devi ko Maarti devi bana diya. 😆

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Posted: 2 years ago
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This show has become problematic in so many ways. And makers are just behind trps, their motive is clear.

And they are getting trps by this abuse. The more Anupama cries, the more TRP. I feel RG's eyes have become puffy it's visible on screen.

Now she will tolerate this abuse and after 152739404th episode she will give one bhashan on why she can't take it more and the trps will shoot up. One long bhashan on guru shishya parampara is loading...

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Malti devi is another version of leela

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