How is this negative thinking? Can you refute any of the points that BB made? She has basically summarized the show in those two clips.
They're all facts and it's hard to think of any "positive" things related to Anupama because there has been nothing. Her character has remained the same, no growth and no real change, still serving her abusers and refusing to learn from her mistakes. Life offers her many opportunities and chances but she refuses to take them and continues to stay stuck in a toxic cycle. We were all rooting for Anupama when we started watching the show, she has disappointed us time and again and she's very hard to like anymore.
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