Man always at fault?

This serial starts with premise that men are always at fault

Yes vanraj and toshu are horrible men who can never change

But this serial shows ankush, adhik now even anuj as suspicious men troubling wives or girl friends

Never for a moment the wife can be at fault or girl friend for that matter

Look at anuj - he shouted at shahs and told anupama to concentrate on him and CA hes bad a MCP.

Ankush has always been dominated by barkha and yet because hes not allowed her to work hes bad

Adhik was eyeing pakhi so hes bad because how dare men eye shahh daughters anupamas daughter even if pahi is like most dominating brat

Issue in serial is everything is mans fault never womans

But sometimes woman can also be at fault

But its brushed under carpet to show her bechari like in anuj case by anupama

Just because anupama has ex hubby and 3 kids from other marraige, anuj has to bend to all her whims and her families threats and dramas why?

Imagine anuj had ex wife and every week she comes and creates scene in kapadiya mansion and slaps anu and abuses her along with anuj ex in laws will anupama be fine? or will anuj friend tell anupama poor anuj cannot stop being father and ex hubby to ex wife leave your ego?

Than too anupama only will become becharai because anuj is still keeping contact with ex wife after marrying anupama for world anuj will be MCP

Means a man or woman should never marry a spouse who has ex spouse and his kids or keep getting abused or compromise all life for spouses ex and their step kids is it?

This is very similar thought that unmarried or single people have to take full burden of parents and house because they have no family spouse or kids of own (like anuj)

Why do people marry so that they get companionship and help in trouble times. But after marrying anupama only anupama got companionship and wealth and help from anuj.

Anuj never got companionship or any help from anupama or her so called mayka ever instead all he got was kapadiya empire snatched from him to misusing his wealth and name for benefits by most shahs

I want to ask this question - if shahs are anupama may a than why anuj do not get a respect a jamiasa gets in indian house hold (i mean which in laws or kids treat a jaimasa or father way shahs do anuj)

If shahs are anupama s mayka whuy is CA not cared for and treated loving by most shahs? like dollys child

Its clear shahs never consider anupama sa daughter or anuj as jamai sa or CA as grand child or sibling

They just want benefits of being associated with rich kapadiyas (anuj kapadiya)

They do not want any responsibility of anuj kapadiya or his family or relatives (that inclue anupama herself most times)

Anupama herself has left anuj very serious and paralyzed at mercy of GK kaka or barkha and anksush to attend to shahs that too not any wedding or funeral but functions

Anupama has left CA with barkha or adhik several times to be taken care of in panic attacks etc or returning from school or at home full day to attend to shahs

You tell me which married daughter goes to mayka every other day to resolve issues

Also i have seen mothers who leave daughter when daughters husband is serious in hospital (like in covid times emergency) and run back home to husband to be with them not really bothering how daughter will manage sick hubby etc. Because for each woman her hubby and house is more important that a grown up daughters family usually. No one can take care or stay indefinitely n others homes resolving their issues all life like anupama is doing not even a mother, father or grandparents. Once you are adult or married you have to handle house and office yourself. No one can baby sit all life like anupama doing to shahs. Instead of giving such a message the CVs showing reverse that anuj has ego anuj is MCP etc

I have no sympathy for anuj because he abondoned people who loved him most in time of needs like malvika for 10 years after divorce or when vanraj was using her to upsur kapadiya empire he abondoed his little sister and walked off with anupama although he knew vanraj bad intentions on his sister. He has not bothered to ask GK kakak once where he is for so many weeks after he left. Ankush loves anuj but anuj never respected him as elder brother always shouting and humiliating him in front of shahs. Or letting anupama misbehave with ankush whose much younger to ankush. Anuj dd ot even bother about adhik when pakhi hit him and he came sobbing to home to find issue and warn pakhi. If any other relative in anuj place they will blast pakhi and her family for hitting adhik and troubling him. Neither he told off shahs when they repeatedly insulted a 6 year old child CA his daughter. He allowed CA and malvikas insults and to be taken advantage by Shahs. I do not feel sorry for anuj kapadiya because he deserves all that because he did all that to pppl who truly loved him his own family members to please anupama and shahs.

Ya to writers ka dimag band hai, ya fir production house unhe acche tracks explore karne nahi de raha. Anupama is worst written character. We rooted for her at beginning, now I want to pull her ear and throw her in therapy.

I have said this many times before, they should stop using the word equality. Coz if situations were reversed, the pov & reactions will be completely flipped. Anuj would be be termed heartless & MCP for giving importance to past relations & Anupmaa will be termed bechari. Effectively same as now. So it doesnt matter what the plot line is they want to potray FL as bechari & mahaan & ML as unsupportive & insensitive.

Originally posted by: Toto123

I have said this many times before, they should stop using the word equality. Coz if situations were reversed, the pov & reactions will be completely flipped. Anuj would be be termed heartless & MCP for giving importance to past relations & Anupmaa will be termed bechari. Effectively same as now. So it doesnt matter what the plot line is they want to potray FL as bechari & mahaan & ML as unsupportive & insensitive.

@bold we dont have to imagine also most of us have seen it because same thing use to happen in devar bhabhi serial. See now ML has no standards left, no body likes him and FL has been reduced to bechari dukhi and akeli.

I think the tagline of this show should be "abusers are always right, and bigger victims than the abused"😳

I remember you had mentioned that if Anuj's foster parents were with him, what would have been the situation, which is absolutely correct.

Even the male characters are shown are extremes:

Hansmukh, Vanraj, Paritosh, Samar ek se badhkar ek namoone.

Adhik, Ankush, Anuj have such a unilateral view seen through Anupama's lens.

Neither the situations written are well defined nor the reactions. No logic and everything to glorify the lead.

This is the trend of television. Show me one show where the story is about a Male character.

A round of Applause 👏🏻 to the women here for breaking the myth of "Feminism" equated to Men bashing.

Although I do Not understand these "ism"s, I am so glad, the audience and the members here have a view as this at life, in general. This is true equality.

About time Television and show business accepts and moves on.

🥂 Cheers.