There is one message from this show to all family especially parents - do not cover up mistakes of your kids. If you do so they keep committing bigger mistakes till they start doing bigger crimes only.
Like vanraj, Ba aand hasmukh praised him sky high allowed him to abuse wife so he got braveness to do EMA with kavya. When even that was rewarded by worship and marraige to kavya he went after malvika and her empire. Luckily malvika was not foolish like anupama or kavya and got saved (may be bec viewers opposed it)
I often wonder like when family members do grave crimes like rape and kill brutally(like nirbhaya) how family can defend their sons or kids
Now anupama, vanraj, anuj all are showing why people do not hesitate to commit henious crimes actually in real life
Because in childhood as kids when they do simple crimes like stealing or killing a pet animal or snatching what belongs to other siblings parents are like anupama and vanraj and anuj. They do not punish but praise and reward. They get more braveness to do bigger crimes
Take case of toshu. He fell in love with kinjal just like his father and ran off to marry no punishment by anupama and vanraj. Instead arthi and welcome in house. So he did affair when wife pregnant again forgiven and sent to anger management course.
Pakhi is also same.
Now everyone knows how to breed criminals in society keep forgiing mistakes than sins than crimes in name of family and parent love and mother love etc
80% people are poor have tough life in world or middle class not so rich or luxurious life. But if they say that i had tough life so started doing crimes you can uderstand the parent and family responsible for breeding such criminals from childhood forgiving again and again apart from company they keep or own self.
Family and parent are first judges if they start forgiving than in future how society will be in long term
We have hear in 1950s that if 1 murder happened in a city once a year it was very big issue and all would talk of it for ages and society would avoid his family bhaishkar would happen. In many city without putting lock to shop or house they would just lock and go no theft in nights.
My grandparents used to say that their parents or they never used locks to their houses they just walk off on tours 5 days 10 days without bothering to lock main house doors in 50s or 60s in their city. They just tell neighbours just to keep eye that they are going outstation. But after 10 days no one would have entered their house stolen cash or gold etc thats how it was in olden times. Same way shops in market would not be locked with big taala and some items left out of shop as no space yet full night no one steals. Even gold shops not locked in 40s and 50s no one steal gold too. And poverty was extreme in india in 1940s and 50s and 60s compared to now that all knows. Yet people do not steal so you can see fear to steal not for law but fear of parents and grandparents or family than anyone else.
Because in those times their parents and grandparents say never steal never lie its sin and punish kids from childhood. So full city or village all parents say similar so people are scared to steal or tell lies etc. And punishment for simple lying or stealing etc or cheating wife or anyone was very big in those times for parents or grandparents. You could easily get canned or whipped for small mistakes or no food for few days for simple mistakes. Kids are more scared to do any crime because of parents fear than than any law in olden times.
In todays time parents are rewarding saying shabash for crimes like ema and doing arthi and giving lavish wedding for running off and marrying. Even in school college no punishment. I would not say all parents do same but compared to olden times parents and grandparents or family are more lenient for big soins and crimes that had no forgiveness in 50s and 60s or even 70s may be. That is why people do not hesitate to do any crimes and crime rate has increased drastically from generation of 40s and 60s to now.
What is main duty of parent and uncle aunty grandparents - to shape good character of their kids nothing else
If they all fail in that what other work they have?
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