A character of extremes

Anupama is actually a character of extremes. Within limit, she might seem better and not caricature-ish like she does now. Let's see how.

1. Her goodness and kindness. Within limits-goodness. Extreme- doormat/pushover.
2. Her morality dialogue. Within limits-inspiration. Extreme- Bhashan 😆
3. Her savage dialogue( main ye karun wo karun etc etc aapko kya, type dialogues). Within limits-savage🔥. Extreme- caricature-ish. (These need to be shortened)
4. Her achievement. Within limits-efficient. Extreme- so called super woman (combined with nothing been shown on makers' part 🤪)
5. Motherhood. Within limits-gets sympathy. Extreme- gets trolled😆

So true. The main problem with all her qualities is that it's shown in extremes. And not only that they are contradictory characteristics! How can you be an empowered woman and still be a doormat? Makes no sense. It started off as such a realistic show and now it's absolutely unrealistic and extreme.

Originally posted by: lalaland23

So true. The main problem with all her qualities is that it's shown in extremes. And not only that they are contradictory characteristics! How can you be an empowered woman and still be a doormat? Makes no sense. It started off as such a realistic show and now it's absolutely unrealistic and extreme.

In the same way if they have to show her giving moral lectures about motherhood, they have to show her as respectful to her so called mother, no matter what🤣

I will like to share few lnks that I made around 1 and half year ago how I badly want anupama leave shah house after divorce and start own journey

But it now I have understood that CVS will always show baa and anupama. Connection no matter we oppose it

So I said if u can't stop showing anupama and baa Connection then at least show anupama own journey along with baa and anupama .agar roj anupama journey nahi dikha satke to kam se Kam hafte mein ek hi baar dojha do .tub bhavna writer ne kaha ki ab kya anupama ko chaand mein dihaye to to show her journey ? Maine us time Kitna CVS ko crictise Kiya for not focusing on anupama journey but focusing on filmy romance just like playing 90 song

Ab anupama on and off dekhti hai main anupama ko ek Saal aur chance doongi agar inhone ek Saal mein anupama ki journey nahi dikhayi aur only festival party and family drama dikhaya then I will stop watching the show altogether v will not read update also

So here is link I am posting

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/157372596

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/157044289

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/157509923

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/157444065

But real reason why anupama is still go. To shah house it is because writer want to extend role for baa vanraj for many years and that is not possible unless CVS show anupama connect to baa vanraj

Without anupama character there is no existence of baa vanraj character because vanraj aur baa ka ek role hai to humilate anupama .ab yeh writer kaise dikhhaye unless anupama meet both baa and vanraj .so in order to extend role of vanraj and baa for many years they keep showing anupama talking with vanraj and baa

If Once they decide not to extend baa vanraj character then only CVS will show where anupama full decide not to talk to baa vanraj ever

Limit, no limit.. Does not matter.

She is addicted to grab attention by either playing victim card or behaving like chandi, bullying others.

Anupama is not like baa we want anupama to be not to go shah house ut let me tell koi bhi apna nature 100 percent nahi chod sakta

I too hope ki anupama Baa ko retort back kare shah house mein naa Jaye but at same time I also know it is not that easy because apne nature ke against bilkul 100 percent Jaana naa ke barabaar Hota Hai yes logon mein samay ke khuch badlaaav aata hai but kisi mein bhi 100 percent badlav nahi aata hai

Hai and she can never stop caring even for enemy

And it is not that anupama is caring only for enemy

She care for those who also who support her like kinjal samar

And also it is not that anupama only support baa she support even barkha too when baa accuses barka for pushing kinjal where anupama defend barkha hat it is just accident

And anupama oppose baa when baa comment on barkha dress

Baa Anupama ka bura soch ti hai and she really want bad of anupama but let me tell anupama can never be like baa

Anupama ko baa ki jaisa banne ke liye ab anupama ko khud ko prepare karns hoga which is very difficult task

Aur wais bhi anupama agar apna nature 100 change kargegi and become fierce and revengeful phir anupama anupama nahi rahegi to anupama ki khuch natural quality aisi rehne. Dete hai .

Showing kindness to even too her own enemy when they are in trouble this is what make anupama character

Agar anupama ne kindness quality poori tarsh chod diya Phir anupama anupama nahi Rahegi And showing kindness to her even own enemy yahi cheej usko Har character se alag banana hai

So what is the real reason. 1. Her nature, 2. their need to keep the Shahs relevant

or 3. you also don't like Anupama going there again and again like me🤔

Originally posted by: ChirpyKiya10

Limit, no limit.. Does not matter.

She is addicted to grab attention by either playing victim card or behaving like chandi, bullying others.

All above of the above but main reason will be second point