I find Rakhi and kavya and Devika and mukku are true heroines of this serial but villanized too much
Why are they bad because they are educated, working and do not cook clean mop house
Why kinjal hates Rakhi is big mystery to me? Shes a great mom compared to anupama and leela etc
This hypocrisy starts from hindi movies girl friend will be wearing mini dress before wedding
after marraige shes in saree with pallu
that idea of diff that after marraige your girl friend whose your wife now cannot even wear salwar too after wedding is carried forward in serials
same mentality diff rules for girl friend diff for wife people judged on dressing styles
Like mukku and kavya wear modern dress although 30 plus and married(or divorced) so bad woman but anupama is devi
Pray if heroine is wearing modern dress before wedding why she has to wear saree with pallu after wedding in bollywood movies or serials what hypocrisy
Will heroine become bad because shes wearing modern dresses after wedding too?
Second big hypocrisy in serials is whether woman works outside she has to cook sweep mop get up at 4am do puja etc feed tablet to in laws or elders in house than go to office
Those who do not do this are bad like rakhi and kavya and devika and Mukku
While men like vanraj jignesh anuj can just get up and leave to office in leisure
Third hypocrisy in serial is those who talk frankly or whats in mind are bad humans like devika, mukku, kavya and rakhi
They must all not say whats right but should please family and keep lying or doing drama alike anupama and kinjal than they are great ppl
Fourth hypocrisy is whether a woman is pregnant or working she has to do house work while others enjoy in hall like shahs
Like kinjal cooking and making tea in pregnancy too and anupam atoo doing same in pregnancy but family not move one glass here to there why?
Fifth hypocrisy is if a woman loves a man and leaves her family for him shes villain like mukku left anuj for vanraj or kavya left anirudh for vanraj etc
But same does not hold for anuj or vanraj ok. Means anuj can just walk off with anupama and forget mukku after wedding to anupama etc only shahs mater to him as family now as relatives thats ok its not betrayal to mukku or family
But if Mukku does same shes traitor
Kavya is traitor for leaving anirudh
means men can leave sister or wife are still heroes
but woman cannot leave brother and husband shes villan and seen as bad
I can keep on writing 50 hypocrisy in anupama serial against women actually but let me stop at 5
worst is anupama hypocrisy towards anuj, mukku and kapadias but thats another time
I still cannot find whats so great about anupama over other women in serial that they praise her sky high and put her on pedestal like a saint or like a gandhi or martin luther king etc
shes behaving worst than all woman villans of show for long
Honestly neither is she good wife or good mother actually
Good mother is rakhi
Good father is GK
Good sister is Mukku
Good daughter is dolly
Good son is samar
Good wife is kavya who points vanraj errors
She is not fit for any titles shes got
Neither is anuj a good brother or son or husband
Lets see how great a father he is to little anu
