Second Thoughts on Maan

Hola

Yesterday I was upset seeing the episode and precap, as I was seeing from Logical/Rational Mind.

Despite what others see, both Anuj and Anu had always seen Faraz in relationships, that has been their weakness, its seen more obviouly in Anuj and Anu cases, though more in Anu due to her list of relationships and for Anuj its Mukku, GK or close friends. It was always there, faraz followed by love/care.

Like I said in before Maan meet in btw in their relationship with each other, when they come together their love/care n faraz go hand in hand, and they give each other all, their way of expressing is different.

I don't mind sharing that I was irritated with Anu helping Anuj caz of my rational mind. She was doing it out of love and as a responsible wife. She was learning things like using electric shaver for him and the tenderness with which she took care of him, making sure she won't accidentally physically hurt him was shown in the entire sequence. I was pissed off on precap again rational mind, but had he been in a good health Maan would have done same, celebrating the festival. I'll give it to her for not making situations dim life or celebration for him. Anu always carried her heart on her sleeve, while Anuj had always been guarded even with her. Maan balance emotional and logical brain.

Anuj never interfered in Anu life and relationships unless he had to, he let her fight her battles unless she needed him, he used same thinking in business, gave her lead, always there to step in.

Anuj other than GK havent had anyone yo show his vulnerable side, opening up when you have been guarded is never easy, he opened with GK, his friend Devika, Mukku and with Anu (he opens 50% n always guarded) may be with Anu he is 60%. He is not used to taking or accepting help n support, seeing his love going above and beyond to take care of him, poor guy he have to not only go through his own helpless pain and hers pain n unconditional love. That is why he is showing improvement, for her.

Since I let my logical mind rest for a while, looked beyond frustration, was able to see the beautiful emotional bond.

Originally posted by: TitansFan

Hola

Yesterday I was upset seeing the episode and precap, as I was seeing from Logical/Rational Mind.

Despite what others see, both Anuj and Anu had always seen Faraz in relationships, that has been their weakness, its seen more obviouly in Anuj and Anu cases, though more in Anu due to her list of relationships and for Anuj its Mukku, GK or close friends. It was always there, faraz followed by love/care.

That's true even after getting married, their farz came first. Had they been married for years, things would have been different. But the truth is both of them had a well established life before and that will always come before.

Like I said in before Maan meet in btw in their relationship with each other, when they come together their love/care n faraz go hand in hand, and they give each other all, their way of expressing is different.

That's true, i could remember so many instances where anupama and Anuj had taken care of each other's feelings first. Like anupama taking care of kinjal when there was no need actually. Kinjal had everyone there wasn't any need for anupama to stay at Shah's house.

I don't mind sharing that I was irritated with Anu helping Anuj caz of my rational mind. She was doing it out of love and as a responsible wife. She was learning things like using electric shaver for him and the tenderness with which she took care of him, making sure she won't accidentally physically hurt him was shown in the entire sequence.

I personally liked this because anupama cannot trust anyone when it comes to Anuj. It's also like savitri getting her husband back (scriptures story), this also reminds me of bollywood movie.

I have seen many woman taking care of their husband like this and vice versa.

I was pissed off on precap again rational mind, but had he been in a good health Maan would have done same, celebrating the festival. I'll give it to her for not making situations dim life or celebration for him. Anu always carried her heart on her sleeve, while Anuj had always been guarded even with her. Maan balance emotional and logical brain.

True, also makers need an excuse to dance.

It would have been logical if anupama stayed with everyone, even dressed and let others dance.

Anuj never interfered in Anu life and relationships unless he had to, he let her fight her battles unless she needed him, he used same thinking in business, gave her lead, always there to step in.

Anuj other than GK havent had anyone yo show his vulnerable side, opening up when you have been guarded is never easy, he opened with GK, his friend Devika, Mukku and with Anu (he opens 50% n always guarded) may be with Anu he is 60%. He is not used to taking or accepting help n support, seeing his love going above and beyond to take care of him, poor guy he have to not only go through his own helpless pain and hers pain n unconditional love. That is why he is showing improvement, for her.

Anuj is a complex character. I agree with your words. His past could be a factor, he was adopted, had guilt of letting go of his love, he had brought up mukku, his guilt of his parents,

Even he felt himself responsible for Anupama's pain.

The amount of self preservation Anuj has Is commendable.

This man had never even thought to take any chance with anupama except business partnership and friendship.

It was literally vanraj and ba who forced both of them to confess and their relationship blossomed because of the toxicity around them.

Since I let my logical mind rest for a while, looked beyond frustration, was able to see the beautiful emotional bond.

With your post i am feeling positive that Anuj will be fine sooner.

Originally posted by: suhaaana

With your post i am feeling positive that Anuj will be fine sooner.

So i came across some spoilers saying anuj will die.

I do not attest to credibility. Do your own research

Originally posted by: Param-Sundari

So i came across some spoilers saying anuj will die.

I do not attest to credibility. Do your own research

I had seen some new spoilers with vanraj helping Anupama throwing rented Kapadia's out.

There are so many out there. Apparently nothing is true right now.

Originally posted by: suhaaana

I had seen some new spoilers with vanraj helping Anupama throwing rented Kapadia's out.

There are so many out there. Apparently nothing is true right now.

Honestly the direction this show is going I'm more inclined to believe that anuj character is ending.

I've disconnected from maAn and AK since December.

And completely stopped watching from August so not much clue.

Originally posted by: Param-Sundari

Honestly the direction this show is going I'm more inclined to believe that anuj character is ending.

I've disconnected from maAn and AK since December.

And completely stopped watching from August so not much clue.

If they are going by Bengali version then yes Anuj is definitely going to die. But now even the makers know that they can't just end Anuj's character so many they are going in steps.

If Anuj is going to die. There was no need to show CA.

Originally posted by: Param-Sundari

So i came across some spoilers saying anuj will die.

I do not attest to credibility. Do your own research

If that the case , they don't dare show any improvement in him. Yesterday the subtle improvement is something they won't risk showing for more than 10 sec with a song.

V, can makers stop him being the savior? Dear god,

Originally posted by: suhaaana

If they are going by Bengali version then yes Anuj is definitely going to die. But now even the makers know that they can't just end Anuj's character so many they are going in steps.

If Anuj is going to die. There was no need to show CA.

CA is their back up for gen leap obviously 🤷

Originally posted by: TitansFan

If that the case , they don't dare show any improvement in him. Yesterday the subtle improvement is something they won't risk showing for more than 10 sec with a song.

V, can makers stop him being the savior? Dear god,

@bold: that's exactly what I've been anticipating since the paralysis promo. V helping Anupama through tough times. Whitewashing him essentially.

Can't roll my eyes hard enough at that tbh. This thing totally puts me off this show.

They'd shove anything down audience' throats in name of "grey character"

Originally posted by: Param-Sundari

@bold: that's exactly what I've been anticipating since the paralysis promo. V helping Anupama through tough times. Whitewashing him essentially.

Can roll my eyes hard enough at that tbh. This thing totally puts me off this show.

They'd shove anything down audience' throats in name of "grey character"

V is not grey but black and is now being painted in white of all shades