Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 16 Jul 2022 - Page 3

I don't understand why children who are enough mature acting like 10year old children that they are feeling so bad her half sister anu has come

Agar anupama khud ka yeh bilogical baby hota tub bhi kya yeh apni bilogiiclal half sister ya biological brother se aisi hi insecure feel karte kya . Tub kya yeh elder children use bhai behan nahi maante?

Haven’t watched recent 2-3 episodes but going by updates , I feel we unnecessarily blamed Anuj for handing over the empire to Mukku ... Would have been better if she was the sole owner of the Kapadia empire , would have prevented all these unnecessary vultures from claiming their n their kids “ Haq “ ... Anuj n Anu would have lived peacefully in their 1 bhk doing matar cheelna or methi saaf karna or whatever rather than dealing with this Padhik n Backless Bhabhi nonsense 🤣😃... Asking to give us AK back in suits kitna bhari pada

Originally posted by: ga1986

Haven’t watched recent 2-3 episodes but going by updates , I feel we unnecessarily blamed Anuj for handing over the empire to Mukku ... Would have been better if she was the sole owner of the Kapadia empire , would have prevented all these unnecessary vultures from claiming their n their kids “ Haq “ ... Anuj n Anu would have lived peacefully in their 1 bhk doing matar cheelna or methi saaf karna or whatever rather than dealing with this Padhik n Backless Bhabhi nonsense 🤣😃... Asking to give us AK back in suits kitna bhari pada

Itna bhari ki they made him dance in a 3 piece suit in a beach. Itna bhari ki now 24*7 he is in suits. Uske sweatshirts bech diye lagta hai.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Ofcourse kid's permission is not needed. She should have mentally prepared her kids beforehand to avoid this unwanted situation. Though she wanted but Anuj stopped her. For the very first time she has prioritized Anuj's wish but unfortunately it was wrong. This woman has twisted priorities I say. Anuj asks her to stay away from Shah, but she downright rejects him.Anuj stops her from informing her kids, she listens to him.

Anuj, her kids, even God Himself, you know Anu's priority will only and only be Vanraj and no one else

Originally posted by: ga1986

Agree on this ... Had Vanraj and Any decided to foster it might have been easier , especially for Toshu and Pakhi ... The children , though of mature age , are still trying to come to terms with the fact that their mother , who was around them 24x7 , attending to their every need and henpecking them ( here it is Anu’s fault also ) , now belongs to someone else and her priority will be different.. Kinjal calling Anu in middle of night is an eg that though they are trying , they still expect Mummy to leave everything at the drop of a hat and attend to them ( a lot of it is fed by Vanraj and Baa also , who have always manipulated Anu’s love for the kids to emotionally bind her to the house and get their way ) ... The strongest thread binding Anu to Shah house was the kids , and they fear this bond will definitely weaken with Choti Anu’s coming ...

Btw for all the glorification of parenthood and motherhood that the show does , the way they are showing Jaltosh expecting Anupamaa to literally bring up their baby is wrong ... it’s better to have kids only when you feel you are ready , then expecting others to do all the hard work ( n parenting is a LOT of hard work ) ... Seeking support from family members is fine , but the way these 2 are behaving shows they are both not ready for the responsibility at all .... N why should it be Anupamaa all the time , there is Kavya who is more than willing to help nowadays , Rakhee can pay for all the helps in the world ... Kinjal and Babuji’s unhealthy attachment with Anupamaa is currently the biggest issue that will prevent her from moving on , I think Vanraj mentioned this to her in the temple conversation they had before wedding ...

And makers ko Shah’s ko ghusana hai so definitely all kind of tracks will keep cropping up however illogical they might be ...

Don't even get me started on KinTosh. They are the worst human beings on earth and they totally deserve each other. Kinju became pregnant so she could dance on everyone's head. And that jobless Toshu had the audacity to say he thought Anu would take care of his kid. Why on earth is it Anu's responsibility to take care of her son's kid? A Kid's only responsibility lies on the shoulders of it's parents not it's grandparents. Grandparents can help in their free time but you can't expect grand parents to free their time for grandkid.

Originally posted by: strancho

OK after reading so many comments and opinions, I have one question. Suppose Vanraj and Anupama were not divorced and then they would have taken a decision to foster a kid? Would Pakhi, Toshu and Samar feel the same way as they are feeling now?

My opinion: They surely would be shocked but I don't think they would feel insecure about their new sibling. May be because father is same?

Tagging the moms I know.

When children are young and their parents announce that they will have a sibling, usually little ones will rejoice. Because at that age, it is about having company to play with. But in this context, the kids are adults themselves. The first thing they will feel is digust, embarassment and many other things that kids at that age feel. No matter how much you ignore the society, children of Pakhi, Samar's age will feel awkward to have a sibling at that age. It will take time to accept it and school themselves to having a sibling at that age. Here, the child was introduced out of blue to them.

I just watched an episode after a long time, where Anuj brings home little Anu. Since it has severely deviated from its original theme of women empowerment, it has become a full fledged family drama like everything else, weaving in weird & predictable plots in the storyline.

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

I just watched an episode after a long time, where little Anuj brings home little Anu. Since it has severely deviated from its original theme of women empowerment, it has become a full fledged family drama like everything else, weaving in weird & predictable plots in the storyline.

Oh I will be happy if they lift the veil of woman empowerment and declare it as typical ITV daily soap.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Don't even get me started on KinTosh. They are the worst human beings on earth and they totally deserve each other. Kinju became pregnant so she could dance on everyone's head. And that jobless Toshu had the audacity to say he thought Anu would take care of his kid. Why on earth is it Anu's responsibility to take care of her son's kid? A Kid's only responsibility lies on the shoulders of it's parents not it's grandparents. Grandparents can help in their free time but you can't expect grand parents to free their time for grandkid.

While I agree with you to some extent, to some extent it is also Anupama's fault for accepting this responsibility. Do you remember when Toshu was calling the baby a burden Anu very righteously stated that she will step up to take care of the baby and when dadi is there no need to fear. If you hear something are you wrong to assume that they will stick by their word when the time comes?

Doesn't negate the fact that Toshu is effing irresponsible for expressing his displeasure with the kid after planning for it together with Kinjal.

Originally posted by: Potato_couch

While I agree with you to some extent, to some extent it is also Anupama's fault for accepting this responsibility. Do you remember when Toshu was calling the baby a burden Anu very righteously stated that she will step up to take care of the baby and when dadi is there no need to fear. If you hear something are you wrong to assume that they will stick by their word when the time comes?

Doesn't negate the fact that Toshu is effing irresponsible for expressing his displeasure with the kid after planning for it together with Kinjal.

Yes. Anupama has henpecked Pakhi and Toshu.

Originally posted by: strancho

I don't know about being a mother but as a child I guess I am little different then. Thanks for sharing your opinion. 🙂

I will say you are not different, you are more mature dear. And thanks from all the parents for being that😆

And the points all the mothers with real life experiences pointed out, i respect that and also kind of agree a little that children are selfish and attention seekers when it comes to their parents but i think everyone is ignoring the point that anupama's children, even pakhi now they have shown as 20+.

When we talk about real kids getting upset because of foster kid or feeling jealous because of sibling, we assume those kids may not be older than temperamental teenagers. Here every one is mature. So I don't feel that beyond a small shock+surprise anupama's children should feel any other thing.

In badhai ho film, if you remember, it was shown that children were mature and they were simply disgusted or ashamed of the fact that their parents having physical relations at this age and now its results are out in the form of their biological child, they didn't have anything against the child exactly. The moment child was born, both elder siblings accepted her.