The thing that irritates me about Anu...

She makes all these decisions and she is perfectly entitled to it, but she forces these decisions on the people in her life. You can't have your cake and eat it too.

Anupama and Anuj decided to adopt a kid. Nice. But maybe I am in the minority but she is really super irritating for expecting Pakhi and Toshu to accept her decision and consider her their sister. We can always say since they are adults and they do not need their mother. But fortunately/unfortunately in India we always consider our parents to be within our immediate family unit. In other cultures once a person has a partner that person becomes his or her first priority but that doesn't happen in India. Considering especially Pakhi's insecurity regarding losing her mother to Anuj and a separate house, I personally think her inability to accept little Anu as a sister is perfectly reasonable and I would understand it if she never can. Sometimes when there is a huge age gap between biological siblings they too are not close. But here, Anu is going to spring little Anu on her kids (without talking to them about it first) and get hurt when she is not accepted. Why cant she understand thaf her kids have their own right as to whether they want to accept the new people in their mother's life?

Honestly the thing that irritates me the most about Anu is how entitled she is. She can live her life however she wants and she should, but her constant need to receive affirmation from other people and forcing her decisions on them really really irritate me. In the process, she doesn't care whom she hurts. Poor baby Anu. After living a lonely life her sadness is only going to increase after the treatment she receives from the Shahs. Poor child.

Why do I bother. This show is so effing stupid and I am stupid for still continuing to watch to watch it/read the WUs.

I agree with most points here except that the person at fault here is Anuj more than Anu.

She asked repeatedly to tell the family about little Anu. When you have a second child you talk to the first one and ready them for the new arrival. Here three adult children were not even informed. Thats just crazy.

Anuj is not being written well here. He comes across as completely selfish. Firstly he has emotionally pressurised Anu into adoption when she should have been living it out after 25 years in Shah jail. Secondly not letting her inform her children about it, just so that he can live in his bubble.

Bad writing 👎🏻

Anupama has God complex and Anuj is feeding her God complex daily. Anupama thinks only she has knowledge and wisdom. She believes she is always right and anyone questioning her decision automatically gets subjected to the torture of hearing her 5 pages long lectures. She is ex Bahu of Shahs yet she is the one taking all major decisions related to Shahs. She does not take any others opinion in to consideration. It is absolutely normal for Pakhi and Toshu to not accept baby Anu. As Anu has the right to adopt a baby, her kids have the right to reject it as their sibling. I feel so sorry for baby Anu. Because of her always miss right mother she will be forced to interact with V, Baa, Toshu, Pakhi, BB who despise her.

I agree that they should have informed Shah siblings before introducing lil Anu to them. But you do realize that the fault here is more of Anuj’s than Anu. She told Anuj repeatedly that they should let the family know beforehand so they are prepared and when he said no.. she said at least the kids, TSP should know.. but Anuj refused and said not to tell anyone yet… so the fault is Anuj’s here. He should have been on board with letting the kids know. I can totally understand the shah kids reaction right now.

May be I am wrong, but her over interfering into Shah household and others' matters is the root of ALL her problems.

Someone tell her to Stop taking decisions on behalf of your grown-up, adult kids and ex-sasural.

Part of parenthood I guess is to teach your kids to rationalize and take decisions, isn't it?

You can take your decisions, adopt anyone👍🏼. Just stop the 5 page essay for every topic.

Oh by the way:

Her argument with Barkha that just like she and Adhik have a huge age gap and Barkha and her mom raised him, she would do too?

What argument is it? How is it relevant?

It's anuj fault not tell anyone

honestly this adoption is force

Anuj want a kid call him papa 👍🏼good thinking

But bhai pehle le letay 😡shaadi ke 2 ya 4 months ke baad hi kyu yaad aaya👎🏼

Do you think Vanraj is right about why Anuj actually adopted Anu, i.e. to save his property? Anuj doesn't seem like that kind of mean person. It was an emotional decision.

I think the reason for not telling anyone was because of Barkha and Co. And he had an expression on his face of being right when he found out that Adhik told Pakhi about little Anu.

As far I watching the serial it is not anupama who is forcing her decision on people

It is shah who are forcing their decision on anupama. These leela vanraj paritosh pakhi always try to control anupama

When anupama befriend with anuj these people has problem these people can't tolerate why anupama living her own life specially toshu. Who is is worst son in the world who can't see his mother living happily and moving on.

When anu join business with anuj they have problem

When anuj and anupama going to married thry have problem

Now anuj and anupama fostering a child now they have problem

Inko to anupama har cheej problem hai baaki koi khuch bhi karta rahe koi bhaag kur shaadi kare koi affair chalaye to khuch nahi मतलब sub apni marji kar sakte है anupama apni koi marji nahi kar sakti

Anupama ne अगर khud se decision liya aur apni zindagi jeene ki koshish ki to paap ho gaya ?

Adoption kid for property no no

But yes something in my mind other then

After returning USA after 26 years live alone life only GK suddenly miss your family after marriage

26 years of love aachank background mein chala gaya

HM per kid adoption wala track really mere sir ke uppar se guzar gaya 26 saal se donation de raha tha akele waha jaata bhi tha Phir kyu nahi kid ko adopt kiya marriage ka wait kar rahe the kiya

Originally posted by: Potato_couch

Why do I bother. This show is so effing stupid and I am stupid for still continuing to watch to watch it/read the WUs.

This. 🤣

But don't expect anything better from DKP and ITV in general.

All itv FLs are like that 🤷