Have you ever seen such restrictions for divorcee lady ? - Page 6

Originally posted by: surabhi01

That means hatred is greater than love? Maine to suna hai chahe koi kitna नफरत kare but ant mein hamesha pyaar jeeta ta hai. Yes I know anupama face abuse for so many years but she love them so could her care love could not move baa heart In all these years, I still dont understand

Yes self respect is Important but anupama ne baa ko itni ixzzat di to baa ka anupama ke liye basic humanity kyon bhi kyon nahi develop hua,

Askhr itni bhi kya hatrred thi baa ko anupama ki taraf

Originally posted by: surabhi01

That means hatred is greater than love compassion? Maine to suna hai chahe koi kitna नफरत kare but ant mein hamesha pyaar jeeta ta hai. Yes I know anupama face abuse for so many years but she love them so could her care love could not move baa heart In all these years, I still dont understand .ok baa could not love anupama but at least basic humanity should be there for anupama ? Even baa don't have basic himsnty towards anupama?

No, it doesnt mean hatred is greater than love. Love is the only way to win anyone. But you cannot/should not force others to show the same kind of compassion/love. Because, it will be at the cost of self respect!

Well, like you said Anupama can continue showing her love to baa, which she might very well do in my opinion. But it looks bizzare/weird/unreal, if she cries buckets when baa hurts her. Thats all!

I dont say baa should love anupama but at least agar koi lagataar care karta, hai to jo person hai woh care karne wale se kitna bhi nafrat Kate but after some years nafrat karne wale le man mein basic humanity jaag hi jaati hai but yahan baa o anupama ki taraf basic humanity bhi nahi jaagi

Originally posted by: surabhi01

I dont say baa should love anupama but at least agar koi lagataar care karta, hai to jo person hai woh care karne wale se kitna bhi nafrat Kate but after some years nafrat karne wale le man mein basic humanity jaag hi jaati hai but yahan baa o anupama ki taraf basic humanity bhi nahi jaagi

Right! That is a very simple logic right? Baa is being rude to Anu inspite of so much of love Anu showers on her.

That also goes to show how skewed/evil baa's mind is towards Anu. So, we as viewers recognize that, why doesnt Anupama see that?

If baa don't like anu and anij marriage she can simple say I don't want to attend anupama wedding but giving badddua and all?? I know badddua ka koi asar nahi hota but phr bhi

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Yes self respect is Important but anupama ne baa ko itni ixzzat di to baa ka anupama ke liye basic humanity kyon bhi kyon nahi develop hua,

Askhr itni bhi kya hatrred thi baa ko anupama ki taraf

Originally posted by: surabhi01

If baa don't like anu and anij marriage she can simple say I don't want to attend anupama wedding but giving badddua and all?? I know badddua ka koi asar nahi hota but phr bhi

It's human tendency to try and please who don't like them but take the caring ones for granted. Instead we should appreciate and spend our time with the ppl who cherish us and makes our little time on this earth more enjoyable and worthwhile.

hey i actually have heard of many separated and divorced couples who continue to reside together cuz they cant afford to live on their own. this is not uncommon where i live.

My point is not about anupama self respect. But my point baa never wanted to anupama to be her bahu it is baa' s mother in law want anupama ne bahu

After anupama enter she took care of family selflessly

So when anupama take care of each and every family members of shah self less

To itne year mein baa anupama ki taraf heart thoda se bhi melt nahi hua ?

That is why a aked ki baa itna anupama se नफरत kyon karti hai. Baa ka nafrat ya gusssa khuch to kam. Hona chahiye tha if not fully