"Loving U was d most Exquisite form of Self Destruction"~An ode to AK - Page 11

Originally posted by: catalan

we have our boy who found love and god even in destroying himself to make his Anu hurt a little less😭😭😭 The moment he looked upto the stars and asked Kanhaji and asked for his love to succeed, their fate was sealed

His love is definitely devotion but not so self depricating that he watches his love gettrampled over, NOT EVEN BY ANU🙌🙌

100 %true. Anuj has created a new Portrayal for the word LOVE… going beyond all regular dictionary meanings like passion, warmth, adulate etc. etc. …, It is Purity of thoughts/ words/ deeds for a person. Both have fear of loosing the other but not of any fault of them.

The episode begins on an irritating note with the Pendulum Pakhi and her friends over a video call gossiping about a classmate's mother who was tying the knot and Pakhi seemed a little embarrassed.

I like the adjective for Pakhi… “Pendulam Pakhi” perfectly describes her character. The same girl will run to her mummy mummy when she learns that Anuj has got back all the wealth he gave to Mukku. ( I still believe this will happen) There will be no such thing called embarrassment at that time.

As the marriage preparations are already on…. thankfully they are going to wrap up the tamasha side quickly and not torture us anymore.

Nice review by you.

I don't understand one thing, why anupama does behave like helpless mother in front of Pakhi every time? Even at the time of dance competition, Instead of giving her slap, she is like ohh.. kitni dukhiyari hain

When it came to mukku, Anu threatened to give her a tight slap when she behaved rudely with her. Who are u to slap mukku? Kavya had even experience of being slapped by her.

Has she ever confronted Pakhi for her behavior?? Here, she has full right to scold her, make her understand but never does like that.. why?? parents can not be strict every time but need to be firm sometimes.

Has Anupam got licence to discipline, teach others except for her own kids??

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

Well articulated. 👍🏼I felt that even if Anupama needed time to process (not sure why needs time now, after confession ..) and needs to be left alone etc, she could have indicated that in a nicer way. Her pulling away the pallu & her hand was uncalled for. That unpleasant behaviour metted out to someone whose only fault was to love & respect her. Not nice!💔

Agree, while everyone sympathized with her staying quiet in front of Baa, her behaviour towards Anuj was rude and uncalled for.

Originally posted by: ChirpyKiya10

I don't understand one thing, why anupama does behave like helpless mother in front of Pakhi every time? Even at the time of dance competition, Instead of giving her slap, she is like ohh.. kitni dukhiyari hain

When it came to mukku, Anu threatened to give her a tight slap when she behaved rudely with her. Who are u to slap mukku? Kavya had even experience of being slapped by her.

Has she ever confronted Pakhi for her behavior?? Here, she has full right to scold her, make her understand but never does like that.. why?? parents can not be strict every time but need to be firm sometimes.

Has Anupam got licence to discipline, teach others except for her own kids??

Isnt' this simple dear... Pakhi ko touch bhi kiya to Vanraj, Anu ka kya haal harega .. on Mukku, Anuj had given her full haq

Or shall i rephrase, Anu doesn't want to disapppoint Vanraj so she doesn't say a word to Pakhi. For Anuj, she knows, he is nice understanding guy, so she behaves however she likes with Mukku. Sad but Truth.

Originally posted by: Km181

Agree, while everyone sympathized with her staying quiet in front of Baa, her behaviour towards Anuj was rude and uncalled for.

Oh it's not just anuj she behaves rudely... she has behaved rudely with samar and devika in the past too if I remember correctly

It's like she knows they won't misbehave with her in return and always stand by her , hence takes them for granted.

I wonder would she ever dare to ignore the toxic shahs the way she ignores the nice people in her life... nope she is constantly bending backwards for their approval

Originally posted by: Peppss

Oh it's not just anuj she behaves rudely... she has behaved rudely with samar and devika in the past too if I remember correctly

It's like she knows they won't misbehave with her in return and always stand by her , hence takes them for granted.

I wonder would she ever dare to ignore the toxic shahs the way she ignores the nice people in her life... nope she is constantly bending backwards for their approval

You are right, reminds me of how she behaved with Devika during that partnership offer.

I don't understand one thing, why anupama does behave like helpless mother in front of Pakhi every time? Even at the time of dance competition, Instead of giving her slap, she is like ohh.. kitni dukhiyari hain

When it came to mukku, Anu threatened to give her a tight slap when she behaved rudely with her. Who are u to slap mukku? Kavya had even experience of being slapped by her.

Has she ever confronted Pakhi for her behavior?? Here, she has full right to scold her, make her understand but never does like that.. why?? parents can not be strict every time but need to be firm sometimes.

Has Anupam got licence to discipline, teach others except for her own kids??

Your question is valid . But even in real life some mothers are blind and just will not see the wrongs of her children and comment on all other children. Even if there are more than one child some mother gets attachement and pamper only one child. Even in thsi show Anu slapped Thoshu , dicipline Samar but in case of Pakhi she is not able to do anything. The reason as per the show , may be after Paki's birth V and Anu did not have physical relationship. So she may be taking solace from Pakhi.... and may have developed a protective bond to get over her insecurity.

To be honest today I felt only anuj pain Anupama dance or tears haven't effected me also I was much affected by anuj shayeri bapuji anuj phone call.

I am scared is rate pe chalta raha shadi ho ya na ho mera Maan magic lost ho jayega will only support anuj

I am fed of her always giving importance to people who never ever given her importance neither baa gave nor vanraj nor toshu pakhee they all are opputunist i don't understand when she will learn at kitne lesson chahiye sorry if I hurt anyone 🤗

Originally posted by: mithilalovesksg

To be honest today I felt only anuj pain Anupama dance or tears haven't effected me also I was much affected by anuj shayeri bapuji anuj phone call.

I am scared is rate pe chalta raha shadi ho ya na ho mera Maan magic lost ho jayega will only support anuj

I am fed of her always giving importance to people who never ever given her importance neither baa gave nor vanraj nor toshu pakhee they all are opputunist i don't understand when she will learn at kitne lesson chahiye sorry if I hurt anyone 🤗

So true...

I don't know why but after Anuj Bapuji scene.. my eyes were little moist.. I just can't bear the pain and helplessness Anuj was feeling that time...

I thought ki isse achha to Anu apna pain share kr leti tab bhi Anuj ok hota but her silence has given him immense pain

Originally posted by: Km181

Agree, while everyone sympathized with her staying quiet in front of Baa, her behaviour towards Anuj was rude and uncalled for.

I also felt very bad.

She didn't want to discuss, we do understand but her behavior was not justified. if a person is sweet and loves you, it does not mean, you can take him for granted and hurt him always. She is behaving like all this is happening bcoz of Anuj.

Originally posted by: sunshine36

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