Baa e azam

Baa although completely wrong reflects our society asian society

Men can marry 3 to 4 times but woman cannot marry even if she becomes widows in her 20s. Man can marry 2nd day after his wife dies but woman cannot marry even after 10 years after husband dies. 40 year old widow or divorced men want 20 year old virgins to marry only. Man can have girls who are friends in college or office. But if a girl speaks to boy on road outside and any relative neighbour or family sees they feel shes having romantic relationship with that man. Men and woman cannot just be friends you see if they talk or laugh and smile its only romantic angle. That kind of mindset there in big big colleges or MNCs working people still. If girl is born in house even today people feel sad they go into mourning in richest and educated homes. If three four girls are born than the woman is cursed and hubby gets ready to marry another wife for ghar ka chirag a boy. The death of son the mourning is for life if daughter dies after 3 days people stop thinking usually. The family name goes forward by sons kids not daughters kids. After marraige a daughter is told come with hubby to visit or as dead body do not come if you have problems in hubby house alone. Daughter are called paraya dhan from birth not sons. Usually nowadays sons betray parents and family after marrying.

The men themselves have many girl friends in college but their sisters should not speak to a man. Something like what anuj did to Akshay and Mukku separated them. You tell me Akshay is after Mukkus money. What is anupamas ex Shah family? They are also after anuj business and money only no? They are bigger frauds than Akshay or her ex hubby. But anuj only seperated Mukku from akshay saying hes after her money. Why not himself seperate from anupama and shahs they are bigger frauds after his wealth and business. One rule for your lover and family another rule for sisters lover and family. Anuj left Mukku for anupama who never respects his love and shahs who snatched his empire. But Mukku was made to leave akshay and married off to another man. In that cat you can see how family handle love if son does versus daughter does.

Baa and vanraj think they still have rights over anupama and they use those rights every time although kavya iis their bahu and wife not anupama. Why because this society thinks once a woman is married to a man even if he brings 2 soutens even if he divorces he still has rights on that woman after everything. If husband dies in laws still can order widow around as even after death she remains Mrs anupama vanraj Shah not become anupama. Sadly anupama is openly encouraging this regressive thoughts and actions herself.

The biggest mistake anupama did was stay in vanraj house after she came to know kavya and his relation. After divorce too she stay in ex hubby house. She should take her kids who want to come with her and minor and just leave home first day. When you only want to be trampled all over how much can anuj or devika or samar save you? Person must take stand for his respect saying i cannot be taken advantage of.

I am scraed now after anupama married anuj and even has a family or kids she will continue going every day to that Shah house and getting humiliated. Problem is because of her anuj and their kids will have to go that Shah house and get abused every time. How will Baa and vanraj treat anuj anupama's kids(if they have or adopt). This cycle of abuse will continue next generation too at this rate. Anupama never taken stand for anuj so far always he leaves humiliated from Shahs house. OK she gives basahaans which are of no use she must take a stand not to go to Shahs as they humiliate her lover and future hubby. Will she take stand for her kids anuj kids when Baa and vanraj unleash their venom on those kids because they are anujs. I doubt than also may be kinjal or samar have to talk. What is that fear of anupama that does not make her stand up for her self respect or anujs? Or for that sake samars? Or kinjals?

Anuj will never speak anything as may be hes scared of losing anupama if he talks against shahs. Only intoxicated he can speak. Malvika who could speak has been removed from show. GK is gungi gudda. So this drama will continue after 10000 episodes too

Originally posted by: myviewprem

Baa although completely wrong reflects our society asian society

Men can marry 3 to 4 times but woman cannot marry even if she becomes widows in her 20s. Man can marry 2nd day after his wife dies but woman cannot marry even after 10 years after husband dies. 40 year old widow or divorced men want 20 year old virgins to marry only. Man can have girls who are friends in college or office. But if a girl speaks to boy on road outside and any relative neighbour or family sees they feel shes having romantic relationship with that man. Men and woman cannot just be friends you see if they talk or laugh and smile its only romantic angle. That kind of mindset there in big big colleges or MNCs working people still. If girl is born in house even today people feel sad they go into mourning in richest and educated homes. If three four girls are born than the woman is cursed and hubby gets ready to marry another wife for ghar ka chirag a boy. The death of son the mourning is for life if daughter dies after 3 days people stop thinking usually. The family name goes forward by sons kids not daughters kids. After marraige a daughter is told come with hubby to visit or as dead body do not come if you have problems in hubby house alone. Daughter are called paraya dhan from birth not sons. Usually nowadays sons betray parents and family after marrying.

The men themselves have many girl friends in college but their sisters should not speak to a man. Something like what anuj did to Akshay and Mukku separated them. You tell me Akshay is after Mukkus money. What is anupamas ex Shah family? They are also after anuj business and money only no? They are bigger frauds than Akshay or her ex hubby. But anuj only seperated Mukku from akshay saying hes after her money. Why not himself seperate from anupama and shahs they are bigger frauds after his wealth and business. One rule for your lover and family another rule for sisters lover and family. Anuj left Mukku for anupama who never respects his love and shahs who snatched his empire. But Mukku was made to leave akshay and married off to another man. In that cat you can see how family handle love if son does versus daughter does.

Baa and vanraj think they still have rights over anupama and they use those rights every time although kavya iis their bahu and wife not anupama. Why because this society thinks once a woman is married to a man even if he brings 2 soutens even if he divorces he still has rights on that woman after everything. If husband dies in laws still can order widow around as even after death she remains Mrs anupama vanraj Shah not become anupama. Sadly anupama is openly encouraging this regressive thoughts and actions herself.

The biggest mistake anupama did was stay in vanraj house after she came to know kavya and his relation. After divorce too she stay in ex hubby house. She should take her kids who want to come with her and minor and just leave home first day. When you only want to be trampled all over how much can anuj or devika or samar save you? Person must take stand for his respect saying i cannot be taken advantage of.

I am scraed now after anupama married anuj and even has a family or kids she will continue going every day to that Shah house and getting humiliated. Problem is because of her anuj and their kids will have to go that Shah house and get abused every time. How will Baa and vanraj treat anuj anupama's kids(if they have or adopt). This cycle of abuse will continue next generation too at this rate. Anupama never taken stand for anuj so far always he leaves humiliated from Shahs house. OK she gives basahaans which are of no use she must take a stand not to go to Shahs as they humiliate her lover and future hubby. Will she take stand for her kids anuj kids when Baa and vanraj unleash their venom on those kids because they are anujs. I doubt than also may be kinjal or samar have to talk. What is that fear of anupama that does not make her stand up for her self respect or anujs? Or for that sake samars? Or kinjals?

Anuj will never speak anything as may be hes scared of losing anupama if he talks against shahs. Only intoxicated he can speak. Malvika who could speak has been removed from show. GK is gungi gudda. So this drama will continue after 10000 episodes too

The answer is Nooooo.. All that is happening in her life is because of her choices only. I don’t feel bad for her now because she is the one who has given this power to vanraj/Baa/Toshu..

The biggest issue is not of Baa considering herself to be aa’ zam, but of Anupamaa dialling into that narrative and allowing Baa that hold over her. Until and unless she starts respecting herself and, by extension, her choices, no amount of support she’s given will make any difference. It’s a choice she has to make for herself. And, yes, today it is a choice.