Badi Weird Behen - Page 2

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

yup, its like they say a an idle mind is a devil's workshop.

when you are constantly busy all day long you dont have time to stop and think about your reality. she is constantly seeking out new stimuli...the moment she stops, all of the pain hits her smack in the face. as long as she is occupied she's okay but the moment she is alone she cant stop all of the flashbacks, she cant process the emotion and she lashes out (im guessing anuj, GK, india etc are a huge trigger for her)

Anuj told Malvika gets bored too easily...Then she stops working. When she is with everybody, she has an activity to talk, so she is not idle, but alone with Anuj she is idle, So her mood swings with Anuj are far more visible

Originally posted by: moksha89

Thanks for the tag, Kosha <3

Glad to see you posting!

I think a major thought that has come to mind with this Malvika track is that Anuj is one to feel guilt. He is his own worst critic. I felt this way when he initially became so overwhelmed seeing how Anu's life panned out; and empathetically feeling and absorbing how much she suffered. This pain was magnified because he recognized that Anu didn't marry V because she loved him but because it was an orchestrated event in her life that could have easily been him and her living a blissful 26 years and more together.

He said it was his fault so many epis ago & has continuously shouldered blame as if he's Atlas, the Greek God who "carried the weight of the world on his shoulders".

I want to see him move past feeling guilt for things that are out of his control.

You pointed out right, there are so many people who praises Anuj. But Anuj is his own worst critic. He himself is unsatisfied with him. He learns to be kind on himself. The death of his parents was destined, he asking to go out and racing on the bike, was their medium to die. Who on the birthday doesn't wanna go out. To go out isn't a fault of Anuj. When we are small, out of all enthusiasm, which teenager doesn't feel to do some things which are risky. The thing is that for him, his over enthusiasm lead to the dead end only. While other teenagers learn slowly and gradually, he learnt that not to do such mistake in the harshest way...

I dont blame him, but he has to learn to not blame himself

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

Anuj told Malvika gets bored too easily...Then she stops working. When she is with everybody, she has an activity to talk, so she is not idle, but alone with Anuj she is idle, So her mood swings with Anuj are far more visible

what do you mean she stops working? i mustve missed that in one of the epis...

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

what do you mean she stops working? i mustve missed that in one of the epis...

I was saying that Malvika gets bored easily...This stops working means, she doesnt get jobless, but she doesn't feel like working.

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

I was saying that Malvika gets bored easily...This stops working means, she doesnt get jobless, but she doesn't feel like working.

which is odd, cuz to be successful you would need to have some capacity for patience...maybe she loves what she does...?

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

which is odd, cuz to be successful you would need to have some capacity for patience...maybe she loves what she does...?

Yes, its definitely odd...

In Vanika, the plan will be of Vanraj, the money will be of Mukku...

Her mind is wavering

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

Yes, its definitely odd...

In Vanika, the plan will be of Vanraj, the money will be of Mukku...

Her mind is wavering

yep she all over the place and extremely vulnerable. definitely in a position to be taken advantage of by someone who is out to achieve something...but Anuj will kill Vanraj tho 😆