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Hello friends. I thank you for all the tag and sorry i wont be able to respond for a few days as I lost a family member so i wont be online much. But please do tag me and I'll make sure to respond later.

And thank you for understanding. And Sorry I couldn't tag more

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: saito

Hello friends. I thank you for all the tag and sorry i wont be able to respond for a few days as I lost a family member so i wont be online much. But please do tag me and I'll make sure to respond later.

And thank you for understanding. And Sorry I couldn't tag more

Sorry for your loss. Take care!
Posted: 3 years ago
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sorry about your loss hun, take care and hope to see you back soon🤗

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So sorry for your loss dear. Pls dont worry about responding. Take your time. We are always here. Wishing you healing and strength💗

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So sorry for your loss.Take care of yourself also dear.❤️

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Sorry for your loss. Take care.

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Sorry to hear that , take care.

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Hi Friends. I have come back. I know you might think so soon. But actually I have a very big issue dealing with this. I'm trying to cope up with it. I have a health issue that if I take stress then it affects me badly. I don't know why but whenever I hear any news about death I kind of feel like I can't connect with it at all. The feeling doesn't come to me might be because I'm still maybe traumatized by my father's death and I'm sure that I'm still not over it because the way I should have reacted didn't come out. I feel like the emotion with that situation had died within me that's why.

When I posted, we planned to travel to attend the funeral but were denied due to the new variant of Covid so had to stay back.

I like to thank you all who viewed and commented on my post. I truly appreciate it. Dil se Thank you.

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Originally posted by: saito

Hi Friends. I have come back. I know you might think so soon. But actually I have a very big issue dealing with this. I'm trying to cope up with it. I have a health issue that if I take stress then it affects me badly. I don't know why but whenever I hear any news about death I kind of feel like I can't connect with it at all. The feeling doesn't come to me might be because I'm still maybe traumatized by my father's death and I'm sure that I'm still not over it because the way I should have reacted didn't come out. I feel like the emotion with that situation had died within me that's why.

When I posted, we planned to travel to attend the funeral but were denied due to the new variant of Covid so had to stay back.

I like to thank you all who viewed and commented on my post. I truly appreciate it. Dil se Thank you.


Sorry for your loss.

Be strong, i can understand, our mind reacts in strange ways.

I too have often felt that i did not react right way in a situation. But trust me there is no right or wrong.

Often, when we are hurt most deep inside, we really don't know how are we reacting.

At one time, for few days despite being fully aware of situation, i acted as if there was nothing. I would just keep telling myself its dream. People around me wonder what was wrong.

Be strong and engage yourself in whatever helps. Be it following Anupamaa, talking to us or anything.

Love and take care.


PS: feel free to drop me PM if you need someone to talk. never know, talking to stranger, who wont judge, might help.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I totally understand your grief Goldie as I was in the same situation at the time of my dad's demise last year..Couldn't travel to India due to travel restrictions.

It is truly heartbreaking if you can't be there with your loved ones at the time of need.

I tried to distract myself with other responsibilities I have, it worked to some extent but of course fathers place can't be filled especially for a daughter.

I am always there if you ever want to talk.take care of yourself.

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