Isn't the progression...too fast? - Page 3

Originally posted by: avita36

I don't think she is fallen in love with him. She is just noticing him from different perspective. She is just accepting and appreciating all the love and care Anuj is showering in her.

exactly!!! You said it

Originally posted by: iamcurious

Exactly what I wrote elsewhere this morning.

I dont know maybe its just me...but its been less 24 hours since this conversation with bapuji...uska abhi tak khayalo mein rehna....was like expected...but Devika suddenly saying its pyaar not fikar...isnt it a lil early still? I was still hoping to see absolute falling...where she knows it herself but was not ready to accept it and thats when Devika would just nudge her....abhi bhi pyaar develop hona baki hai from her side...isnt it?

we will see her not agreeing immediately, this is not pyaar for her doston. This is "I am indeed seeing Anuj for what he is, for what he has felt so far for me" and trust me a good hearted person like her will care more now and do a lot of things for him and also think about his wellfare without thinking all this as love. That thought/nudge can come from Devika or who ever and she might ask herself and say no or might ponder...we will see that. But she is not in love!! Yet!!

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it is fast but not abrupt if you know what I mean, cause Anu was gradually made aware of his importance in her life but the actual push came now.

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You are right. She had lot of respect and regards from the time he saved Samar, then Nandini then he recognised her hidden talent and made her partner. Because of these she stood for him when people insulted him and also felt shameful on Boomi puja day when V gang faught with them.

From the respect it progressed to friendship during Mumbai visit , when he fulfilled her small wish , ... and so on

After Bapuji's push, she is now recollecting all and in a phase of "Wow"... so her closeness is progressing fast. All these days she had a closed mindset and it is open so it looks like it is fast but not fast.

Originally posted by: catalan

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it is fast but not abrupt if you know what I mean, cause Anu was gradually made aware of his importance in her life but the actual push came now.

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You are right. She had lot of respect and regards from the time he saved Samar, then Nandini then he recognised her hidden talent and made her partner. Because of these she stood for him when people insulted him and also felt shameful on Boomi puja day when V gang faught with them.

From the respect it progressed to friendship during Mumbai visit , when he fulfilled her small wish , ... and so on

After Bapuji's push, she is now recollecting all and in a phase of "Wow"... so her closeness is progressing fast. All these days she had a closed mindset and it is open so it looks like it is fast but not fast.

yep, it is not at all fast, i think it is right... this is what i wrote in another post --

This is her taking notice and appreciating him for what he is!! People do a lot in the appreciation and acknowledging that appreciation itself!! Baking a cake and thinking about him is nothing guys!!! She is NOW noticing everything and this is GOOD. She has to come to this stage, do things for him in this stage itself and then move to next stage..concern/care OR actual Love, we will see. She is not in love, she is in appreciation mode, she is in "seeing him" mode in the real sense

Yeah i don't find this fast at all. MaAn r progressing in the right way.

Originally posted by: nish_vir

😆Ha aajao rashan paani ke saath...for a discussion

Because it seriously feels forced now.

Ye kaisa pyaar hai? Ek din main hi ho gaya

Bapuji giving anu the push was ok but it feels like ki bapuji ke words have possesed her. See, seeing anuj differently is alag baat and suddenly uss par fida ho jana is another.

Anu apni feelings process kab karegi? Where is the buildup? Abhi toh she has started to notice the man, and suddenly devika is saying ki haan, yahi pyaar hai. Pyaar hai, akbhar thodi jo agle hi din chap gaya dil ke kagaz par.

If makers would've shown something along the lines of anu falling steadily for him over the last 3 months, it would've been agreeable. But we all know, aisa kuch nhi tha.

It feels too lacking. I know you folks loved aaj ka episode, but i couldn't. Anupama suddenly acting like a lovestruck teenager is beyond me. I cant help but feel something is missing.

Yes, it does feel a little too quick, but in a way that’s natural too.

@bold: Anu already was in awe of Anuj, she did compliment Anuj a few times borderline flirting actually😆. Fida toh wo thihi, in fact she has been openly advocating his presence in her life, caring for him, affectionately daant laga di hai a few times.

Her heart is full of everything that forms the basis for her to fall for him. And now she knows that love exists from Anuj along with her world which she looks at as moral compass is pro MaAn (Devika, Samar and final push from Bapuji) she is putting herself out there by making chocolate fudge for chocolate himself 😳 without anyone asking for it. Her ways of exploring and expressing her feelings would be typical coz she has expressed it by care only in her previous relationship. See Anu clearly agrees fikra hai and justifies herself that honi bhi chahie, that’s a step in right direction, she is just getting comfortable with fall she is heading towards

Secondly she had mentioned in earlier episodes, she doesn’t consider loving someone a bad thing also she doesn’t consider her being in 40’s a mom or a MIL as reasons not to move on, so if they show her battling herself on these grounds it would be contradictory. Her reason of not thinking of any romantic relationship was fear of betrayal again, if that assurance comes with rest of her world approving it Anu will progress without hesitation and I think that’s right thing to show as well, sparing audiences the same usual self fighting melodrama and dilemma. MaAn being experienced with life they would and should process their feelings better and quicker with clarity than teenagers or youngsters.

It also means no dragged tracks and they could show her professional journey with romantic one settled in time. I am all for it. Hope makers don’t disappoint by showing some Anuj illness track and all (plz don’t)🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞When Anuj’s big confession promo aired I had felt it toooo early but it all played out well and now I think confession was perfectly timed. So hoping that makers know where they are heading😊

Originally posted by: S.n.e.h

Yes, it does feel a little too quick, but in a way that’s natural too.

@bold: Anu already was in awe of Anuj, she did compliment Anuj a few times borderline flirting actually😆. Fida toh wo thihi, in fact she has been openly advocating his presence in her life, caring for him, affectionately daant laga di hai a few times.

Her heart is full of everything that forms the basis for her to fall for him. And now she knows that love exists from Anuj along with her world which she looks at as moral compass is pro MaAn (Devika, Samar and final push from Bapuji) she is putting herself out there by making chocolate fudge for chocolate himself 😳 without anyone asking for it. Her ways of exploring and expressing her feelings would be typical coz she has expressed it by care only in her previous relationship. See Anu clearly agrees fikra hai and justifies herself that honi bhi chahie, that’s a step in right direction, she is just getting comfortable with fall she is heading towards

Secondly she had mentioned in earlier episodes, she doesn’t consider loving someone a bad thing also she doesn’t consider her being in 40’s a mom or a MIL as reasons not to move on, so if they show her battling herself on these grounds it would be contradictory. Her reason of not thinking of any romantic relationship was fear of betrayal again, if that assurance comes with rest of her world approving it Anu will progress without hesitation and I think that’s right thing to show as well, sparing audiences the same usual self fighting melodrama and dilemma. MaAn being experienced with life they would and should process their feelings better and quicker with clarity than teenagers or youngsters.

It also means no dragged tracks and they could show her professional journey with romantic one settled in time. I am all for it. Hope makers don’t disappoint by showing some Anuj illness track and all (plz don’t)🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞When Anuj’s big confession promo aired I had felt it toooo early but it all played out well and now I think confession was perfectly timed. So hoping that makers know where they are heading😊

BOLD -- perfectly said!! Couldnt agree more here

I think, because Devika Anu ki best friend hai, woh of course usko push karegi (about precap), but I feel Anu will take her own time, makers jaldbaazi nahi karenge.

Originally posted by: HpTheChosenOne

I think, because Devika Anu ki best friend hai, woh of course usko push karegi (about precap), but I feel Anu will take her own time, makers jaldbaazi nahi karenge.

true,,, its just a "I see him" stage now. D's words will make her question herself or her feelings more, situations will again force her to self analyze her thoughts, and his actions will reveal more on how SHE is always his priority.

I don't know how this will play out in the story but I do feel it is a bit rushed. Because when Anuj confessed his love Anupama gave him her friendship in return and in 2 days time she started looking differently towards him.

When Samar told Anupama to think about Anuj's love and not to insult his love that step of hers giving her friendship in return was acceptable and then when Babuji told her to consider letting Anuj in her life the transition was very fast. I think she should have been in denial as what Babuji told her was not a small thing and in a few minutes she changed completely. And in one day she sees how caring he's been towards her and discusses it with Devika and Devika says that it is love. Now that is fast forward to me ( in only 4 episodes) Anu's viewpoint changed completely.

I dont know why the makers fast forward this arc of the story.

Anuj took 26 years to confess his feelings for her and to me it looks like the makers wont give Anupama 26 months for her love to blossom slowly(which she deserves comparing it to 26 years of Anuj).

Looking at the speed the makers are moving she will confess her love to him in only 26 days.