I am comparing both the situations and reactions of Anupma here.
1. Samar explaination- Samar justified Anuj love in front of Anupama but he doesn't put a thought in her mind to accept Anuj love. Anupma instantly friend-zone Anuj ye kehkar ki wo dobara prem nahi kar sakti and Anuj also accepted that. So dobara usne ye baat sochi hi nahi naa hi Anuj ko phir uss nazariye se dekha and both were eating chocolate-halwa like besties😆So at that point Anupama knows ki Anuj loves her from last 26 yrs but gravity of that thought did not sink in her mind.
2. Babuji explanation- Babuji said ye Anuj Kanhaji ka ashirwaad hai usse thukra mat. Tum aur Anuj ek dusre ke liye bane ho. Mere liye tum Radha aur wo Krishna hai, Usse apni zindaagi aur mann mein aane de❤️This strucks Anupama like a lightening jolt like ek dum se uske mind ke doors khule . Babuji is like a father figure to her wo unhe Baa se bhi upar maanti hai so this coming from Babuji is like a startling realization to Anupama. Aur aaj se ekdum se Anupama ka Anuj ke taraf dekhne ka nazariya badal gaya and i am liking it. Now She sees him not as a friend but as a man who loves her immensely aur ab wo Anuj ki ek ek baat sochegi .
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