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Posted: 3 years ago
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The daily sop in Tamashah House is apparent to all but Kavya MBA claims it is something she sees only after marriage.She expected all the perceived praises and warmth Anupama received and concluded she should get that without moving her little finger. Hasmukh Shah has always treated her with dignity and said they are better off as Bahu - Sasur.

All other points she made were true yet using it to justify her offence 420 was so laughable.Today she became our mouthpiece, voicing all our rants on the inimitable Shahs.

Anupama was naive, foolish for trusting the wrong people. We do come across people like her who give unmindful of how others treat them as it is in their nature to give. They empathise with all. She has not forgiven Vanya for the EMA. yet in the stalking matter Anupama reached out to Kavya unlike Kavya who would have celebrated Anupama's suffering.

If Anupama were to list the nasty things Kavya has said,it would be more than an episode. But the difference between the two is just that. one rants the other endures. Anupama didnt want alimony or anything from the Shahs. to her ties are more precious than material but Kavya is focussed on it and equates a person's worth to the possessions.

Folks didnt love and appreciate Anupama the way she did. What should she do start acting like Leela or Kavya? She will then not be Anupamaa.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: moonwearer

The daily sop in Tamashah House is apparent to all but Kavya MBA claims it is something she sees only after marriage.She expected all the perceived praises and warmth Anupama received and concluded she should get that without moving her little finger. Hasmukh Shah has always treated her with dignity and said they are better off as Bahu - Sasur.

Agree on this point . She wanted that without doing anything, everyOne should be on her side.

Actually,She did not want to make the house her own. She wanted to rule in the house which was impossible as long as anupama was there.

All other points she made were true yet using it to justify her offence 420 was so laughable.Today she became our mouthpiece, voicing all our rants on the inimitable Shahs.


Anupama was naive, foolish for trusting the wrong people. We do come across people like her who give unmindful of how others treat them as it is in their nature to give. They empathise with all. She has not forgiven Vanya for the EMA. yet in the stalking matter Anupama reached out to Kavya unlike Kavya who would have celebrated Anupama's suffering.


As long as Anupama was a part of that family, her sacrifice, respect, tolerance for her family was understandable.But don't you think so we need both the hands to clap,even Quarrel happens from two sides, in the same way respect should also be given from both the sides

.To be polite to a person who constantly points fingers at your character is like losing your own self respect.

Due to the good behavior of Anupama, no one gets the right to point fingers at her whenever she wants.

If Anupama were to list the nasty things Kavya has said,it would be more than an episode. But the difference between the two is just that. one rants the other endures. Anupama didnt want alimony or anything from the Shahs. to her ties are more precious than material but Kavya is focussed on it and equates a person's worth to the possessions.

Everyone was wrong at some point of time, so does Kavya she deceived V and family , V and Baa have been punished for their own misdeeds.

Folks didnt love and appreciate Anupama the way she did. What should she do start acting like Leela or Kavya? She will then not be Anupamaa.

If Anu start behaving like Baa and Kavya, then there will be no difference between Anupama and others. But we can only expect her to say wrong to wrong and right to right ,is that too much?😆😆
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Posted: 3 years ago
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100% agree with your post



And i absolutely hate anyone calling Anupama naukarani.. any mother who whole heartedly looks after her family cooks, does chores and helps them through their shortcomings dose not deserve to be called a Maid




Its absolutely disrespectful to any mother who lives a life through the lives of her husband, in-laws, or children for that matter




Haan Anu thoda gyaan zada baat ti hai but thats ok.. she is nave and trusting sometimes even foolish to some extent but that's what makes her Anupama

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Anupama is no longer in the house. So how does she decide to rue over the house by getting it transferred to her name in deceitful ways.

I have no problem with her saying what she thinks to the shahs . They are her family now. If Vanraj locks himself in a hotel room after Anuj's confession it is between her and Vanraj

Blaming the entire diwali drama on A&A and Leela Hasmukh claiming she is innocent is that fair?

When she lived so long in Shah House before the expose she got to see their nature.

She did point out to Leela her flaws. but recall how Kavya uses every relationship.

Kavya is self centered and assumes the universe exists to satisfy her greed.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: sporthy_smile28

100% agree with your post



And i absolutely hate anyone calling Anupama naukarani.. any mother who whole heartedly looks after her family cooks, does chores and helps them through their shortcomings dose not deserve to be called a Maid

Let me clear one thing, 😆I m also a mother and i love to do all these things to my family ,but Anu was treated like a maid

Whoever used to come here, used to go away insultingly. Even her own children never respected her

Whatever Anu did for her family, she did it wholeheartedly but her family never accepted her wholeheartedly.



Its absolutely disrespectful to any mother who lives a life through the lives of her husband, in-laws, or children for that matter




Haan Anu thoda gyaan zada baat ti hai but thats ok.. she is nave and trusting sometimes even foolish to some extent but that's what makes her Anupama

u cant show colours to a blind person 😆 jo Anu karte hai



P.S:Nice to meet u 😆

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Lots of good thoughts


Something I noticed today was that Anu didn’t deflect or minimize the points Kavya made regarding the flaws that led to her conditioning. She didn’t deny that Baa was wrong to continuously criticize her or that Babuji or some elder could have mediated. Her finger curled back and her eyes showed her attention and her tiredness. These topics have been spin cycled until the fabric has worn. Anu now sees these small moments that led to her making … she has also taken a step past it.

Although, Kavya in her insecurity and jealousy hasn’t moved past Mrs. Anupama Shah. It reminds me of the moment V told Kavya, as she found and trashed pieces of Anu’s presence in their bedroom, that while it’s accepted that things have changed … whatever Anu was to each person of the house, those 26 yrs can’t be trashed in an instant. Kavya wanted to begin with a clean slate .. unfortunately, she wasn’t mature enough to realize that she could only have the family she wanted if she learned how to work with the pieces left behind. She’s an MBA - she should be able to make something work .. instead she proceeded with a chip on her shoulder and a bitter spirit.

Interesting to note, Anuj has no lines today and seemed to keep an ear out to check whether he needed to support Anu; but it was obvious that today was a Shah problem. Anu honestly wasn’t the focus even though her name was brought up multiple times. I liked that he stayed back and part of me feels like his wheels are turning while listening to this. He’s observing, making inferences, and I wonder what impact this moment will have in the future. His presence is comfortable to Anu now and I feel like they’ll discuss this situation as friends would in reality. I’m glad she can now say she has a place of her own to think and live

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fearless_Lover

u cant show colours to a blind person 😆 jo Anu karte hai



P.S:Nice to meet u 😆

Ye bhi sahi hai but she's learning alright and it's just 4 days since she left the house we can't expect a 360 degree turn in her character


I just realised I'm way too partial towards Anupama😆


Ek baat koi usse kehde pange hojane hai by god😆


Nice to meet you too🤗

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Thank you Moksha for reminding the scene of Kavya trying to remove all that belonged to Anupama. Human mind tries to compare the same person's response in 2 occasion and definitely the mind which is so conditioned to look in polarities will compare Ladla's 2 wives.

Renovation can begin with breaking and rebuilding or making a few changes creating a deep impact.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: moonwearer

Anupama is no longer in the house. So how does she decide to rue over the house by getting it transferred to her name in deceitful ways. Jo puri tarh galat thaa😆she took the advantage of the situation in her favour

I have no problem with her saying what she thinks to the shahs . They are her family now. If Vanraj locks himself in a hotel room after Anuj's confession it is between her and Vanraj

Blaming the entire diwali drama on A&A and Leela Hasmukh claiming she is innocent is that fair?

1 of all i m not taking Kavya's side at all ,she is at fault 🤣She has deceived the whole family . Kavya and Leela r equally responsible for the situation . I never denied that 🤣

When she lived so long in Shah House before the expose she got to see their nature.haa, Which was very negative and provoking .

She did point out to Leela her flaws. but recall how Kavya uses every relationship. SHe used all relationships only for her own benefit. Never shy away from taking advantage of the opportunity when it comes.

Kavya is self centered and assumes the universe exists to satisfy her greed.100%Agree🤣


I just want to say that Galti dono tarf se hai , Shah's are not saint 🤣

Just what she said today was in the mind of the audience for a long time🤣

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: moonwearer


What should she do start acting like Leela or Kavya? She will then not be Anupamaa.

no dear I don't want anupamaa to turn evil like them but atleast humari tarah to ho jaaye😆....I mean ek mid point bhi to hota hai na where you are not evil like baa and kavya but not naive like anupamaa.... generally to log aise hi hote hai na

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