Back to Square One😣 - Page 2

With the EMA she severed ties with Vanraj her husband. she has never tried to alienate any family member which is the basic difference between her and Leela and Kavya.

She has said they will have to stay connected as parents.

She has severed ties with Paritosh . She has to sever ties with Pakhi or Vanraj has to do something to alienate Samar further and Pakhi.

Once that happens like Leela's perceived view that Baapuji is a failure Anupama will realise that Vanraj is a terrible dad.

It will be a while before that. She has accepted Vanraj for what he is as she has not seen anything better.

As a provider Vanraj was fine it is on other counts that he failed miserably.

Originally posted by: ..sur..

I made a post about it earlier that the only sin Vanraj has done was having an EMA(in Anu's eyes)

She has convenient forgotten or doesn't give any heed to the constant mental abuse of the past 25 years, how V belittled her, demeaned her, insulted her and so on.

V is a bad husband just because he had an EMA not for his mental torture. Agar EMA nahi kiya hota ya sach bahar nahi aaya hota toh V was a devta for Anu like Baa is still a Devi

Anu needs to upgrade the yardstick she measures ‘sin’ with.

Hell Vanraj and Baa can murder someone in cold blood and Anu will still advocate their so called ‘acchai’

double standards much?

Same boat sista..same boat!! Just coz we are critics today doesnt mean we are not noticing the small progressions..we have applauded and celebrated every single milestone of Anu and Maan.. but sometimes it is draining especially when the progress takes Anu one step further and drama pulls her 10 steps back..😔😔 Maan scenes today did seem a little forced and the emotional scenes of Mamaji did not do anything to me. You piggie back on me for hope and I will rely on you for some kick ass humor and reality check posts🤗🤗

I will say the shayari today was really good and humara ladka subah subah acha lag raha tha😋

Agree with you 100%.... watching Anupama first thing in the morning used to be fun...now it just sets a blah tone for the day....

The entire shah family survives a on validation from each other....does none of them have any ounce of self realization of their worth?? baapujis midnight job hunt was just tiresome...was he trying to make anu feel guilty for taking him in? bas lecture dilwa lo ek doosre ko....kinjal and the generation slept in their cozy night attires and came for the aarti as if everything is hunky dory.....kavya's instigation though consistent looked so fake and OTT....

Also absolutely hate how Anu is treating Anuj like a doormat and for granted....her thank you's to him are also so weak....aaarrrggghhhh the entire track is derailing so badly....

Anu's mom hasn't been seen in her house for a single day or pooja...but Poora shah house staycation mana chuka hai iske ghar....ab Baa bhi pahunch gayi..... absolutely disappointed with the way makers have handled it.

It's always like this, very little progression especially on Anu's part. I think this is makers strategy, when they think audience isn't having it anymore - ek lolipop pakdate he. Then jaise the aise.

I think you summed up my emotions as well. I did think that Bapuji' nightmare could have been handled with little bit more maturity. But again when I think back - this is the age where elders starts behaving child-like. They get really sensitive and insecure. Old age is hard.

With Anu, I have given up on her a long back. Vanraj is selfish and definitely no where near a good father. Anu claiming that repeated makes me question is she a good parent? Because she should have known long ago that he isn't making any good influence on their children. Especially Samar.

Any mom would take her child's insult very personally but here Anu🤦.

Another time was when Anu was pushing Vanraj's and Kavya's wedding. None of the children were happy with it- but it didn't bother Anu or Vanraj.

Isn't second marriage/step mom important in any children's life? They keep screaming indian values but even western people handles it better than this two. Asks for permission before they get in to another wedlock.

She is far better than Vanraj - no doubt but she really needs to get out of her delusion that Shah are perfect/ideal family.

Noticed this got long, I guess even I am frustrated today.

I am bearing with all this bullshit only on a hope to somehow this all crap will develop maan relationship further, it will somehow help in maan progression.

Like toshu track, sanan track did that...same way this all will result in maan's bonding and they are showing it too, although in very small amount in between this crap track like anuj waiting in the car, anuj saying to anu that bapuji is "hamari" responsibility and anu not objecting to it. The expression they gave each other in between like they are understanding each others pain.

So all this is keeping me hooked to the show despite episodes dedicated to tamaShahs.

Originally posted by: ..sur..

I made a post about it earlier that the only sin Vanraj has done was having an EMA(in Anu's eyes)

She has convenient forgotten or doesn't give any heed to the constant mental abuse of the past 25 years, how V belittled her, demeaned her, insulted her and so on.

V is a bad husband just because he had an EMA not for his mental torture. Agar EMA nahi kiya hota ya sach bahar nahi aaya hota toh V was a devta for Anu like Baa is still a Devi

@bold : This is the reason I can’t like anupama for a second ! Agar EMA bahar nahi aya hota toh vanraj hamesha devta pati rehta just like meriii baaa kaaaa jhula 🤢

This lady has zero substance! She never talks and behaves as per her age! She calls herself mother for 30,000 times in 30 minutes but till date never bothered about her darling daughter in law is staying separately !

She calls herself mother but she never bothered about how much her decision was wrong to forcing samar to stay with vanraj due to her dreamy ideology of family.

She calls herself kinjal’s mother but with all hypocrisy she announced that she is cutting ties of kinjal with her mother because of rakhi’s behaviour ! What about her jhuleeee waliiii baaaa ! Even after seeing such a nasty /aggressive behaviour of her baaaaa baaaaa black sheep, can she think for a second about cutting ties with her baaa ! 🤢 Nooo ! 🤢

Anupama and bapuji’s baabul-beti saga is the main reason for post divorce drama ! Anupama agreed to stay in the same house post divorce only because of this baabul beti emotional scene! How can she think in one direction and for one person bapuji only ! She was unable to think in other directions about it is so much wrong on every grounds to stay with paraya mard vanraj and his newly wedded wife!

It truly was a super flat episode😆 everyone agrees.

Are they perhaps going to make maan the bg decoration, while shah drama continues? It is possible since anupama serial revolves as much around the shahs too. Though I'd rather it not for watching them is pure torture.

Now, baa ki bakri nhi..it was vanraj ki bakri ka time. Bandi ko kitni misunderstanding hain. Vanraj can be a good son and thats that. What acha baap? She conviniently forgets samar ki suffering and the fact of toshu's douchebag qualities but who cares!? Also what was the point of praising vanraj in front of anuj!?🤔 i would have understood if her concerns were the drama that vanraj would bring to her house but why tf is she so worried about vanraj ko bura lagega!? Lagne de! Vo aadmi kichad pe kichad uchalta hai and there is no end to your misplaced concerns

Itne forgiving toh bhagwan bhi nhi hai, jitni ye hai.

On the other hand, anuj even spent the night in car for you and baapuji. Atleast, one thanks was in order. The man likes you, you know it but go ahead and praise your ex husband. Dosti hai, understanding hai ..its good but you have to be atleast that aware na.

Also, idk but her using the pallu over and over like a hanky, was really annoying me.

Precap main vanraj ka face was in its usual ballistic mode.😛 dekhna anu, ab tumhari bigdi aulaad ka acha pita aaega tumhare ghar post diwali fireworks karne. Enjoy karna.

I know it's very frustrating....but I took time to understand what all is happening n why....I said this before too much drama is never good but makers don't understand n this is what happened ... earthquake ke hone ke baad after shocks bhi aate hai to make the land go back to somewhat normal ...par yaha makers ne ek ke baad ek earthquake daalte gaye aur ab after shock se recovery chal rahi hai...but sab milakar total mein jyada drama ho gaya jo hume badhasmi de raha hai...

Action ka reaction toh hoga hi ...ab toh aur reaction hone wala hai....Heena maine kaha tha naa yeh baa ka drama khatam nahi hua hai ...aur dekhlo aaj ka precap...pahunch gayi woh anu ke ghar manhusiyat phelane

Ab toh aur drama hoga kyunki yeh teen bandar apne sadar ko apna hi version sunayenge 😆

Humara brain hume kabhi kabhi reality se deal karne ke liye ek nayi reality bana deta hai dimaag mein aur wahi anu ke saath hai ...warna vanraj ko acha baap na kehti woh

Mujhe toh anu ke muh se vanraj ke liye ek bhi acha shabd sunkar jo ghussa ata hai mein kya bataun

Maine kaha tha naa anuj par pura bharosa kar sakti hun ki woh kuch galat nahi karega but anu se umeed lagana Bewakoofi samjhti hun ki woh inn Shah ke liye badlegi

Ab mujhe kya acha laga yeh batati hun

Woh gana suna hai

Dheere dheere aap mere dil ke mehmaa ho gaye

Pehle jaa

Phir jane ja

Phir jaane Jaana ho gaye

https://youtu.be/z_MxcS9Ags4

Maan ka yahi haal hai

Arey ye arey yeh kya wale segment ne hume dikhaya tha ki maan ke souls ek dusre ko soulmates ki tarah pehchan gaye hai n they r together but woh bhi humari tarah dil dimaag shareer se na jude hue maan ko judta dekhne ki aas lagaye baithe hain....

Ab dheere dheere anuj kaise anu ke dil mein phir dimaag mein ghar banalega yeh usse pata bhi nahi chalega....babuji ko kal lekar jate waqt notice kiya how she was looking at him.

Aaj woh jo babuji ke liye neeche reh gaya woh bhi affect karega anu ko kyunki yeh uska swabhav hai ki koi uske liye kuch kare ,usse zyaada uske loved ones ke liye kuch kare uski value anu ko zyada hai

Upar se akele bin family ke babuji ko samjhalna when he is so vulnerable asaan nahi hai n he is there without even her asking....because babuji ab hosh mein bhi kaha hai...warna aise ghar se nahi nikal jaate....itni toh samjh unhe bhi thi ki bina bataye aadhi raat ko nikal jane se anu ka hoga ..but jab unhe hosh hi nahi hai toh socho kitna difficult hai yeh sab ...babuji ko itni buri tarah se toda hai baa ne ki woh ek glass ka pani girane par bhi kitna hill gaye ...asking for forgiveness for such a small thing ...just imagine a father asking for forgiveness to his daughter bas thoda pani girane ke liye kya bitegi daughter ke dil mein ...mere saath hota toh mein bhi hill jati ...so bhale hi na focus hua ho babuji ke saath saath anu bhi bahut vulnerable hai aur uske saath aise time par sirf anuj ne diya ...kissi aur ne nahi

Rahi baat precap ki baa ki bakri ka comeback na ho issi ke liye pray karte hai aur kare bhi kya...anu not stopping babuji was best as he needs to take that decision not her ..n he didn't disappoint there

Anu ke ghar mein tamasha toh expected hai ....but ab woh uska ghar hai...she can throw out v in future ....n babuji threw out baa😆

Ab koi usko ghar se nikal nahi sakta n that is a big step as in past the way she was thrown out crushing her self confidence will no longer happen n it's a good change

Abhi toote hai but judenge tab kya jodi banegi ....anu Anuj Gk aur babuji ki ...sabse dur unki choti family ....dekhlena gk aur babuji will be biggest shippers of maan

Shanti toh bhul jao kyunki Dhoom tana na abhi shuru hua hai

Exactly what i have been screaming in all my posts...what the hell is Anu even talking about? Did she forget how Vanraj humiliated Samar and mocked him at every single gathering calling him nachnewala and stuff? He did not even jump into helping Nandini when Samar needed him the most..ulta he put the blame on Anu and Anuj and sat back on his big fat ego😠 I dont think we need to discuss on how his aankhon k taare Pakhi and Toshu turned out. Anu really pissed me off today🤦‍♀️